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Date: 5/30/2003 6:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 11341
Oh geez I am so sorry. Talk about a huge slap in the face. I know what I would do, but I will just say follow your heart sweets. *hugs*  |
Date: 5/30/2003 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
You need to go tell your boss that you are very upset about a family crisis and that you need to go home. You can't work in a situation like this. I am so so sorry. This is an awful thing to go through and I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now. But I do think that you should tell your husband. If you keep this from him and then he finds out that you knew and never told him, that would cause a lot of problems for you. I say save your own butt and tell him. Besides, why should you respect this woman's wishes when she obviously never respected you... I am really sorry this happened to you. If you need to talk just msg me!  |
Date: 5/30/2003 7:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
I agree with everything release me has said...My thoughts are with you...Im so sorry.  |
Date: 5/30/2003 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
Sweetie, Release Me is right. That woman might have said she wanted forgiveness but why did she bring the baby? She did flaunt the baby in your face. Hugs to you, Honey and you are in my thoughts and prayers.  |
Date: 5/30/2003 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i don't know... she was dead wrong to come to your workplace with the child and talk to you about it... if she didn't want the father to know she SHOULDN'T have brought the child with her....i think deep down she wanted you to know... this could but a magor strain on your relationship(it probally already has) it you don't tell it will constantly eat you up inside... you need to tell your boss your having a personal crisis and ask if you can go home... tell them you are useless in the condition you are in and you will put in extra hours or pick up a shift another day(hopefully you will have an accomidating boss).. i keep on leading towards tell your husband... he has a right to know he has a child(even though the women should be the one telling him!!) you shouldn't have to hold this secret... but there is the chance it might come back and bite him in the butt in the form of child support  |
Date: 5/30/2003 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
I agree with what the others said. You don't owe this woman anything. If you want to tell your husband, go ahead and do it. Really you need to go on home tonight if you can. This is too much of a shock to stay and work under all the pressure. Feel free to message me if you need me. I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this.  |
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Date: 5/30/2003 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I am so sorry your going through all of this. Your huband should know that the child is his becuase he will find out after while and he will even more upset that no told him and child must know who it's father is. Hope is all works out. *Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 5/30/2003 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 55841
The woman is lying to your husband through the omission of the truth about his child. She is asking you to become an accomplice in this lie, by helping her to perpetuate it. After the things she has done, you owe her nothing. You should follow your heart, but I do believe that the truth is always the best. Sooner or later, in some way, it will come out. If your husband finds out that you knew, he will wonder why you kept it from him and, in fact, may resent that you kept him from his child. My advice is to go to your husband, tell him what you have told us, and then the two of you should work out together where to go from here. The best of luck to the two of you! Much love, -Lotus Blossom  |
Date: 5/30/2003 10:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
the women could of jsut kept the secret after all it has been 4 years...she says that the man didnt even know about hte child then why did she after 4 years come and tell you about it! I think that there might be something else behind what hse is trying to do. im really sorry that this has happened to you and i wish you all the best for the future...*hugz*  |
Date: 5/31/2003 5:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
I'm so sorry your going through this! That must be horrid. Hon, i think if you want your marriage to work out, ur gonna have to confront him...*hugs*  |
Date: 6/3/2003 8:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
omg sis, im so sorry. i dont know what u decided, but i do know , no matter what it is his child, and he deserves to know. she had no right to ask u to keep that a secret. none what so ever. im so sorry u r having to deal with this. i wish i could take away all your pain sweety, if u ever need me , u know im here 4 u hun. love and huge ,huge huggs shay  |
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