Date: 6/8/2003 8:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 53900
Hmmm that is alot of observations...yes I dislike bullies but many times if you befriend the bully and try to dig deeper you will see they are just afraid or have been bullied themselves it is a defense mechanism....as for friends I believe you only have two maybe three true friends in a life time the ones who will be there always through thick and thing ups and downs no matter what you do they are there. That is my thoughts on those things...this was an interesting post  |
Date: 6/8/2003 8:21:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
Jessica...Yes alot of observations...I just wanted to see how many people think like me at least in one or two of them.  |
Date: 6/8/2003 8:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 22852
uh oh Kiki, what happened? Someone must have hurt you in some way for you to write this and I am sorry for that. My theory on why people jump on someone who does something wrong is because it makes the person feel better about themselves, that the person has done something teerrible themselves and wants to pull the light away from them, do you understand what I mean? I myself believe there are 3 parts to everything that happens, his side, her side and something in the middle that is the truth, I listen to both sides and and to be honest do not take either side, I stay neutral.. Unless it has benn done to me and I see it with my own eyes. And if someone tells me that so and so said this about me I get that person together and ask for the truth from both of them. As for opening jars, oh heck I just give them to my husband to open..LOL  |
Date: 6/8/2003 8:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 54444
Actually, I witness most all of these each day and I gotta agree they are like the little foxes that spoil the vine. Good post KIKI  |
Date: 6/8/2003 8:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 53558
I catch your drift, Kiki. Good post. Great big hugs. Take care.  |
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Date: 6/8/2003 9:10:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
LOL Stormykitten...it was only an example..about the jar..hehehe..ok what if our hubby was at work though..hehehe... |
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Date: 6/8/2003 9:11:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
A...welcome back again hun!!! |
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Date: 6/8/2003 9:11:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
MOA...I like that saying! Thank you for your comment! |
Date: 6/8/2003 10:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
i know... a simple typo can be mistaken as a spelling error and people jump down your throat! or you say the wrong word  |
Date: 6/8/2003 11:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 28946
Yep! I see these observations alot and I think that is why I stayed in my cave for months at a time without leaving. Why should I leave when people would make up stories about me anyway or if I post her, it always got back to people at home that didn't even have a computer. I don't know Kiki why things happen like they do but surely, in the end, everything will even out. I hope.  |
Date: 6/8/2003 11:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 13546
People like to pounce on the mistakes and imprefections of others, rather then look at the good, well.. not all people do that, but a lot of people do that. Sometimes its hard to tell who your real friends are, until your world comes crashing down. I can open up jars pretty good! Well.. sometimes.. lol, if I can't, I make my dad open them for me. Never had that group of friends thing happen to me, ah, that is creul indeed! .. I don't hate anything, or anyone.. although I have had a lot of creul things done to me in my life, I refuse to hate them. I have been victum to many bullies in my life. And I will not stoop down to their level.. I've been hurt.. but I learned to let it roll off of my back. Good post keeks!   |
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Date: 6/8/2003 1:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
True Midnighty...I am afraid we can come to the wrong conclusions with just a typo also! |
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Date: 6/8/2003 1:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
Penny I believe in that also...what goes around comes around. |
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Date: 6/8/2003 1:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
Thanks Cassy!...I wish I were more like you about the roll..but the hurt(if done to me or my loved ones) will stay there for a while...yes I heal slow...and then someone turns the knife. I would love to become a stronger person...some say I am...but I know I am not! |
Date: 6/8/2003 2:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Some people just like to insult people cuz they don't like them for what ever reason! Yet remember KIKi the person doing the insulting shows everyone how cruel they really are as a human being! Heck I'd take a hammer to the jar to open it!! LOL! Good post!  |
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Date: 6/8/2003 4:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
LOL@Moonie about the hammer!hehee |
Date: 6/8/2003 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
wowser kiki, what a post you got here....I have to agree with you though. You have been busy havent you.....  |
Date: 6/8/2003 6:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
yes hun, while you do everything right...its all good and well, but if we dare make a wrong move in any way whatsoever, there is always someone ready to swoop down and never let you forget it..I've only just found out the easy way to open a jar of peanut butter or jam and that was to break the seal under the lid with a fork or something metal and then it just comes straight off, and another thing, I was bullied nearly all my young and early adult life, but I learnt the hard way to deal with it...soooooo noone and I mean NO-ONE dares to try now lol!!! good post Sista kat.....hugs  |
Date: 6/8/2003 8:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
Zema..you are one of the most sweetest I have met here at USM...never change!  |
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Date: 6/8/2003 8:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15157
Kat!lol..ya I have alot of time on my paws for now. |
