Date: 6/10/2003 4:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
have you talked to your parents about this? If he won't leave you alone he IS harrassing you and that can be stopped  |
Date: 6/10/2003 4:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61673
i have talked to my mom about it and she said that she would say something to him if he called but im afraid that that'll make it worse and he'll just keep sending me nasty emails.  |
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Date: 6/10/2003 4:16:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61673
thanks everybosy, hes on probabtion right now but his probation officer doesnt even talk to him. but if i go to the police will i have to go to court or anything? |
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Date: 6/10/2003 4:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
you would if you pressed charges for harrassment most likely, i know it's a scary situation i've been there hon *hugs* |
Date: 6/10/2003 5:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 3392
Sweety, Get rid of the bum, can't he take a hint! Take care of yourself first Always!  |
Date: 6/10/2003 6:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
yes, if you press charges, you will have to go to court. i would say if he keeps bothering you, let your mother talk to him. he may listen when she speaks. if not, then call the police and have them go talk to him. if he has been asked to leave you alone and he doesn't respect that request, it is considered harrassment. let him know that you will call the cops if he doesn't leave you alone. that might scare him into listening. i wish you the best  |
Date: 6/10/2003 9:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 48279
i would get the law in on this ... thats just me though ~Hereisanameforyou  |
Date: 6/10/2003 11:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
Since he's on probation, he can't risk another mark against him or he'll go back to jail. That gives you the advantage; so, here's what you do: first, keep a phone log of all the time he calls, past and present. Second, if he sends you emails, print them 9out and keep them with the log. Then, go to court and take out a Restraining Order against him! This means he can't talk to you, or call you; it's basically a legal order which tells him to Go Away! The phone logs and emails will be the proof to the court that this guy is Obsessed. If he violates the Restraining Order, then he will be sent to jail, and this will also violate his parole, which will be a double whammy! You won't see him for a VERY long time.  |
Date: 6/11/2003 12:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61673
thanks everybody! i dont know if he got my email yet but he hasnt called. im waiting to see if he'll write back or keep calling. well thanks again! *hugs*  |
Date: 6/11/2003 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 11054
I would put a block on any of his numbers as well as going as far as a restraining order if he is scaring you that much go to the police department and tell them the situation they will have you fill out some papers and put a restraining order on him.... you will have a copy of the papers and the cops will serve him with his papers.. this will keep him from calling or coming within so many hundereds of yards from you or your house.... THat's what I would do and if he violates it you call the cops and he deals with them then no longer has time to hassel you. Maybe the papers will give him the hint you are serious and if he does pursue something will be done about it immediatly... Hope this helps... Hugs and Love  |
