Date: 6/7/2003 11:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 7952
Oh i'm so sorry this is happening to you  From what i can tell, your boyfriend isn't cheating. It is very easy for people to make up IM conversations. And this Jennifer girl seems jealous. Stick with him and see what happens.. but i doubt he is cheating.. and i hope i'm not wrong  |
Date: 6/7/2003 11:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
Wow, it sounds like a bunch of little snots trying to make you miserable. If it were me, I'd tell quite a few people to butt the heck out.Iwould not believe something rfom someone who 1) doesn't like you,2) likes your boyfriend, and 3) is known for lieing. If it helps, try talking to you're boyfriend, don't make it sounds like you're accusing him of cheating, just tell him all that stuff frfom themis making you scared.  |
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Date: 6/7/2003 11:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
I'm with DW, it doesn't sound like hes cheating. |
Date: 6/8/2003 12:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55988
Thanks, I hope he's not cheating either... but the thing is I've heard Mandie talk about Justin before to his sister... and if I ask him about it and he really was lying that night, he's just gonna lie again right? But that night would have bee nthe "perfect time" to break up with me and he didn't soo.. I don't know I'm so confused...  \  |
Date: 6/8/2003 5:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
trust your instinct.....and the facts....with these kinds of things you just dont know and i know htat it might seem like you should dump him first, but if he says i dont want to go out with you and im not saying now but when the time comes all you say is STOP im not going to hear this anymore becuase im dumping you....lolz i dunno just an idea!
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Date: 6/8/2003 7:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 60945
personally, I don't think that he's cheating on you. If Whitney is known for lying and starting rumors and the such, don't trust her. If Mandie likes your guy, then don't trust any of that crap that she's saying either. If Jennifer is for you and Justin breaking up, ignore her. You can't do anything if Mandy goes to their house, unless you're there when she is. They all sound jealous to me, I wouldn't trust anything that they're saying. THey're known for trying to break people up! Well, hope I helped! *hugz*  |
Date: 6/8/2003 8:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 53900
Well I would just go with what he says for now and not worry to uch about it because if he feels you do not trust him then he may start to distance himself until you do break up. JUst kinda try to be aware to little changes in him and see how he acts around this other girl when you can.  |
Date: 6/8/2003 9:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 6915
Believe your boyfriend, not them. I mean, they have a well known HISTORY of doing this stuff....don't trust em. :0) good luck hun  |
Date: 6/8/2003 10:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 48279
If these girls have a past of lying history, dont believe a word theyre saying. That broke me up with a guy i was with for a year and a half. Stuff went around that I was cheating on him ... stupid stuff. I dont believe in cheating ... its dumb. But i dont want it to happen to you. So the only people that matter in your relationship is you and your boyfriend. Do not! and I mean DO NOT let other people talk for your boyfriend. You guys need to talk yourselves to each other. And after you talk .. if there is still that little place inside where you believe the girls .. then maybe you should take a break or something, because the key thing in a relationship is trust. And if you dont have that, you dont have anything. Just listen to him ... im sure he isnt. All I hear out of that is a buncha "i heard she said, he said" stuff. Dont ever believe second hand stuff. Its like that game telephone. The time it gets to the last person, its totally different than what the original person said. So hun, just talk to him. Good luck and best of wishes ~Hereisanameforyou  |
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Date: 6/8/2003 10:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 48279
If these girls have a past of lying history, dont believe a word theyre saying. That broke me up with a guy i was with for a year and a half. Stuff went around that I was cheating on him ... stupid stuff. I dont believe in cheating ... its dumb. But i dont want it to happen to you. So the only people that matter in your relationship is you and your boyfriend. Do not! and I mean DO NOT let other people talk for your boyfriend. You guys need to talk yourselves to each other. And after you talk .. if there is still that little place inside where you believe the girls .. then maybe you should take a break or something, because the key thing in a relationship is trust. And if you dont have that, you dont have anything. Just listen to him ... im sure he isnt. All I hear out of that is a buncha "i heard she said, he said" stuff. Dont ever believe second hand stuff. Its like that game telephone. The time it gets to the last person, its totally different than what the original person said. So hun, just talk to him. Good luck and best of wishes ~Hereisanameforyou |
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Date: 6/8/2003 10:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 48279
sorry that was submitted twice ... my apologies. ~Hereisanameforyou |
Date: 6/8/2003 10:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 13119
YOu should get together with him and explain how much the stories are affecting you, you still love him but want to know if he would be willing to confront the witch with you. If not, don't worry he probably just doesn't like confrontation.  |
Date: 6/8/2003 11:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
well do you want to listen to your BF or do you want to listen to the rumor mill? i've lost a few great friends and great boyfriends to that evil rumor mill... they are trying to make you give up something you like... and it isn't right... don't listen... it's hear-say... and a line of 3-4 different people is a little excessive!! tell your friend to stop trying to break the two of you up... or your going to start thinking she is on the other girls side and she sould rather see YOUR BF with the other girl or someone else.... they gave you an easy out.... don't take it!(too many people do)  |
Date: 6/8/2003 11:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 62184
You really answered your own question, why would Mandy out of the blue start saying things like this? Without intention to get between you and your boyfriend. And due to her liking your boyfriend, she's jealous of you because you have him and she doesn't. From what you've said, he doesn't seem like he's cheating on you. Plus, what's her name..the major liar is going to say anything to get beneath your skin. If you're really concerned talk to your boyfriend, don't listen to what someone else has to say. I'm sorry you have to go through this though. Let me know if you want more help. ~EndlessDreamer~  |
Date: 6/8/2003 3:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55988
Thanks you guys... I do trust him more than anything, but when someone says something like that, and you keep hearing it, you can't help but get a little worried. I don't like confrontation, so I think I'm just gonna base this on how he acts around me. Thanks again, you all had very good points  |
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Date: 6/8/2003 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
if you don't stand up for yourself you will be walked all over... high school is dog eat dog the weak get walked on and taken advantage of and the strong take control |
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Date: 6/8/2003 6:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55988
i might talk to him about it.. because i just heard something new... Jennifer said she talked to Mandie.. and Mandie said that she still talks to him sometimes... I just don't know what's truth and what's lies anymore.. |
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Date: 6/9/2003 10:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 48279
Ok .. well is it bad if he talks to her? Now, it all depends on what they talk about, but thats where your trust has to come in. Just see how he is, and talk to him about it. Maybe spend more time with him so that he doesnt have time to spend with them....just a thought hehe ~Hereisanameforyou |
