Date: 6/6/2003 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
Yea i know where you're coming from. All i can really say is talk to her about it and make a promise that if one of you were to go out with him, the other would be happy for them. You're going to feel jealousy and what not because you did like him. She's your best friend though, always keep that in mind, and guys shouldn't come between friends. Like i said though, just talk to her again about it.. see if there's something more you or she wants to say. I'd suggest looking at other guys too, since this one's not willing to date at the moment. No use waiting forever, right? Anyway i hope i made some sense here. Good luck. Message me if you need more help. ~EndlessDreamer~  |
Date: 6/6/2003 5:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16155
Thanx endless, yea we did talk about bein happy for the other and what notbut im still worried for sum reason...i dont know why! lol im just so lost right now  |
Date: 6/6/2003 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i think you both should ask yoruself what is more important.. the friendship or the guy?? most likely you will say the friendship and both agree to swear off this guy and leave him be...both of you not chase after him... because if one of you get him... the other one will feel... well a little jelous, left out and feel like a third wheel...  |
Date: 6/7/2003 5:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
You have 2 choices 1 is to say you are both better of with out him so you 2 don't fight but then nither of you get him. And 2 is that if one of you gets the chance then they should take it then atleast one of you gets him but the other is felling hurt. Hope it all works out though.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 6/7/2003 8:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 60945
yeah, my friend and I liked the same guy before, and she was really competative about it, and when he asked her out, she made a big deal of it right in front of me. Needless to say, she made me really mad, and I figured out that if she thought that this guy was more important than me, then I don't think we should be friends. I don't speak to her anymore, and the guy was just using her  |
Date: 6/7/2003 9:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 22681
I know what you're going through. THis just happened with me & my best friend a couple months ago. The guy we liked flirted w/ us equally, but it turns he didn't like either of us. (I think he was just messin' w/ us cuz he knew we both liked him) And, he started dating one of our other friends. But, I never really cared what happened, because I don't really get all caught up in that... good luck!  |
Date: 6/7/2003 7:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
think about it...is he worth hurting ur relationship with her?!! seriously..in the end since u're probably young you'll find other guys maybe you should let this one go both of you..because whoever does end up dating him will just hurt the other. So if you honestly think he's worth losing your friend, then go for it  |
Date: 6/7/2003 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 48279
The best idea is for both of you to drop him. You dont want it to get in the way, and trust me, it will. So what both of you need to do is just let him go ... ~Hereisanameforyou  |
Date: 6/8/2003 12:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 55988
Yeah I've been in this position before... what I've learned from this kind of thing is that it's really up to the guy. Whoever he likes more would really be the better one for him right? But there's no reason not influencing his decision... drop him hints that you like him or something. But I guess whatever happens happens.. ~Alicia  |
