Date: 3/23/2003 12:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 36901
If I were you, I'd just give her the e-mails and stay out of it. I got mixed up in a situation like this once and they ended up getting back together and blamed me for them breaking up in the first place. It really makes me mad because I just talked to her earlier tonight and she's telling me how badly he treats her. I didn't even comment on that because of what happened last time.  |
Date: 3/23/2003 1:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 56287
If i were you i'd stay out of it. I've been with someone who was like that and my friends told me over and over but i wouldn't listen. Trust me the chances are she will come to her sense and dump him, you just have to let her do it by herself. love  |
Date: 3/23/2003 2:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 28946
Maybe this could have been one reason her folks grounded her from the computer in order to try to protect their daughter from acting on impulse. Here she is grounded and having you be the go between with something she was grounded from in the first place. Now she has you upset, because this guy is definitely from jerk city, and you are wanting to protect her too. BB, I think you should give her the e-mails this time and then kindly tell her you cannot take her e-mails as your folks don't approve. That's what I would say. (hugs)  |
Date: 3/23/2003 3:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 61901
There you go, letting some pull you in their mess! You are to nice, so you are being used once again... This person is grounded right? No phone,No computer...GROUNDED So you are helping her disobey her parents...Hummmmmmm. After you read this, consider yourself Grounded!  |
Date: 3/23/2003 6:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
just make sure you give her all the e-mails, and point it out subtly, that maybe he's using her? i guess it's up to her really what she does. don't force her to do anything she doesn't want...simply steer her in the right direction  metal princess  |
Date: 3/23/2003 8:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 53013
My advice would be to give her the emails and try to stay out of it. In a sense they are both using you. Maybe you should tell them to find someone to deliver messages. I think that would be best. I know it's hard but your friend may have to find out for herself about this guy. Good luck with everything.  |
Date: 3/23/2003 11:38:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61966
LoL @ RX, I hope you are really just kidding!! You started to scare me there for a minute. Thank you all for your help. I think I should stay out of this one. *hugs* -BB  |
Date: 3/23/2003 12:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 51463
Don't kill the messenger if you don't like the message. I would give her the e-mails anyway but talk about one that you accidentally read and tell her how you feel about it. It can't hurt! Good luck =-bootz-=  |
Date: 3/23/2003 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
What was she grounded for? Just curious  . I agree you should just stay out of it...she sounds like one of those people who will do anything for "love" and probably doesn't want to hear what you have to say about her boyfriend. Let her get herself out of her own mess!   |
Date: 3/23/2003 2:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
you should stay out of it give her the e-mails and say if she wants to talk your willing to talk... personally if he has cheated and he is playing hte love me love me not game... she should walk becuase it's only beating herself up emotionally over and over and over again!  |
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Date: 3/23/2003 6:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61966
Thank you for all your replys and advice! -BB |
Date: 3/24/2003 3:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 49374
That doesn't matter...guys make mistakes and sometimes they rethink things over in their heads like 7 times before they come out and say it. We're indecisive, and personally, I think it would be better for her to judge the outcome, not you. I understand you're trying to help, but you can make the situation worse, so just give both the e-mails to her and let her think it out for herself....  |
Date: 3/25/2003 3:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 52187
tell her.... I would ^-^  |
