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Date: 4/22/2003 2:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
I'm the same way.. I am very outgoing, but I have limitations, like I wont hug all over or kiss all over someone else. Nakoma (my soon to be hubby) knows that I have a bubbly personality, and sometimes I get flirty and dont notice it. He doesnt mind though because he too knows that my heart belongs to him, and only him  *hugs*  |
Date: 4/22/2003 2:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I completely agree with you! I work with mostly all guys too and I admit I can be a flirt, but its harmless..I love my husband and would NEVER cross that line..  |
Date: 4/22/2003 2:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
No hugging and kissing for me either. Thanks Amanda.  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 2:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thanks LL. I would NEVER cross it, either. |
Date: 4/22/2003 2:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 19772
Some people are just naturally like that. I get accussed of it all the time but my fiance knows that I love him and only him. ~Gabrielle~  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 2:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thanks Gabrielle. My hubby knows that I love him and nobody else. |
Date: 4/22/2003 3:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
Some people are just natural flirts. As long as the line isn't crossed and both parties no its not serious, then its fine.  |
Date: 4/22/2003 3:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I disagree with you.  |
Date: 4/22/2003 3:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
I don't know....Danny and I don't really have that issue since neither of us are really the 'flirty' type....My mother and father seem to have a policy that works for them though....their allowed to look but never touch...  |
| Date: 4/22/2003 3:43:00 PM ( Admin-FA ) I don't think you should flirt when your married, engaged, or even having a boyfriend/girlfriend. |
Date: 4/22/2003 3:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
Well it depends on what you mean by flirting...if it was like coming on to people no I do not think that is ok but if it was just being friendly kind of giggly teen girl flirting I think that is ok if that is how you are with everyone. I mean my husband is like that with every female but not with males and it used to annoy me but I dont care anymore. If he was like that with only one specific female and no other then it might start to bother me. But I guess it all depends on teh relationship and what the other person thinks  |
Date: 4/22/2003 3:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
i've been a flirt my entire life, and my hubby understands that...he knows that i love him, and that i would never ever hurt him intentionally. We're so secure in our marriage that a little flirtation hasn't affected us badly at all  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 45446
I don't think it is alright to flirt when you are married. Nobody wants to see their other half carrying on with someone else. Innocent or not. I know I do not want to see my husband flirting with another woman and he would be very upset if he saw me flirting. Wouldn't you be a little hurt if you saw your husband flirting with someone else? I think it is disrespctful. I respect my husband too much. The way I see it, for anyone to flirt or cheat, there has to be something wrong. That just my opinion. It does not mean that I am right or that it applies to you or your situation. If thats the way you see it and it6 works for you then more power to you. I wish you all the best. Love and Hugs.  |
Date: 4/22/2003 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
There's no reason to flirt at all when you're already married.  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
LOL..Rika hon..flirting is not an exlusively single pasttime hon..I may be married, but Im not dead and I dont see anything wrong with harmless flirting..I dont really even consider it flirting..I think its more like bantering...ya know? |
Date: 4/22/2003 4:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
I think that you need to have limits so that others don't get the impression that you're available. With that in mind, I usually am pretty subdued around women. Before I learned my lesson I kept having women making passes at me.( I am married and intend to stay that way so these were not welcome but they were good for my ego)  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thank you to all that replied. Trust me, I love my hubby and wouldn't do anything to hurt him. If my "flirtting" bothered him in any way I would change, but than again wouldn't that be like changing to make him love me? If you truly love someone you accept them for who they are. Don't you? |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
you are exactly right......If you truly love a person you accept them the way they are |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thanks DreamerPoet! I don't know where that came from, but I guess it does make sense. |
Date: 4/22/2003 4:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 61893
I see nothing wrong with friendly flirting, as long as that is all that it is and that there is noway it can turn into something more serious. I am flirty myself, my hubby knew this when I married him and he has no prob with it. He knows I love him ONLY!  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thank you for your comment, Spoiled. |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
EXACTLY Gentel Breeze and Dreamer!! If you truly love someone you should love them for who they are, and not try to change them..Like you, My husband knew what I was like before he married me, and he still married me..LOL..I think jealousy is a wasted emotion IMO..dont get me wrong, my husband DOES get jealous sometimes, but its not from MY actions..its from the actions of others..LOL..he trusts me he says, he just doesnt trust some guys around his wife..go figure..I have to keep reminding him that if he trusts me, then he shouldnt be worrying about the actions of anyone else..its MY reaction to those actions that counts. |
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Date: 4/22/2003 4:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
I agree with you LL. Jealousy is a waste of time!!! |
Date: 4/22/2003 6:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
Personally, I don't think it's right. My husband doesn't either. For other couples, I say whatever works for you is your business. If it is just casual flirting and neither of you have a problem with it, go for it.  |
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Date: 4/22/2003 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
Actually, it's not that we really think it's wrong, it's just not an issue with us because neither of us do it. |
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Date: 4/22/2003 6:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thanks for your comments, Apryl. |
Date: 4/22/2003 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 32806
It's an all too easy line to cross. And often done. I always try to be friendly and have a laugh with people, but I would never flirt (while having an ongoing relationship, at whatever stage, be it g/f or wife).  |
Date: 4/22/2003 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I had a bubbly personality when I was younger and it was often mistaken as flirting when in actual fact I was just being friendly...I cant see anything wrong with it myself...as long as it is harmless....hugs  |
Date: 4/22/2003 7:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 18928
whatever works for the relationship, if one spouse is driven crazy by it, then its not ok, (unless the relationship isnt important to one) but if the spouse doesnt mind i see no problem with it.  |
Date: 4/22/2003 7:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i agree with you... as long as you stay on the married line and your hubby knows and doesn't mind, you wear your ring and you let the person know your married(don't hide the fact) there should be no real problem... it's healthy to look at another person... but react on it is where many falter  |
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Date: 4/23/2003 1:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53013
Thank you Sagi10, I agree that the line is often easy to cross, and many marriages fail for that reason. I for one would Never cross. My hubby is all I want and need in life. Thanks Zema, Vadia, and Midnightly. I NEVER hide the fact that I am married. Everyone knows that I am married, and how happy we are. In fact if there is a doubt in my mind that the other person knows I make it a point to tell them. |
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