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Need a guys advice!!!!

  Author:  39043  Category:(General Advice) Created:(4/30/2003 10:34:00 PM)
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Ok I know what most of the girls think..cuz three of my friends agree. Ok there is this guy I like who is also interested in me, but he wanted to figure out if he wants to take it to the next level. I can understand that..he doesn't wanna get hurt again and he doesn't wanna ruin our friendship. Thats very understandable. I asked him the other day what he wanted to do and we were suppose to get together but his friend came down..and I don't wanna get in the way with him and his friend so I haven't mentioned it to him..becuz friends come first. My friends think i should keep bugging or askin him what he wants to do...but im scared if i keep buggin him it is gonna make him turn the other way. Like he may think im a pain or something. I can't explain it. I don't want him to think im possessive or obssessive or w/e. Becuz im not. but my friends say that if i keep bugging him it will show that i am still very interested. So guys u tell me which would be the best thing to do. Should i ask him again (and if I do it won't be until Chad leaves), or should i let it go and let him bring it up too me?? Very confused here lol Thanks for the replies! Luv Dolphin Princess

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Date: 4/30/2003 11:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 36766    *dances around* sorry lol waiting on guys to reply to this, I can't say anything here becuz I'm not a guy...I gave ya my answer already on msn  
Date: 4/30/2003 11:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 47699    Give him some time. Continue to be friends with him and he'll eventually decide what he wants one way or the other. Be patient and you may just be surprised. I wish you the best of luck. Have a good weekend.  
Date: 4/30/2003 11:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 36766    gotta love the wise Frankenstein  
Date: 4/30/2003 11:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 47699    Awww..Thanks, BC. I do the best that I can.  
Date: 5/1/2003 12:01:00 AM  From Authorid: 36766    ya do it well Frank, this site is very blessed to have someone like you here  
Date: 5/1/2003 5:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 37449    he he he... What I would do... is play hard to get, just.....flirt with him... a lot. But never ask him about it... That way you wont be bugging him.. and he will want you even more   
Date: 5/1/2003 6:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 60685    I agree with everyone else, be patient but not too patient, meaning that if a few days pass after his friend has left and he still doesn't bring it up you should definitely ask him, it's hard to live in doubt and either way you need to know his feelings so you can decide on what you're gonna do. Also, I agree with Girl Cujo, in the meantime you can still flirt a bit with the guy to see if he makes up his mind faster,hehe. Hope everything turns out ok, some guys like to take their time where their feelings are concerned but they eventually come around *HUGS*  
Date: 5/1/2003 7:28:00 AM  From Authorid: 58078    I'm a female and I disagree with your friends...dont push him to much, you can push him away.  
Date: 5/1/2003 8:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 53284    Just spend time with him. Don't engage him in that conversation. He might be interested but you might scare him off. (No one ever explains to guys abour relationships and levels.. That's a girl thing) When your with him you can show your interest. The occasional touch on the arm, or sitting a little closer usually gets the message across. Be patient. If there is interest he will come around. If there isn't, he won't.  
Date: 5/1/2003 9:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 59385    he can visit with his friends anytime.I would ask him again and when people want to get togehter you can never bugg them in the way that you mentioned.Go for it!!  
Date: 5/1/2003 2:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 36956    I know you wanted the guys to respond, yet I agree with Frank and IP. Some guys dont know how to handle pushy girls. Just give it time. If he's interested he will come to you  
Date: 5/1/2003 4:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 53054    sorry me is a girl and like i read this post and im gonna reply to it....i like this guy too and like i dont want to ruin out friendship by asking him out etc etc, becuase he has been hurt in a privious relationship and i think that he doesnt want to get involved, however we flurt so much together and were talking on the phone like every single day! (until i went away and i havent heard from him) ask a friend to ask him out, or to start a conversation....(someone he doesnt know, that knows you really weell and see what he says) *hugz* best of luck!  
Date: 5/1/2003 8:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 29775    ok sis, I say wait until Chad leaves and then when he comes over flirt with him. Nothing major just little things like whenhe goes to leave give him a hug and everything. He will het the idea  

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