Date: 12/26/2002 4:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 45948
You should sit down and have a serious talk with your friend first before going to her mother. does she know he has HIV?  |
Date: 12/26/2002 4:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8424
Oh she knows he does, we all know, its not a secret.  |
Date: 12/26/2002 4:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 39350
I know u are concerned for her but it's her choice who she wants to be with and nobody can change that. I mean its her putting herself in this situation. All u can do is be there for her. I dont think you'll be able to change her mind. *huggs*  |
Date: 12/26/2002 5:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
If she knows about him there is nothing that anyone can do...She may not be intimate with him...He needs friends as well.  |
Date: 12/26/2002 5:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
oh wait...I didnt see the part that he is married!!!  |
Date: 12/26/2002 5:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I know that it is VERY difficult to sit by and watch your friend make these kinds of decisions..He is a married man and has HIV..too MAJOR red flags..but..she is an adult and is able to decide for herself whether anyone agrees with her decisions or not..all you can do is let her know that you are worried about her and that you are her friend and will be there for her if need be..other than that there isnt alot you can do..  |
Date: 12/26/2002 5:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Talk to her about it directly. Don't go to someone else because if you do, you will probably lose your friend and start a big mess of gossip in the process. Good luck.  |
Date: 12/26/2002 5:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
This must be so hard for you. Sadly, she's 21 so there really isn't anything you can do besides try and talk to her about it. If she loves him, there is probably nothing you can say to change that.  |
Date: 12/26/2002 6:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 60162
I think it is best to stay out of it. I know that sounds easier than it really is but you may lose her friendship by saying something. Be there for her and but let her make her own decisions.  |
Date: 12/26/2002 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
I agree with LadyLuck. She's an adult and can decide on her own.  |
Date: 12/26/2002 7:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I dont think you will be thanked for interfering hun, and thats how she will see it as "interfering" she is an adult and its her choice, I know how hard it must be to sit back and just watch her ruin her life, but its her choice...hugs Zema  |
Date: 12/26/2002 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
the magor issue i see there is dating a man who is married...  |
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Date: 12/26/2002 8:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Really Midnightly? I know I have stronge beliefs against adultry too, but she is risking her life as well... |
Date: 12/27/2002 7:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 19173
I wouldn't tell her mother, it's up to her to tell who she wants. If she thinks risking her own life for some married guy with HIV is worth it, there really isn't anything anyone can do about it. You can try and talk to her about it, because she does need to wake up and smell the coffee before it's too late...Lisa  |
