Date: 5/8/2003 11:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 600
It sounds to me like you are burning the candle at both ends. You have to take time for yourself. Although you have to be a mother and wife, you are still a human being with needs that are being brushed aside in order to care for your family. My husband is usually willing to help out if asked.....at least in an attempt at avoiding THE look.....lol. Set some time aside to pamper yourself and remember you are only human.  |
Date: 5/8/2003 11:11:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35821
Actually I should not say my husband always sighs at me or acts like I am asking the world, usually he is pretty good about helping out, but ladies you know what I mean.  |
Date: 5/8/2003 11:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 53900
Just try to remember to set time for yourself...and if you dont get everything done everyday it is not the end of the world, the house can wait to be cleaned ...and explain to your husband that you need help that you are feeling overwhelmed and really would appreciate him helping out as much as possible  |
Date: 5/8/2003 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 24856
You need a time out.....please take time for yourself. Being a Mom, soooooooo much is expected of you. I wish I had a easy answer....take care of you......  |
Date: 5/8/2003 1:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
I thinks it's both. You sound a lot like me. I go through this sometimes too, and it's usually caused by an enormous amount of stress heeped on me at one time. It will definately help if you just take 30 minutes or so, whatever you can afford, and just be by yourself. Take a walk, read, watch one of your favorite shows..etc. I suggest getting away from the house and getting outside and away from everything, that's what helps me. I hope you are feeling better soon. Take Care!  |
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Date: 5/8/2003 1:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
**Think, not thinks...LOL! |
Date: 5/8/2003 1:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 48993
i agree with tac... burning the candel at both ends is never a healthy thing to do... and i understand where your coming from, i think all wives/mom's can. bottom line is your not wonder woman even if you try to be .. the best way to get the help you need is to simply ask for it.. and if hubby's sighs or what have you there is always Twanda ( from the movie fried green tomatos ) LMAO!!!!  |
Date: 5/8/2003 2:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 45446
I think it is a little of both. It sounds to me like you are very overwelmed. You need to try to relax. Do not be afraid to ask for help from your hubby. He is there to help lighten the load. Remember you are both in this together. He will just have to get over it and help you out. Your stress level is probably sky high and if you don't get help with everything then your health is going to become an issue and you don't want that. A lot of stress can do crazy things to people, so organize everything to where you can handle it,and get help. You probably feel depressed because you are so overwhelmed with everything that you think nothing will get done. Everything will be fine. You just have to get through this and you can, just stay focused. I know how you feel. I have been there and back. I hope everything turns out okay. I will certainly keep positive thoughts for you. Take care of yourself and if you need to vent or anything, I'm here for you. Love and Hugs.  |
Date: 5/9/2003 5:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 7672
I think all is said in the above comments. Take time for yourself, send your hubby and the kids out of the house to have some peace and quiet. I know kids can get to you, I have two of my own, and when they are getting near the limit I simply separate them. I put them in two different rooms, as far away as possible (usually the living room and the top stairs bedroom). By the time they have calmed down, so have I and we can deal with the conflict more effectively. Cheer up ! Things will get better !  |
