Date: 5/21/2003 6:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
Some people are just shallow and insensitive. I hope you find someone who will be what you want and will let you know that they feel the same for you as you do them.  |
Date: 5/21/2003 7:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 16069
Boys tend to play games. What the heck, men play games too. Your just going to have to play along or move along.  |
Date: 5/21/2003 7:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 19625
Guys are dumb like that. At one point, I was kinda mad at my boyfriend for not comeing to see me even though he said he would (it was because he was too lazy, he didn't haveing anything going on that wouldn't allow him to come see me). Then later on the phone that night, I was saying something, and finished and he didn't say anything, then he goes "This is kinda boreing" I'm like "Oh, well do you want me to let you go" he's like "Yeah." it made me soooo mad, and hurt my feelings too. But I know he didn't mean it like he said it, he just didn't know what else to say and they always assume that they should tell the truth about EVERYTHING, they don't know that it doesn't it doesn't hurt to tell a little white lie every once in a while, even if it's the truth, if it's something kinda dumb but would hurt her feelings if she knew the absolute truth, then just fake it or something. *shrugs* that's all I can figure. Guys can say stupid things just cuz they don't know what else to say. Erin-  |
Date: 5/21/2003 11:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 60162
Men are totally different to women! They dont think like we do and they have "macho" drilled into them at such a young age, you cant really completely blame them. Just tell him how you feel and if he annoys you then tell him hes annoying you too, they need some training and we unfortunatly have to do it. LOL  |
Date: 5/22/2003 6:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 60685
They can never get it right, I guess they were born without that part of the brain.  |
Date: 5/22/2003 9:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
It's genetic! We are programmed to be insensitive. LOL Actually guys show interest by what they do, not what they say. Does your guy pay attention to you? Does he do things with you? Is he happy when he is with you? On the otherhand women are verbal. They have to talk about their feelings.  |
Date: 5/22/2003 2:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 53094
yes guyz have to say dumb stuff that hurts! I know I have been hurt from stuff they brought up. Just dn't let it bother you to much,I know it's easir said then done but hy he's a guy. No matter what he says or does and the stupid thing that might happen he might not be able to hep it cuz he is scared and well once again a GUY!!! (oh no afense to other guys it's just from past exerence)  |
Date: 5/22/2003 3:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 51463
lol we're not good with words, and an action is worth a hundred words... thus a picture of the action is worth 1100 words! Yes I'm done with my English Essay! No, but that could just be sarcasm trying to get you to laugh and it just came out wrong, like the time my ex gf said she weighed four hundred pounds and instead of saying 'you hide it well' i said 'you sure show it', and that just isn't compliment of the century material. But, that's just the way guys are. =-bootz-=  |
Date: 5/22/2003 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 58427
Guys do say some dumb things sometimes,but it is just the way that they think. You cant really blame them (unless, of course they were doing it on purpose) Just let him no how you feel. Maybe the way he said it isnt the way that he wanted it to sound. And as for your email...I just wrote a guy a really long note and I got about 5 sent. back! I think thats just how they are! LOL! Good luck with your b/f! *Peaches*  |
Date: 5/23/2003 1:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 39887
Get used to it honey, it takes boys a long time to mature into men...and then the only difference between men and boys, are the price of their toys. You have to learn early to outsmart them!!  |
Date: 5/23/2003 1:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 46139
I think it's a Ego thing for guys.They hate to just admit
there true feelings.  |
48279 Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/21/2003 5:17:00 PM)