I want my account killed... ~Nytwolf~

In the 3 short weeks I've been on USM, I've met some really great people and have enjoyed almost every post I've seen. Those I didn't agree with, I was mature enough to ignore.

However, there are people here who have their own hidden agendas and their own ideas about the way others should live their lives, and I want no part of this.

The drama I've encountered on this site is exactly the reason I've left nearly every site I've been a part of in the 15 years I've been able to access the internet.

I came here thinking that USM would be a place where I could find open-minded people who were mature enough to understand that someone's opinion is not a personal attack and that everyone has a right to free speech. For the msot part, I found this to be true.

Then, I encounter a handful of people who, for reasons I AM WELL AWARE OF, find it necessary to force ME to deal with events and people I have no interest in and have no desire to even THINK about.

Because a few people buy into a pathological liar's words, I and my girlfriend are forced to deal with events that should have been forgotten long ago.

If you're not sure what I'm talking about, check out Author ID 42178. This ID is in no way associated with me. It belongs to a man named Collin Fitzgerald. Most of you know him as Loti. The only way I know this ID is because people here find it necessary to force this guy down my throat on a daily basis and, when it's not being thrown in my face, Judi ends up dealing with people who just can't wait to share the latest gossip with her concerning a man who robbed her blind, drugged her for a year, used her credit card to pay for HIS prostitutes and air fare for his girlfriend in Florida, stole from a 70 year old woman who has had Polio all of her life and is a quadraplegic, lied and stole from a 69 year old man WHO WAS ON HIS DEATH BED, and caused Judi to lose TWO children, one they had adopted and she could no longer afford to support and one was his own son, who he's seen once since September of 2002.

A permanent injunction has been ordered against this man. "Permanent" means forever, in case this needed to be pointed out. So why, if he can't even be within 300 ft. of her or her children and can't contact her in any way, am I forced to deal with him when I come to USM?

I AM CURRENTLY PAYING HIS DEBTS. I AM LEFT TO PICK UP THE PIECES. I AM REMINDED OF HIM DAILY WHEN I HEAR STORIES OF HOW HE BEAT JUDI'S SONS, THEN THREATENED THEM IF THEY TOLD ANYONE WHAT WAS HAPPENING. I DEAL WITH THE PHYSICAL AND MENTAL SCARS AMONG A WOMAN AND 2 BOYS WHO DID NOTHING TO DESERVE THIS TREATMENT.

Of course, he tells a different story. Wouldn't you? Would you want to face people and admit that you were total scum?

His account has been killed. The owners have banned him from this site permanently. A few people (you know who you are) have asked them to let him return. You don't see him here, do you?

He deceived everyone in his life and everyone on this site yet, somehow, he just doesn't go away. Why is this?

I'll tell you MY take on it. Apparently, some people have nothing better to do than think of ways to drudge up the past for people who would much rather forget it and get on with their lives.

Judi will never forget what he did. It will always haunt her. There's no way around that. BUT - you can all give her a break and give her a peaceful place to retreat to when she needs some time for herself by just leaving Collin out of the conversation. She doesn't know what he's doing, she doesn't care, and if he disappeared from the face of the planet tomorrow, we'd all be better off.

I want no part of this anymore. I'm better off at home watching the grass grow.

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