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Date: 3/24/2003 3:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
One would think that you could go and visit him and take him out if he is able. Can he speak for himself? If you are going to do this, you need to do it quietly and tell no one. Fighting with the family is not going to help anyone. Good luck. I have this same problem with an elderly friend I call my surogate mom and she calls my daughter and I family. She has a daughter who acts same. Fortunately, she lives states away. When she comes to town, I stay away.  |
Date: 3/24/2003 3:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 58030
if so should be if not sorry...  |
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Date: 3/24/2003 3:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 58030
you know what's REALLY weird half of this sounds like the story of MY grandfather..... (with the not being able to see him part of it) my grandfather had liver cancer, and my step grandmother wouldn't allow anyone in to see him, is she allowing others to see him? if so maybe she's keeping him against his will.... You could also maybe take her to court for slander.... |
Date: 3/24/2003 3:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
she has him at her home,thats the bad part,it would be like walking into a den of pit vipers,and of course i dont want to upset grandpa because he is too sickly to be up set with us fighting,but you know sooner or later me and her will come across each other,most likely when he passes away and then grandpa wont be around to be upset by us fighting and then miss witchy pooh will be introduced to fist!grandpas illness is only holding me back,and to tell the truth,what she is doing is only making me hotter, i pray this ends better then i think it will ,i wont be but i just dont see it in site,  |
Date: 3/24/2003 3:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 22721
Maybe get the news to do a story......  |
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Date: 3/24/2003 3:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
most likely she will take me to court,for bodily harming her,i hope not but ,i ve had to much of her 4 2 long |
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Date: 3/24/2003 3:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
thats a ideal thanks |
Date: 3/24/2003 3:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 28363
hi, except for the last part, i think this happens alot  |
Date: 3/24/2003 4:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 57723
all i can't say is good look and hope ur grandpa lives a while yet  |
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Date: 3/24/2003 7:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
thanks everyone,it means alot! |
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Date: 3/25/2003 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
How about if you do this? Show up on her doorstep, at a good time, say after lunchtime. Be dressed in your Sunday best. Have a beautiful bouquet of flowers for her and a small can of goodies for him. (He won't be eating much but sweets are welcome during cancer.) Hold your temper and ask politely to please let you visit with your grandfather. Before you go, say a sincere prayer that she will have a softened heart. You may be amazed how this can work. But, make sure you leave your hostilities outside, because she will be able to sense if you are stewing. If it works, be sure and thank God for His intervention. If it doesn't, ask Him to continue working on the softening of her heart. She may call later. Please try it and let me know. God bless and good luck! |
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Date: 3/25/2003 2:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
you dont know my aunt belive me,,,she is heartless,she had her own put in jail on christmas eve,over nothing really,she is like a pit viper,im honest,no one can get along with her,if you kissed her rosey cheeks everyday,you;d be doing it wrong,this woman has ben married 6 or 7 times,and married her last man 3 times,the only way to get along with her is no contact!she is a hatefull devil,im not kidding,she would be ready to run her mouth at the site of me,and ,,i cant take no more of her,noone can go over there,even years ago with out her running her mouth on them,but at least when granny was alive,she wouldnt get by with it ,and now grandpa is so sickly,we try to avoid her,i just going crazy,over this,my brother and sister has pleaded with me for two days just go over there ,and if she tells you to leave then you can leave,my brother said if you dont go to grandpa now before he passes away,your gona go off like a tnt on her,i just dont know,maybe i should just get a court order, |
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Date: 3/25/2003 2:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
{her own son put in jail on christmas eve} |
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Date: 3/25/2003 6:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 58030
i'm like totally serious, is her name ann by any chance? if it is i think we may be talking about the same person here my dear, sneak into his window if it's possible..... trespassing breaking and entering, i wonder if it can be breaking and entering if someone inside let's you in? cus like knock on the window, and then when he says come in hop through the window? |
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Date: 3/25/2003 8:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
no her name is edna, and i feel like knocking her teeth out,i love her children,and i love my aunt also but not her ways,she is a stuborn person,that runs her mouth on everyone |
Date: 3/25/2003 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
I don't have any advice, I wish I did, but people like this seldom can be reasoned with. I'm just sorry you are not able to visit your Grandpa. That just isn't right and so very unfair. I have never understood the kind of hatefulness that someone has inside to be like this. Unfortunately, I have known one or two of the same caliber. Like I said, who knows what motivates someone to behave like that. Reminds me of a fungus in their heart and soul, they are literally eaten up inside from.  |
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Date: 3/25/2003 9:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
your words speak the truth!and i dont wish nothing bad on her,even though i'd like to do something bad to her, knock some sense into her,but that would put me in lower form of scum then she is in,because,she is an old witch,that claims to be a christain,[and maybe she is,]but she cuts her nose off to spite her face,and if she would cut her waggy tongue off,maybe she would have a better chance of going to heaven im not judging her im not God,but she needs to briddle her tongue,its like a deadly weapon,she is gona end up being punched by someone in this family,because my 2 uncles almost did it on differnt occassions in the past,for her trying to keep them away from grandma when she was sick, she would come in my grandparents house and insult everyone and get up in their faces,with her fist balled up ,saying mean things,the home heath nurses was there once and a big fight broke out,her jumping onto my 2 uncles and another aunt,and the social services was called in,they was gona put my grandparents in a home,over her,this woman is bipolar,she needs committed to a nut house, again ,lol i just dont know what to do, |
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Date: 3/26/2003 4:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 53961
I still say pray that she will soften her heart. It can work. Trust me. |
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Date: 3/26/2003 4:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 53961
But, you may have to do it more than once. |
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Date: 3/26/2003 8:04:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
prayers can move mountains,,,,,,,,,,i strongly belive in prayer,,,,can cure anything,,thanks |
Date: 3/2/2005 6:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
Hugs, I am so sorry you had to go thru this....  |
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Date: 3/2/2005 8:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
its better now my other aunts has him,he comes to stay with me sometimes before chris got sick but he comes to visit i visit him you are so sweet ty for reading so many of my post sis |
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Date: 3/2/2005 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
Its good to know that you are able to finally spend time with him. |
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Date: 3/2/2005 11:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56176
ty brenda huggs |
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