Date: 3/2/2003 5:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 51565
i think you should just ask him kindly to back off. Tell him that he tends to get a bit clingy, and your telling thisd cuase your his freind, and you would appreciate it if he didnt try to hang on you so much, but try and say it kindly.  |
Date: 3/2/2003 5:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 51530
i saw slap him, ten he'll think of you in another way besides an affactuation  |
Date: 3/2/2003 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 59746
First, you are right. This is VERY odd! There's a chance that he may look up to you, a lot. He is one of those types of people who don't talk much, and seems kind of lonely. You were nice to him. He's making a really big deal out of it. As for that "clinging and staring thing", this is CRAZY and STRANGE, but like I said, he may really look up to you, in a weird way, and these may be his actions, to watch what you do, and to try to be more like you. Something, somewhat like this happened to me once. Maybe you should try to talk to him, or hang out with him sometime, ya know, kind of get to know him, and see what's up. Just take a deep breath, and do it. Do freak out, and don't hurt his feelings. Just talk to him, and if he tries anything, just kindly ask him to back off, like Evil Dead Chick says. I hope it works out.  |
Date: 3/2/2003 9:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
First, try to talk to him. Tell him the plain truth: you're getting unnerved by his behavior. He may just be playing a game on you to see what your reaction is. Tell him it's not funny, and ask him to stop. He probably will. If he doesn't, report him to the school authorities, and if necessary, to the police. This is called Stalking, and it's a crime! --Arion1  |
Date: 3/2/2003 9:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
Maybe he just needs a friend. Or maybe his homelife isn't good. You should do what Evil Dead Chick said - talk to him about this.  |
Date: 3/2/2003 10:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 61989
Maybe he justs wants a friend, but talk to him and tell him that he is going about the friend thing a little odd, if you have to (like Evil said) tell him to back off...I hope you get this worked out...>FisherQueen<  |
Date: 3/3/2003 1:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 36757
OMG that sorta sounds like a kid that went to my school in 8th grade...he was a psycho...really. i guess all i can say is that he's probably interested in you and doesn't know what else to do besides try to be with you 24/7...i kno it's kinda hard to blow off but i guess that's really what you're gonna have to do. try not to ignore him becuase he'll probably follow you more, but maybe introduce him to a few friends or somethin  just be happy this kid didn't threaten to kill 3 of your friends (that's what the kid who went to my school did) and i SO KNOW what you mean about the chill...oh jeese do i...i couldn't breathe when i saw this kid... *snowymoon06*  |
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Date: 3/3/2003 3:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 59746
OOOKKKAAAAAYYYY! I don't think I'd want to know much about what snowy moon said. I still have to agree with my last advice and what Evil Dead Chick said. |
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Date: 3/3/2003 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 59746
Really hope things turn out okay for you. |
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Date: 3/4/2003 1:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
Now that I look back on this, I wonder if he's homosexual or something? I'm not trying to be mean or funny or anything, but that's kinda what this comes off as. |
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Date: 3/4/2003 4:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 61959
talk it out with him,hopefully he'll understand. |
Date: 3/7/2003 11:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 16614
2 words- VERY CREEPY! It sounds to me like you have your own personal stalker! AHHH! =-P j/k! Just tell him nicely that he needs to back off. Tell him you think he's nice and all, but if he wants to be friends he can't follow you EVERYWHERE you go! I hope I have helped and everything turns out ok! Alwayz,  |
51463 Category:(General Advice) Created:(3/2/2003 5:38:00 PM)