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The Saddest day of my life 12/11/02: My wonderful brother was killed tonight~ Anabel

  Author:  34775  Category:(USM Events) Created:(12/11/2002 5:19:00 AM)
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I am putting this here, although I really don't know where to put this. Throughout my time at USM, I have seen others who have lost someone express there thoughts to you folks.

I really do not know what to do with myself right now, and this is why I am posting. My house is quiet now, and it is time for me to think...but I find that action is what I need and right now, I think writing this will be the only thing that can comfort me.

Anyone who knows me, knows about my younger brother Brady. He is my only sibling and I have always been extremely close with him. I have had some of the best times in my life with him. He is the other half of me. I was always his biggest fan, even when he was being like a crabby old man much older than his 27 years. I can honestly say that a love between a brother and sister is a bond like no other. A bond that cannot be replicated, a love that cannot be changed by anything.

A little short of 12:30 am, my brother was killed on his way home from a pool leauge that he had just joined. No one knows exactly what happened, but within 1000 feet from his own driveway, his car slid off the road, struck a tree and started on fire. I can only hope that he was killed by the impact and that he died before his car was overcome by flames. I got the call at exactly 3:00 am this morning from his wife, Sarah.

They had just celebrated their first wedding anniversary. He had just started his own business and was an extremely talented and driven individual. My brother was a talented musician who attended Jeff Berlin's Players School of Music in Clearwater Florida, and from there was courted by the Los Angeles Music Achademy on a full scolarship for his bass playing. He played with the most talented musicians in Rock and Jazz, including the members of Frank Zappa's band and countless others. I will always have the Cd's that he and his band, Gliss, put out in LA before he finally came back to Hayward to live and marry his high school sweetheart of 12 years and buy a home and start his own business.

This is an elegy to my WONDERFUL brother, Brady Lee Conner who passed away just hours ago.

Unfortunately I have to marr my thoughts on this page by stating that this ISNT fake because some awful people who used to come here have "played dead" before. Anyone who knows me knows I would never do anything such as that. And that is all I have to say about that.

I loved my brother. And all that I can say right now is that I am so, so sad. I will be fine and able to go on, but I will always miss him. My life will not stop..but at this time I really didn't know anything else to do but to come here and say this. The saddest thing is that one of the coolest people that I have ever known will not get to show the whole world what he was made of....for that I will always be sad.

Thank you for reading, please tell the people who mean the world to you that they do.

