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Communication--by Emi

  Author:  1799  Category:(Discussion) Created:(5/29/2003 2:01:00 PM)
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(you know, I hate it when I actually know how to spell something, but then I forget when I need to spell it. lol. Sorry, minor rant within a bigger rant post. I'm talking about my title by the way. if i spelled that wrong, tell me..lol.)

Well, lets just say my life is kind of sucky right now, so don't mind my rants. I didn't have the strength or mind to write my story today, but I'm awake enough to write this small rant before I faint onto my bed and don't wake up until the alarm screeches at me!

I honestly don't understand people sometimes in this world. I mean, they sit around and complain about problems yet they do nothing about them. I admit that I do this sometimes, but for the most part, I tend to speak my mind about what is bugging me, as DeziA has learned.

But I noticed today through some friends that they never talk about their problems with each other it seems. I hear both sides for the most part, but they never talk to each other. Now, I know I'm easy to talk to and good support, but shouldn't they work things out with the person who their problem is with?

I was being kind of bad and trying to manipulate my friend into saying something to their love in study hall because #1. they need to talk about things after all thats been going on, and #2. it's obvious that she needs to talk about it with her, not with me.

To be quite honest, I feel like I'm a helpless blob in the middle, not sure what to do. While I'm happy they come to me for advice since I really want to be their friend, they don't seem to listen to my advice.

Isn't communication and honesty what makes a relationship, love or friendship, work?

Okay, me done.

* Emi *

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Date: 5/29/2003 2:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 18261    That's the way it should be, sometimes that's an impossible task for some. I'm an old woman, and I can't live without comunication, it kills me, hey, I'm lying, I totally live without it, actually, when it comes to my partner. My relationship with him is based on silence, he can't listen and/or take what I have to say, and at this point I can't say. It's bad, it hurts me a lot, but I've lost myself along the way, not to complicate things...very coward of me...You are right...I don't understand the world; him and/or what's worse, myself!  
Date: 5/29/2003 2:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 54247    Communication is the key to survival and understanding. Sadly, honesty in communication can kill any friendship or love! RAT
Date: 5/29/2003 3:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 53308    Oh dear! I know exactly what you are talking about! My friends do the same thing! its a viscious cycle...they really dont care about your advice, they just need someone to complain to...i hate being in that situation...it may seem like your being a bad friend but i honestly suggest you tell them how you feel. stuff like that brought alot of stress upon me...u wouldnt think friends could do that but they did...they almost took my sanity...i had to tell them how i felt and i needed time alone...lots of it...so dont get so personal in their lives becuz it could lead to alot of horrible things...like right now...i hate people...cant stand them...soo...do what you can to be a good friend and things work out on their own...try to stay neutral and just to let you know...they will never tell each other about their problems w/each other cuz they dont want to...its a pride/dont-want-to-cuz-i-like-to- complain-about-it-longer thing...its life and it sux. good luck though....jennie
Date: 5/29/2003 5:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    you feel like a third wheel in thier relationship... and you don't want to feel that way... you need to tell both of them that you don't want to be the messanger anymore that the only way they are going to get through there issues are to talk to eachother and not you!(it might even be worth it to say it when they are in the same room together and then walk away leaving them alone...they should then talk)  
Date: 5/29/2003 9:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 31765    My guy is great about communication. Maybe in some ways actually better at it than I am. His attitude is...let's get this out in the open...put it on the table and discuss. Yes, getting the problem cleared up may be painful, but not nearly as painful as letting it stay inside until one is seething with andger and resentment. <I've learned a lot from him lol> So yes, communication is necessary. What's the point without it?   

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