Date: 4/28/2003 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
is she watching your other neighbors as well? Or just you and your husband.....if she just watches you to yeah I'd be creeped a bit...if she does with everyone....I say she's just got WAY too much time on her hands! |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
She obviously has nothing better to do-- I'm not sure I'd feel creeped but maybe feel safe that if anything did happen she might be the first to notice something amiss and let authorities know. Like if someone broke in. She probably waycches everyone.... |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 39258
you should walk outside naked |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 61893
Sounds like she is just a busy body..lol Has nothing better to do, but to be nosey. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Maybe give her something to be nosey about..lol Hope all goes well! |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
You should go sit in a rocking chair and stare at her all day long, and she what she thinks. And if she walks up to you. Walk into your house right away. HHAH Peace Out.. |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
She's a Freak! |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 15997
Have you ever wondered if maybe she is just a lonely person??? It could be that she envies you and your family...ever try talking to her. Some people dont have anyone in the world, you know what I mean??? Maybe you should try to talk to her and if that doesnt work then she may just be a nosy person. |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
This post Freaks Me Out!!! Only because I have been contemplating making a very similar post, since last night! YES, I would be creeped out, heck, I already am...this guy moved into the garage apartment behind my house, and last night, I was goin' out to get some smokes and the guy was sitting against the brick wall, right outside my boys room!! I asked him why he was there and he simply said that his air conditioner was broken...I told him he had his own porch and yard and that with no breeze, the air was the same, and he came back with, 'my yard's infested with mosquitos' Instead of going off on him, I drove off and to my relief, or maybe to his advantage, he was gone...but he watches the kids...and he asked my husband if we stayed up all night because our lights were going off and on all night...like it's his business...so I asked my husband to talk with him, but since he has hired him as a helper, he doesn't want to do anything that might run him off...I don't know, maybe I have BIG issues with trust, but I am totally creeped out...I also catch him trying to look through our messed up blinds! I want to move to the country sooo bad...sorry for hogging so much space, but really, how creepy is that...he also is waiting for us to come outside...I mean this whole post is so familiar!!! |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
LMBO @ that crazy monkey!! great idea!! |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
She could either be very nosey,or very lonely,just once wave at her and say"would you like to take a ride? if she says yeah,then she is only lonely |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
I had a nosey neighbor that lived across the road,she knew when everyone came and went,in the whole neighborhood |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 33517
Well, you could always look at it this way...If something goes wrong...and a stranger is at your door or bugging your stuff...she will probably beable to give a prober Id of that person...Maybe she is like a Gardian Angel or something like that...sent from heaven just for you...Next time you see her...ask her if she is your gardian angel..and let me know what she said....**Big Canadian Hugs** |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
talk to her...maybe she's lonely and doesn't have any family and your family interests her...maybe she would like to have some friends |
Date: 4/28/2003 7:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 58681
Have pity on the poor woman. She probably has no visitors and is in need of friendship. Instead of alienating her, why not call round with a nice cake or a bunch of flowers. You may bring something beautiful in your life and into hers. With a name like Azairya you seem like you may be a great person to know. Cheers GA |
Date: 4/28/2003 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 35114
Maybe not creeped out. But defenitly annoyed. I hate when people watch you, and to watch you the way she does is crazy. I'd think of something to do or say. Maybe you can report her to someone? |
Date: 4/28/2003 9:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 3125
Hi Az I agree with GA. Maybe this woman is lonely and is hoping that you will take time out of your busy schedule to talk to her. You don't say if she has a husband or not, so maybe she has no one and is looking for a friend but don't know how to go about it. ((hugs)) to ya |
Date: 4/28/2003 11:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 11721
is she old? she may not have anything better to do! plus her culture was a different culture - i mean people used to sit outside and watch the world - i think i'd just start saying hi and being extra friendly and asking her how her day is - she may just wnat company and not want to approach you about it - she's living vicariously through you |
Date: 4/28/2003 11:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I think that perhaps this woman is lonely..she may not have anyone in her life..I think you should try talking to her one day. Maybe she's just in need of a friend? |
Date: 4/28/2003 11:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I dont know hun, I think she may be just lonely, and maybe waiting for a little wave or some friendly gesture from you...why not try to give her a "hello" or a "wave" and see what happens then...from experience, I found that loneliness was the reason...sorry that it gives you the creeps...but try to be nice to her...hugs |
Date: 4/28/2003 11:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 6003
I guess she is just a "nosey rosey", but it would still give me the creeps if someone watched me like that. |
Date: 4/29/2003 3:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 49742
I agree the woman is probably lonely. What someone said about her coming from a different time if she is old makes me think of it as maybe she was used to living in that time and in the country where you sit on the porch and watch the world go by. Now the guy who stands outside the other persons windows watching the children gives me the creeps. He sounds like one of those guys that might kidnap or molest a kid. That's freaky. |
Date: 4/29/2003 10:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 11240
Maybe she doesn't have a TV or it's broken. Seriously, it sounds as if she is lonely and is the type of person who really is concerned if things in the neighborhood are all right. I can understand why it may feel creepy to you at times, but if I had to decide what her motives are, I would have to say they seem inocuous enough. God Bless. |
Date: 4/29/2003 5:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 27046
Okay to all those that said she may be lonely and I should go and talk to her.....Ummmmmmm NOPE *shudders*. She is not lonely, she has a man friend that sits on the porch with her in the evening and I have seen him leave her apartment, I am guessing that they have a thing going but I can't be sure. If it's not him out there the lady from the upstairs apartment is sitting on the swing yacking with her or they are going somewhere in her car. I have seen her warning the same woman's boys out in the yard and fooling around with them. This apartment building is kinda loaded with a group of dirtbags if ya know what I mean?..LOL The lady that lives in the upstairs of this building never has a clue where her kids are. The one year that I had my pup they just walked into my yard and let her out and that sat in front of my house against my car calling her back and forth using their lollipops as bait for her to come. Since it has gotten warm her kids have been in my backyard several times and the oldest told me that his mother didn't care if the other one died cause he is a tattletale all the time. I had the padlock on the fence they jumped the gate. Ahhhhh? Gotta love neighbors huh? LOL |
Date: 4/29/2003 5:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 27046
And look at me looking just like the busy body whose knows everyone else's business.....ROFLMBO!!!!! We have lived here for 5 years now and so have all of them. This is the 5th summer of the sitting out on the porch thing in the spring and summertime. However I have no clue what their schedules are and how often they leave the house and I don't run to the window when I hear a car pull up or a car door slam. I only do that at night if something wakes me up. The only part of any schedule I know is the upstairs woman leaves the same time I do cause our kids go to the same school. But I don't associate with these people other than on the rare occassion, like her coming down to tell me lights were on. **shudders**...LOL! |
Date: 4/29/2003 6:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 40899
if i were you, i'd flick her off everytime i'd see her! okay, maybe not.... |
Date: 4/29/2003 7:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
the poor lady probally has no friends or much of a life and is living through others... why don't you go over and say hi one day.. she will probally yap your ear off(and atleast that way you know if she is crazy or not) |