Brady's sister, Anabel

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Date: 12/11/2002 5:22:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    Oh my god!! hun, i am so so sorry. wow..i really don't know what to say..metal princess  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    My heart is bleeding for you at this moment. I am so, so sorry for your loss. I hold you and your family in my deepest thoughts and prayers. {{{{{Wrapping Blanket of Comfort around you}}}}}  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 16442    Oh Anabel, I am so sorry for your loss. My brother is my best friend (most of the time LOL) and I cannot imagine your pain. I am so sorry.   
Date: 12/11/2002 5:24:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    Thank you guys, really...thank you...I don't really know why this helps, but it is like, I wanted people to know him.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:25:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    Thak you Gina..I really don't know what to do with myself  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 35160    oh sweety, im so very sorry 4 the loss of ur brother. i know nothing i could say or do can help ease ur pain. but please know ur in my thoughts sweety. peace be with u in ur time of need . luv and huggs shay  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 54968    OMG Anabel! I'm so sorry! I'm almost crying right now!   
Date: 12/11/2002 5:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    It helps because you are talking with people that really care.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:34:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    You guys are great, thank you. I feel like I should do something, but there is nothing I can do...and I don't think anyone else can do anything either. It just helps for me to be typing, I think.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 58308    Oh my! Anabel, I am so sorry for your great loss. If there is anything I do... please, let me know. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you His strength. Love and Hugs,  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:40:00 AM  From Authorid: 38278    I'm sorry that happened. I hope you'll be okay.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:42:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    Honey, I am so very sorry! I lost 2 brothers in accidents and it is a pain I would wish on nobody! I am so sorry and nothing I can say will ease your hurt. Your brother sounds like he was a wonderful man that accomplished so much in the few short years Heavenly Father allotted him. 27 years isn't enough years though. If you just need an ear, I'm offering mine Hon. God Bless and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:42:00 AM  From Authorid: 25390    Oh my god, Anabel. *big hugs* There is nothing I can say that can possibly take the pain away from you, but I am here to offer you a *hug* and a prayer from my heart.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:45:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    Thank you SO MUCH you guys...I am crying alot right now, but I think that is a good thing, really. At least they are clean and honest tears...does that make sense to anyone? For some reason it does to me right now...thanks for all of your sentiments...it really does matter.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 25828    sorry 8-( i know how it is and it hurts.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    Is there someone that can just come and sit with you Sweetie? It's nice not to be alone right now.  
Date: 12/11/2002 5:52:00 AM  From Authorid: 2030    Oh God An! I'm so so sorry. I can only imagine your shock and pain. Anything, Anything I can do I will. Are you home right now?  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 46069    Anabel... i am soooo sorry to hear this.. this is just awful... i will keep you and your familyin my thoughts... you are a strong woman.... he sounds like a beautiful human being and will be missed....chin up girl... huggz  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:01:00 AM  From Authorid: 36901    I'm so sorry! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:01:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    Penny, Patrick (GreenDream) is here, but he has been up with me all night so I sent him to bed with a tylenol PM...he has bad migraines and has epilepsy, so I need him to be well rested and strong for me in the next few days, I am ok right now. I'm just sad and looking for some kind of action....I feel I should be DOING something. You know, when your phone rings at 3am you expect it to be some drunk pal or something. Never did I expect this. I am alright, I am just very sad is all, and I know that it will take a long time for me to not feel that. I will always be sad.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:04:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    Thank you, author only...everytime I hear his music I will turn it UP.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    It will take a long time Honey and in different waves. I just went on your web page and saw a picture of Brady. He looked very handsome.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:08:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    lol, Penny He was MAD at me for taking that picture because it was dark in there and the flash blinded him! He never understood why I made such a big deal about him. But I was always his number one fan.....  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:09:00 AM  From Authorid: 23959    omg anabel. I don't know what to say, except that I'm so sorry this has happened. How awful you and your family will be in my thoughts *love n hugs*  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:12:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    Sisters know how to take the best pics! It's a good picture.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 61908    omg!!I am sooooooo sorry to hear about this, if there is anything we here at USM can do, please let us know..."the axeman"  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:17:00 AM  From Authorid: 47930    oh honey i am so sorry for your loss, i wiil keep you and your family in my prayers and in my thoughts..big hug to you hun.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:20:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 34775    Thank you everyone for being so thoughtful...  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:22:00 AM  From Authorid: 19092    I am so sorry Anabel, My prayers are with you...  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:29:00 AM  From Authorid: 3648    Anabel, I'm so sorry my heart goes out to you and your family. My prayers are with you.  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 48993    OMGosh Anabel I am so so sorry for your loss, I really dont know what to say http://www.unsolvedmysteries.com/usm267081.html  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 15033    I am crying along with you Anabel. I do know what that bond feels like. You must be hurting beyond human feelings right now. I will say a prayer for your comfort...Love you, Karen  
