Date: 6/10/2003 7:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
No you don't. Has anything happened to you throughout your life that would make you insecure around guys? Is there some type of fear that you have? To tell you the truth, i get the same way sometimes too. And no it's not because there's something wrong with you. There has to be something though that makes you feel the way you do.. in other words a fear. My reason is because of the thought of being raped.. sounds crazy but i just have a fear of that which makes me uneasy around people.. more importantly guys in general. Sorry i probably just went on and on about nothing. You can message me if you want more help. ~EndlessDreamer~  |
Date: 6/10/2003 8:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
My thoughts are along the ling of EndlessDreamers..My first thought was , if anything had ever happened to you around an older man or have you heard stories that might have left somekind of fear with you..As a young child I was molested by an older guy and it left me feeling like this..For along time I couldn't even stand anykind of (touch) contact with an older person..It took years and lots of work to over come these fears..Good luck, I hope things get better for you...  |
Date: 6/10/2003 9:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 48279
has anything happen to you from an older male figure in your life? ~hereisanameforyou  |
Date: 6/11/2003 6:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 42522
Have you had any bad experiences with and males in your life?  |
Date: 6/11/2003 11:24:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36757
thanks endless and i'm sorry to hear nan. no nothing (that i can think of) has ever happened to me from a guy. i know at school the guidance counselor would always come in and drill us on what to do if someone was doing something we didn't like. there was the green flag touch, yellow flag touch, and red flag touch. kinda self explanitory, but anyway, green is ok yellow is kinda uneasy and red is WOOOO!! lol...she'd show us pictures and we'd hold up a flag on how we'd feel. but nope i've never had any bad experience with guys. hm...well tbanks again   |
Date: 6/11/2003 4:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 11054
I wish I could some how help but other then what has already been listed I'm not sure what to tell you other then I'm thinking it will go away with age... I'm not sure what age you are at right now but give it some time see what happens if after a while it hasn't changed I'd talk to your mom or a close friend about it.... Hugs and Love best of wishes  |
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Date: 6/11/2003 6:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36757
thanks buttafly (btw, cute taggie) |
