Look At It From A Man's Point Of View........

I have gained some wonderful insight from the following perspective. Open your mind, your eyes, absorb it, remember it, THINK about it. Realize and imagine it.



I have a cousin who works as a juvenile defender and an uncle who works as a juvenile prosecutor, both deal with messed up kids all day long and the same thing comes out of most of those kids mouths and that's that they have no self esteem, no self worth, no self value and feel like they have no place and most of them are male. When the big uproar went on with pushing equality for females which needed to be done, it seems like male children were forgotten. It's all about making females feel good about themselves and that's great but what are the two sexes taught. Women are taught to be self sufficient, that they don't need a man, that they can do anything a man can do, they're generally fed more positive reinforcement, cut more slack and given self esteem, to never let a man try to keep them down, never let a man walk on them etc. Men are taught that men are scum, that they oppress woman, to yuck it up, they're bashed from the time they're little just in what they hear and not even to their face. A male child can listen to a woman talk on the phone for hours about their father or about men and hear every word and take it to heart, do women stop to realize that when they just do it in everyday conversation venting about men that a child hears that also. Men abandon their families, men beat woman, men rape woman, men are jerks, men are stupid, men don't get it. It's a very male hostile world for a child. There's not the resources for men out there that there are for women. Even though domestic violence is almost equal there are hardly any shelters for men to go to. Some shelters won't even let a woman in if she has a male child over the age of 11 or 12, that's pretty sad. What is society teaching them, that men are dispensable, they're not needed, and there is no place for them. They join gangs, they murder, they rape, they commit crimes younger and younger because they have no self worth and they act out the stigma that was placed on them. They walk out when they get a girl pregnant because they don't have the confidence in themselves to do the right thing because what they were taught kicks in and they feel like they'd just mess it up if they stayed. Some guys walk out because they're jerks and nothing more, but get down to the real reason most guys do it and it's because of what they were taught growing up. The ones who don't walk out most of the time either see that it's not the right thing to do and even though they're unsure they try or they were taught some self worth as a child. More male children are molested then female, men are usually the ones who molest, but most people who molest were molested as children, more male children are physically abused then female children, males have a higher rate of suicide, females attempt more but it's more a cry for help then an actual attempt. Who does the school shootings, males, Andrea Yates had one daughter and four sons, the women who drove her car into the lake had two sons, the woman in texas who just killed two of her children and one survived they were all males. It seems to me there's a problem with this picture. But where is the support for males when they need it? When they're innocent children, before they turn out to be juvenile delinquents before they turn out to be the men who walk out on their responsibilities. This website to use as an example, all the male bashing that happens here, I'm old enough to see that sometimes people are just venting and they may not mean what they say, they're anger gets the best of them, but do you think that some male kid who's 11, 12, 13 who sees the same thing is going to understand that? For the most part he's not, he's going to see it and believe it because that's what he hears and sees almost on a daily basis from his mother, his aunts, grandmothers, sisters, female teachers, and the female side of society. If you don't do this with your sons, that's great, maybe they'll grow up with a little bit of self worth and feel like he has a place in this world.

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