Date: 1/28/2003 7:31:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11348
Forgive me for not seperating that big long clump of words but the enter on this laptop does not work... nor does backspace... lucky me.  |
Date: 1/28/2003 7:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
I think you have to decide which is more important right now...love or your future job prospects. If you boyfriend has rich grandparents who are willing to pay for his eduction would it not be possible for him to move with you if you go back to Colorado? Life has these horrible ups and downs, I guess it is a way of learning and moving forwards (but it sure can be horrible at the time). I think that if your boyfriend truly loves and cares for you he will see that you are unhappy and do his best to help...tell him how you're feeling and suggest the move....you don't know what he'll say until you ask.  |
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Date: 1/28/2003 7:41:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11348
Thanks LSR... it seems like when I talk to him he shrugs it off and says something about going to law school there after his four years here... I don't want to wait that long though... I want him to be happy too. |
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Date: 1/28/2003 7:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
Yes, you want him to be happy, but he won't be happy with an unhappy girlfriend. Maybe you aren't managing to make him see just how important this is to you? If you really want to stay where you are then I think you're going to have to DECIDE to be happy and do all you can to go out there and grab a life for yourself in Texas, it's hard but you CAN do it. |
Date: 1/28/2003 7:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
Oh, I know this must be a hard situation, it is playing with your mind as well as your emotions. You have to do what you feel is best with this one, and either way will have its difficulties. Have you thought of taking to him about moving to Colorado with you and going to school there? Talk to him and see what he thinks about it. No matter what you decide though, life is full of complications and part of growing up is learning how to deal with and overcome them. Once you start school in Texas things will look up because you will make friends and start getting better opportunities. When I am in a bind sometimes, I try to simplify my decision making process by applying these simply rules: If my answer isn't a DEFINATE yes, then its a no. If its a maybe, I don't know, wait and see...then its a no. Hope things get easier for you soon!  |
Date: 1/28/2003 4:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 54808
I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this. If you both really love each other, then he'll help you figure out what's right for the two of you, and what's right for you! Try asking him if he'd want to move. If you loved him enough to move for him, then he might love you enough to WANT to move for you. See what he thinks. There's no harm in this, and if Texas doesn't seem or feel right, then I suggest not staying there for your own good. I hope this helps. Good luck. :-D  |
Date: 1/29/2003 11:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 56369
hey you should see it like this. Your young, you only live once, dont let your youth be waisted in a place which you hate. Look at all those hippys, They lived for the moment, and now most of them have kids and are settled down! lol. Maybe you should go back, thats where you were most happy. And if your boyfriend loves you as much as you love him, he would want the best for you. And its very obvious, moving just may be the best.  |
Date: 1/30/2003 11:05:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11348
Thanks guys! I did talk to him and we got the situation pretty well worked out. As it is now, at the start of next year we might move back together.  |
