Date: 1/29/2003 11:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
Well he lied to you, you didn't do anything wrong. You tried talking to him and he wouldn't listen. Let him come to you..don't keep chasing him. *IP*  |
Date: 1/29/2003 11:20:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 22275
but hes my bastie!!!!!!!!!!  I love him to death!  |
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Date: 1/29/2003 11:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
I know hun..but he also lied to you and you tried talking to him but still he was being mean. If he means that much to you and you the lie doesn't bother you anymore then just tell him that he hurt you by lying but its done and over with and you want to go back to the way you were and just drop it. Good Luck...let me know how you make out. *IP* |
Date: 1/29/2003 11:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 1799
this is his fault for lying...just give it a couple days, let him come to u...i've had friends do this, and no matter how much i care for them, i won't let them off when i know they were the ones in the wrong.  |
Date: 1/29/2003 11:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
You didn't do anything wrong, he lied to you. I'd give it a day or two until things may calm down, after a few days try talking to him again.  |
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Date: 1/29/2003 11:54:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 22275
im so freakin depressed.....I would do that... but we have plans... a major schedual change so i can have his chior and lunch hes the only person i would do that for |
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Date: 1/29/2003 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
At the same time though hun you don't want to go to him because then he will think its ok to lie to you again because you will just forgive him and he will know he has you wrapped around his little finger. He'll come to you. *IP* |
Date: 1/29/2003 1:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 24856
Friends don't purposely lie to each other......Love him or not, there is no excuse for the his behavior.  |
Date: 1/29/2003 2:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
UH, let me see if I got this right, he lied to you and has you begging for forgiveness??? Wake up, you yourself said that he talked to you after you ignored him (and for how long, 1 period? what a torture for the guy!)and it wasn't very nice, he got the better end considering he lied and you just ignored him, given ignoring people is kinda childish (I guess I'm not one to talk,hehe), but I always think it best to cool down or ignore people I'm mad at for a brief moment so I can later talk to them instead of "scream" at them. Anyway, I don't think you did anything wrong, therefore you don't need to apologize but if you want talk to him explain how his lying hurt you and that his lie was the reason for acting the way you did. If he doesn't even want to talk to you and it's pulling a "drama queen" act let him be and wait till he comes around, which he will eventually do if he really values your friendship. Hope everything works out.  |
Date: 1/29/2003 3:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 61673
he should be the one apologizing, not you. try talking to him again.  |
Date: 1/29/2003 4:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
why lying can be VERY VERY hard thing to forgive, i guess that if he has apologised then you may want to think about forgiving him. i mean, do you really want to be angry at your best friend? i hate it when i fight with anyone let alone my buddies. Maybe you should sit down and explain to him why lying was such a big thing to you and you guys should be able to work through it. best of luck   |
Date: 1/29/2003 11:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 56369
theres some good advice being given here... real good advice! *shakes head* Ild also like to know why YOUR the one Saying sorry while his the one that LIED! ahhh such is life... aint it grand  |
