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Should I be part of my child's baptism and have our wedding blessed if I don't believe in God?....by

  Author:  31997  Category:(Religious) Created:(1/15/2003 5:28:00 PM)
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Well first of all I would like to say that my wife is 6 months pregnant right now with our first child. So far it looks like a girl, and we plan on naming her Meghan Lee(or Leigh, we haven't decided yet). Anyway, my wife wants to have the child baptised, and she would like us to have our wedding vows blessed by the Catholic church. I am an atheist. I simply cannot believe that there is a "God" watching me, waiting for me. But that's a topic for another story(which hasn't been done to death on USM anyway...LOL). I have no problem with any of this. I just wonder if I'm doing it for the right reasons. We are doing all this for my wife. She wants the baptism and to have our vows blessed. I don't know why I'm posting this. Maybe just to get some other views on the subject.

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Date: 1/15/2003 5:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 15675    Well part of an interfaith marriage is accepting each others beliefs. She shouldnt force you or anything (which it sounds like she isnt) but if she asked, and you are willing to, then it should be fine to have the baby and vows blessed. Just as long as you dont mind...  
Date: 1/15/2003 5:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 13428    well let me say this wouldn't it be better to do it and find out later that there is a God than to not do it and find out later there is a God?  
Date: 1/15/2003 6:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    If this will make your wife happy then why not?? Its part of being in a healthy happy marriage..sometimes we have to compromise for the good of the marriage and because we love our partner..I think there is nothing wrong with that at all.  
Date: 1/15/2003 7:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    things like this there are give and takes.. are you willing to allow for 1 but not the other??.. compromise.. there are perks to having your child baptised... your child could go to a religious school and get a better education then the local public school(something what can't be done if your child isn't baptised)  
Date: 1/15/2003 7:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 10798    At least consider going along with your wife's wishes simply out of love for her. This seems to be something she really wants, it would make her happy and it would only be a slight inconvenience to you.  
Date: 1/16/2003 3:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 24934    To start off, congratulations on your little girl. I'm not Catholic so I do not believe there is any necesity to baptize a sinless baby. Actualy it's imposible to baptize a baby in the sight of God, because baptism is for the forgivness of sins (Acts 2:38) and your baby will not commit any sins for years to come. So when your wife takes the baby to be sprinkled on or immersed in water by the Catholics that is all that is going to happen, she's going to get a little wet. But because your wife has been raised catholic she believes she is doing the right thing, and it would mean (I believe) a great deal to her for you to share that moment with her. When you married your wife you became "one" so make every wakeing moment a joyful one, for one day death will separate you, and you will miss her. Nikeinlogos
Date: 1/16/2003 7:03:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 31997    Yeah like I said before I have no problem with any of this. I just thought that I would post it to see others opinions. But the reason for baptism is to wash away "original sin", which everybody is born with apparantly.  
Date: 2/5/2010 10:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    Just my views on this subject are this...what does it matter to you anyway if you believe or not, but if it means so much to the partnership, it's not worth the hassle is it?? I came across this on the random stories here...  

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