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Date: 5/29/2003 2:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
you're not alone on this one...I'm scared to tell someone how I feel about them, how I've had a b/f for the past 2 years is something I can't figure out...I also am afraid to call ppl, dunno why, when I was younger it was hard for me to even get off the phone, now I don't want anything to do w/ the things  |
Date: 5/29/2003 2:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 18261
I'm an old lady, and I'm scared too!!! I'm not scared of me, I'm scared of them......We are all scared of not being accepted, we can't stand rejection, we really don't love ourselves...we all need help!!  |
Date: 5/29/2003 2:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
So in other words SweetPea, you are TOTALLY NORMAL!! We all have feelings like this at one time or another..ESPECIALLY when you are growing up. You can talk to me anytime sweety..you can tell me anything and I would NEVER turn my back on you.  |
| Date: 5/29/2003 3:10:00 PM From Authorid: 53308 Its hard cuz like everyone else I have the feeling...but I've gotten to the point where i dont care anymore. i could care less if people like me/hate me or think i'm stupid...i dont care they can take how they feel about me and shove it cuz i'm so fed up i'm happy if people never talk to me again! hopefully, this wont happen to you. My advice is STOP WORRYING soo much about other people. if you are comfortable with yourself do what you want adn feel good about it! Jennie |
Date: 5/29/2003 3:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 49150
Most everyone feels just like you do. It gets easier the old you get. You find your not so worried about what others think, because you have bigger worries, like mortgages, car payments and the biggest of all worries.....kids.  |
Date: 5/29/2003 3:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
Amy, you remind me a lot of my bride in this post. They won't talk to anyone she doesn't know at all. I don't know why she ever talked to me in the first place. I guess I just have a way of putting people at ease. I don't know. As for the phone, if anyone ever tries to pop out of the receiver and bite your face off, hang up. LOL! There's nothing to be scared of.  |
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Date: 5/29/2003 3:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I meant, 'she' not 'they'. I took a short nap earlier and I'm not quite awake yet. |
Date: 5/29/2003 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 57404
I agree, this is a normal feeling. You are sensitive and don't want to be a burden to anyone. I used to be like this, but got to the point where I realized that my feelings mattered and what I thought mattered even if it only mattered to me. It STILL mattered. And I learned not to care what people think, either they like me or they don't. I don't try to hurt people or do mean things. If they don't like me, I can't let that break me. Life is about learning lessons of all sorts and sometimes the hardest ones are the ones about ourselves that we learn. If someone hurts you, they may not know it and may never know it unless you tell them. If someone is very special to you, they may not know it unless you tell them. So try not to be so scared. People that care about you will care how you feel and everything. :-) I get scared of phoning people too.. I'm still working on getting over that fear! LOL God Bless  |
Date: 5/29/2003 4:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 46527
Because you're a normal teenager, that's as good a reason as any  |
Date: 5/29/2003 5:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
you need to build up yoru confidence... your afraid to depend on people for the sake of being let down... what is a VERY common thing.....when i find it's hard to say something i write it... or instant message it to people(ICQ comes in VERY handy for that)  |
Date: 5/29/2003 6:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 49037
You're definitly not alone. I've felt that way, too. I am afraid of many things. I hate calling people or talking to most people. I just get nervous that they'll think I'm stupid or something.  |
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Date: 5/30/2003 11:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 46139
I use to be this way and eventually you will grow out of it...well some of it not all.  |
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Date: 5/30/2003 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I use to be like you it is an alful fear I know. The resoan I was like that was because of being rejected so much in my life by people because I am not good enaf for them. I got over that by thinking who needs to inpress them. I use to be affrid of being murdered in my sleep aswell I have not got to much memory of how I got over that. I think both fears started with the fact that my class who were complet jerks started judging me and putting me down on basicly every move I made at school that mad all scared and worried all the time and I full on hated my self. You could even have Anxiety it's were you worry lots if any of our advise dose not help then go see someone about this. Because if you do have Anxiety then it will get worse over the years. Hope it all works out. *Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 6/8/2003 2:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 62104
I think you have a problem with your self confidence/self esteem. I know how you feel though because I have a problem with people too. About a year ago I learned I have mild depression and anxiety problems and now am taking medication. Try to open up slowly to people and you will find that they will open up to you too. Your problem is very common and therefore are they are likely to be feeling the same way as you are. With your sleeping problem, I'd suggest going to see someone about that, you might have problem deeper than you think, as it is not normal to be feeling unsafe to go to sleep at night. Please seek some help, you will feel better for it. Good luck, Hugs Amanda1  |
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