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What am I to do.............

  Author: 62114  Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/9/2003 3:55:00 PM)
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O.K. first off I just kind of split up with my baby's daddy and realized that I am probably over him because I hooked up with someone that I've worked with for 3 years and it was supposed to just be a fling but today I saw him with a girl from Virginia(he went on vacation there about a week ago, he's known her for years) and they were standing there together and had there arms around each other and it kind of upset me. Made my face red got my pulse going. We've hooked up 2 times in the past week and I didn't think that I would get attached to him but I think I have and he is basically my dream man but he is a dog and treats other girls like crap but he has always been very nice to me and never said one mean thing to me, he is grat with my daughter. I just don't know how he feels about this girl but, I think he cares about her alot I just don't know where I stand. Plus the place we work we really couldn't make it obvious that we were an item if anything did start. It just hurts my heart but I know we both told each other that it was just for our needs and that nothing would come of it. I really didn't think anything would but today it really bothered me when I saw them together and they looked happy. What do I do. Please help me figure this out.

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Date: 6/9/2003 4:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    You move on hon..Im sorry, but I dont know what else to tell you..You pick up and you move on..You know..there is nothing wrong with taking some time to get to know YOU..You were in a long term relationship and jumped into another one immediately..You need to take some time for yourself to find out exactly where you want your life to go.  
Date: 6/9/2003 5:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 61977    Its hard for us women not to get attached even when we tell ourselves that we will not. You both agreed on what the deal was, before even starting. Plus you both work together. Continue to be friends but you deserve someone who wants you. You have your little one to think about to. Sorry hon.  
Date: 6/9/2003 5:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 8278    as hard as it may be, you have to move on. you both went into it knowing it wasn't going to go anywhere. and it may hurt alot now, but that decision was made before the two of you got together. it is only fair to keep the agreement you may have had and move on. i wish you the best.  
Date: 6/9/2003 7:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    personally... i think you should be thinking more about yoru daughter then about your flings... you should be living for her and for her to be happy you shouldn't bring men in and out of her life on a whim... it isn't good for her  
Date: 6/9/2003 7:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 7654    Agreeing with him that the two of you were just there for each others needs and that nothing would ever come of this relationship should tell you something..Standing near you with this other girl in his arms should tell you even more...Don't walk away from this relationship with this guy but RUN !....  
Date: 6/10/2003 5:54:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62114    First off my daughter only sees him like once a month for like two minutes. I live for my daughter. She is my sun , my moon, the air I breathe.Nansassy you are right, I've thought about it and I will run, actually am running right now!!LOL!Thanks yall for your advice!
Date: 6/10/2003 9:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 48279    well if he is a dog, than why would you be with him? maybe ask him about it ... approach him at work and ask him if you guys could hang out and go to dinner to talk. Tell him about your feelings ... good luck ... i really dont know what to say but i hope everything goes for the better. Maybe he isnt the one for you ... ~Hereisanameforyou  
Date: 10/18/2008 6:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    It's never a good policy to get hooked up with someone you work with, especially after a recent break-up. It's a rebound situation and you are feeling very vulnerable at the time and anyone giving you caring and kindness can be misinterpreted as something else...I know this is an old post but I hope your life worked out okay for you hun...  

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