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I feel so ugly! :-( ~Spoiled Babygurl~

  Author:  61893  Category:(General Advice) Created:(3/24/2003 8:23:00 PM)
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This last month I have just felt soo ugly! My hair is growing out and is impossible to fix, my face has been breaking out because I have been off my bc pills, I have gained a few pounds and feel fat.

I hate to be seen out in public..etc I usually always go thru this stage right before summer. I use spring as a time to get myself together for the summer, but during this time I just hate the way I look.. grrr

I just started going to the tanning bed, and hope to be going to a fitness place soon. Guess I will get my hair cut off in a few weeks "easier to fix." I just hate feeling like this, it depresses me and trust me I am depressed enuff already.

I can't sleep at night, I have always had this problem since I was a teenager. I lay in bed til like 4:00 am and get up at 7:00 am to get my girl ready for school. Then feel like crap the rest of the day..

I have never really felt "good" about myself. I am sometimes content, but that is it. I guess I have low self esteem and insercurites. I don't know what to do, or why I am like this. I mean I don't have people telling me I am ugly or anything to make me feel like this. I can have people tell me I am pretty, sexy..etc and I just think they are being nice.

I need help with this, like I said.. I hate feeling like this. I am ALWAYS making fun of myself to friends/others. While my friends are bragging about themself, I am doing the opposite. Everyone has brought it to my attention that I walk with my head down, I have really never noticed until I seen myself taking photos on one of my dad's video tapes.

Things that I hate about myself and wish I could change: My weight, my crooked nose "I look like a witch..." my chicken pox scars on my face "when I was about 23 I had a boyfriend call me SCAR FACE. Whether he was joking or not it hurt my feelings and I will never forget him saying that, it echos in my head sometimes," my stretch marks... "bother me bad," and a few other things.

Am I crazy? Guys I am sorry to get on here and throw a pity trip, but I just can't stand feeling like this. I was joking with my friend tonight, I told her I was going thru Uglyville on my way to Hottiewood..lol

Thanks for reading this, I needed to vent some..

Love ya all :-)

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Date: 3/24/2003 8:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 43807    i think sometimes we all feel ugly. take care, and i hope you feel better, lov.  
Date: 3/24/2003 9:04:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61893    I guess you are right Donuts, I just need to get over it. :-) Thanks for posting!  
Date: 3/24/2003 9:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 43807    no problem spoiled, i go through fazes where i think im ugly, but than the next i think im like the most gorgous person god ever made, lol.. i know its odd, but thats how i feel sometimes.  
Date: 3/24/2003 9:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 53427    I know I feel like that sometimes. I don't think there has ever been any point in my life where I was comfortable with my appearance. I've got that in between hair too. I'm trying to grow it out but its driving me nuts. I hope you like your new haircut. I am kinda tempted to do that to mine too but I'm trying to resist the urge  
Date: 3/24/2003 9:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 31255    It's all in how you choose to let yourself feel. I think we all go through periods where we are unhappy with the way we look and doing things to better ourselves is always helpful in making yourself feel better... but if you really gonna go to "Hottiewood" you really gotta start from the inside out... Meaning you really gotta start thinking positively about yourself and stop all the negative talk. If you have it inside it definately shows through to the outside. I guess in a way its all about learning to love yourself too and be happy and confident with who you are and what you have. Take Care,  
Date: 3/24/2003 11:26:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61893    Thanks so much guys! Toodles you are exactly right and I know that you are, however I don't think I will make it to "hottiewood," I just don't have it in me, and trust me I have tried. I can always try harder I suppose. Thanks again!  
Date: 3/25/2003 3:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 61901    Go to the USM junkie Site.... Find my Pic and print my pic... Now, everytime you start to feel ugly... Look at my pic, talk about ugly! LOL You can also hang my pic on your door, I promise its better than a security system..  
Date: 3/25/2003 6:03:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    darn it, i know how you feel. I look in the mirror sometimes and feel ashamed to be the person who is staring back at me. I go through phases where i think "god i'm ugly, why can't i be pretty?!". But...i realised, there are things about yourself, that others really don't notice. You only notice, because you study your body that much looking for imperfections. There really is no need to be self concsious about your face or your body hun! You are who you are..Think positive, you are beautiful..tell yourself that. Write it down on a piece of paper over and over again, if it makes you feel better...Instead of thinking about your faults, think about what makes you special. your lovely personality, your eyes, your talents?? When people say you are pretty or sexy, they mean it. You may not be a supermodel, but heck, only 8 out of every 2 million people are! Just think positive hun   
Date: 3/25/2003 6:08:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61893    Ohh Ranger X, you are not ugly.. You look very cool! Plus you made me laugh, so you have to be cool :-) Metal Princess, thank you for your kind words, you made me feel much better. Thanks!  
Date: 3/25/2003 6:17:00 AM  From Authorid: 28848    Vent away, it helps. I feel like this sometimes too. I feel like I'm getting old and ugly and there's nothing I can do about it. I see all of the pretty 18 year olds all dressed up at my school everyday, and then I look in the mirror and I just look like an old worn-out bum..lol. Sometimes I wish that I could be 18 again, at least physically, not mentally!  
Date: 3/26/2003 8:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 51070    I know how you feel. I'm 18, and I'm ugly as sin! Seriously! I'm twenty pounds overweight, I have a few zits, hair that is impossible to be made to look nice, dimples, a big butt, and big breasts. I hate it! How horrible for your boyfriend to call you that name. I've been called ugly a lot. I'm sure you can't be as ugly as I am, not when you sound like a beautiful person. "hugs"  
Date: 3/26/2003 8:21:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61893    Aww Creepy Freak thanks for your comment! You seem like a great person, so I would say that you very pretty :-) Remember, we are all beautiful in our on way! Thanks for posting hun!  

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