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| Date: 5/29/2003 4:56:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56651 sometimes i feel desensitized to feeling things, i guess i have been through alot of bad situations and it's stopping me from going forward in life. i'm glad my life is moving foraerd though, thanks to my mom and the changing years of my life. |
Date: 5/29/2003 5:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
You can't ever make it to 2nd base by keeping your foot on first. You ever hear the expression "Feel the fear, and DO it anyway"? Instead of dwelling on the "What if's?" Try thinking of the "Why Not"?. Don't let FEAR control your life. Sit down and list WHAT you want; Set some goals; make a PLAN, and set about MAKING IT A REALITY.  |
Date: 5/29/2003 5:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
everyone leaves the nest... birds push thier young out of the nest.... are you working?? if you are get an apartment in your home town(baby steps) are you planning to do any more schooling... you need to toss yourself out into the world... feel the thrill of being independant... it is a great thrill and a great feeling to be on your own  |
Date: 5/29/2003 9:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
Moving out doesn't mean you can't call your mom whenever things happen. You can still rely on your parents, but also become a stronger person and start to take on adult responsibilities. Yes, moving out for the first time might suck, heck mine did (and I was only 18). But you become a better person and learn what you will and will not tolerate and how to move on with your life. You will probably actually enjoy it after the first few months. I can't think of anyone who hasn't enjoyed their own independence and their new sense of freedom. And I agree with what Thinker said.  |
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Date: 5/30/2003 11:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 46139
OMG,you do not know what you are missing.I moved out at 20 and it was great I found out who I was as a person.Made my own decisions,decorated my house how I wanted to and didn't have to answer to anybody about any decisions I made....this was great try it you'll love it too.  |
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Date: 5/30/2003 12:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i moved out at 19 and in with my BFf 15+ hours away from my home...i brought everything of mine and i honestly would enver go back(i'm now 21 and we just recently bought a condo) we now have a roomate who is 25 years old and he calls his mother on a daily basis(or she calls him) they spend atleast one afternoon together a week(going out for coffee or something)he is indepentant but he still hasen't left behind his mom....he still hasen't fuly grown up.. but your not expected to become an adult over night you don't have to give up your childhood to be on your own.. heck i still have my collection of eeyores and my baby blanky.. i still act like a kid sometimes... i'm not giving up my freenatured childhood but i'm mixing it with responsabilities |
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Date: 5/30/2003 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
To me this fear of being an adult can come from the fact that you feel like your going to screw up and low conferdence and trust. You must realize what your good at and you won't feel as though your going to screaw up and also your conferdence and trust will go up. Just chill and enjoy being an adult. Think positive is my point here. And may many great things happen to you in life. *Cosmic Feak*  |
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