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Date: 4/23/2003 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
Have you talked to your parents? They are ulitimately the people who can put an end to your brothers' behavior. Talk to them and tell them what's going on, and if the problem persists, talk to another trusted adult. You should not have to take this. I know that most all siblings will fight, but there is no reason you can't put a stop to this behavior or at least minimize it. Maybe when your brothers see that you mean business and you are entirely serious, they will take it upon themselves to shape up.  |
Date: 4/23/2003 9:11:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
I have talked to my mom..but she says she cant do anything about it cause there mean to her too, but i talked to my brothers before and they just dont care about my feelings or how bad they make my life everyday..today i got cussed out over a pillow..thats just stupid!  |
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Date: 4/23/2003 9:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
lol trust me i tried..notice the word tired! |
Date: 4/23/2003 9:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
knock em both out lol  |
Date: 4/23/2003 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
I agree with KK, if your mom doesnt do anything about it, then talk to a teacher or maybe your school's counselour, you shouldnt have to endure this and maybe it will help. *hugs* I hope it gets better.. Love, Amanda  |
Date: 4/23/2003 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 53055
since your mom can't do anything, call the cops next time your bro hits you. He can be arrested for that. As for the cussing brother...shove a sock in his mouth.  |
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Date: 4/23/2003 9:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
i have told my mother before that if he hits me again i will call the cops and when i go to do it she yells no you better not and stuff like that |
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Date: 4/23/2003 9:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 53055
Do it anyway hun. It's the only way. If she won't let you do it, then she don't want this stuff to end. |
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Date: 4/23/2003 9:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
Your mom needs to take control of her children. It is not good for the children to be head of the household and you definitely need to do something about it. Talk to a teacher, they'll be able to help you find someone who can begin to put an end to this. Your mom needs to get a handle on her children, especially if another child is suffering because of it. Tell your mom if she's nto going to handle it, you'll tell a teacher... or don't even tell her you're going to do it. I hope things get better for you. |
Date: 4/23/2003 9:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 57404
This may get deleted, but.. A sharp kick to the groin will stop them. Take some self defense classes.. hehe that might help. God Bless  |
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Date: 4/23/2003 9:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
lol i actually tired that...they got really mad..but i really dont have a teacher or a adult i trust, i have a really hard time on trusting people |
Date: 4/23/2003 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
That's a tough one. Hopefully they will grow out of it before anything too serious comes about, but that doesn't make your situation any better in the immediate future. I say.....hire a hitman and flee to Mexico. I'M JUST KIDDING! When my brothers picked on me, I'd lock myself in my room and put my chair under the doorknob to keep them out. It doesn't solve anything in the long run, but it might give you some bit of relief.  |
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Date: 4/23/2003 9:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
oh trust me..when im not on the comp, im either not at home or locked in my room..i try my best to stay away from them but something always happens and they either cuss me out or hit me everyday |
Date: 4/24/2003 10:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 61782
My brother does the same thing with me and I really don't like it AT ALL. I've learned that if I don't pay attention to him when he does those things, then he doesn't do it again. You know what I mean? Maybe it's the attention that they want and they feel that you are the only one that is willing to give it to them (It's "angry" attention but I'm sure they like it either way). So try your best to ignore them and maybe they will lay off sooner or later (I hope). Best Wishes~  |
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Date: 4/24/2003 10:38:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
omg i swear i ignore them all the time and it makes them mader so they do more mean things to me |
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Date: 4/24/2003 10:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 61782
oops, that first face was meant to be a sad one, I'm sorry |
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Date: 4/24/2003 10:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 61782
:-) that stinks. You would think that would work. I'm sorry :-(. |
Date: 4/25/2003 3:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
Okay, my solution is a bit long, but it will get results. First, start keeping a diary of all the pain and abuse you're suffering. Be very careful and precise in detail, especially if your Mom is suffering this sort of abuse, exact accounting will be important. Second, start taking self-defense classes: Karate is good, but Kung Fu or Jui-jitsu is better. Work very hard at it, because when you strike back you're going to have to mean it. Third, grit your teeth and take the abuse, but only for now! The Japanese Samurai had a saying which basically translates to, "If necessary, the warrior can sit upon his sword's blade." You're going to wait patiently until you think you're ready. If they punch you, you can roll with the blow, make a note in your diary, and remember. When you think you're ready, catch the next blow and immobilize him. Don't hurt him, just use his own strength against him (don't worry, they'll teach you how to do this!) and then say very simply, "Don't do that to me again. I've told you before to stop hurting me, and now you're going to listen. I can make you hurt, but I don't want to. Now, are you going to leave me alone?" If it gets worse, you'll be able to handle it. If the cops do get called, or a social worker shows up, your diary is proof that you have been the victim! Good luck! --Arion1  |
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Date: 5/4/2003 11:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
Me being the only child I would not really know what would be the best thing 2 do but I suggest that you tell your perents. *Cosmic Freak*  |
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