Date: 12/11/2002 7:02:00 AM  From Authorid: 16114    Oh Im so sorry to hear that! My prayers are with you and your family *hugs*  
Date: 12/11/2002 7:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 47113    iam soo sorry....i can't imagine what courage it took to write this....you are in my prayers....much love and light to you and your family..*hugs*  
Date: 12/11/2002 7:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 35825    Anabel, I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what you must be feeling right now, but just know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers....I'm here if you need anything. *hugs* Love Always,  
Date: 12/11/2002 7:15:00 AM  From Authorid: 53478    Oh Anabel...I'm so sorry that this has happened. My heart goes out to you. Your family will remain in my thoughts.  
Date: 12/11/2002 7:36:00 AM  From Authorid: 20750    Gosh, I'm so sorry Anabel!  
Date: 12/11/2002 7:45:00 AM  From Authorid: 28193    I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.  
Date: 12/11/2002 8:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 12835    My friend, I am so sorry for your loss. I will put you and your family in my prayers, and if there is anything else I can do, please let me know....  
Date: 12/11/2002 9:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 9130    I am sorry to hear of your loss, your family will be in my prayers.  
Date: 12/11/2002 10:42:00 AM  From Authorid: 16671    My heart and my prayers are with you. I"m so sorry that this happened to you and your family.  
Date: 12/11/2002 10:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 1631    *HUGS* Ana ...  
Date: 12/11/2002 11:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 53836    my heart breaks for you, I am so sorry. I can't imagine what it feels like to loose a brother, you, his wife and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. I truly am sorry, I don't know what else to say. Much love  
Date: 12/11/2002 11:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 56293    OMG! I am soo sorry!! This was soo sad, it brought a tear to my eye.  
Date: 12/11/2002 12:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 46486    I am so sorry, ... *HUGE HUGS*  
Date: 12/11/2002 2:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    Awwww Anabel..I just found this! I am so sorry for your loss honey..there isnt much I can say or do to take away the pain, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers..*hugs*  
Date: 12/11/2002 3:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 2030    As I've said elsewhere, i've had the pleasure of meeting Anabel. Brady was a lucky man, someone who loves you so much, and is such an absolute GOOD person. Many people no matter how long they live aren't as fortunate. God bless you both.  
Date: 12/11/2002 3:42:00 PM  ( Admin-JGB )   I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you and your family...
Date: 12/11/2002 5:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    **puts arm around Anabel for a big hug** hun I am so sorry to hear of this...and may peace be with you and your family at this sad time..hugs Zema xoxo  
Date: 12/11/2002 6:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 61959    My prayers go out to you and your family.Very
sorry your brother died.
Date: 12/11/2002 6:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 44404    Ann you mean the world to me. I will never forget the time our brothers decided to try and smoke a joint made from dried coppenhagen. Or the time when my mom showed up during one of Bill's parties at the house and after the whole exitement of kicking people out had died down, Brady and Sarah walked up from the basement wearing a sheet between them, "Hey guys, what's going on?" Or countless other times when farting on heads was the thing to do, or drinking in cabins playing risk or hiding baseball cards in Muchismo magazine or experiencing life with the deep embrace that only the truly driven and real people can appreciate. Ann, I read this and I have to say to you, I don't know what your going through, but you don't have to be so strong. I will be in Hayward tomorrow, probably at Chrissy's maybe Ronnies. I will see somewhere. Love to you sister. Carlos.  
Date: 12/12/2002 12:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 28944    i am so sorry ana. i am sending all my love to you right now. it is so hard to even fathom... to lose a sibling.... just know that i will be thinkin of you, my friend. love, rich.  
Date: 12/13/2002 7:32:00 AM  From Authorid: 21435    My dear sweet lady. I can imagine your brother and the conversations you two must have had. Your words have given us a look into that loving relationship. Never really gone or forgotten. Take care of you, dear Anabel.  
Date: 12/13/2002 11:26:00 AM  From Authorid: 46320    I am so sorry to hear of this news. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God wrap his loving arms around you. God Bless...  
Date: 12/13/2002 11:59:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww... Anabel honey, I am so very sorry for your loss. I only have one sibling, a brother too, so I can relate to the feelings you describe here in this post. Mere words cannot tell you how my heart is breaking for you, just know that I am thinking of you and your family. I am so sorry I just NOW saw this post.. I had no idea... *HUGGGGGGGSSSSS* to you sweety...  
Date: 12/17/2002 2:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 14018    I am very sorry for your loss...  
Date: 12/17/2002 5:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 40199    I am so sorry to hear of your loss anabel...i really don't know what to say. Why do bad things happen to good people??? Take care!  
Date: 12/17/2002 5:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 30051    I am sorry for your loss..I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling..*BIG HUGS*  
Date: 4/4/2003 11:09:00 AM  From Authorid: 18506    This chokes me up anabel, this is the first I have heard of this. Since I have only been 'back' now a couple weeks or so. This was a very sincere and loving tribute to a soul that gave so much. But I was just reading about reincarnation and I truely believe that some lives that are cut short 'come back', maybe as your child, maybe as a neice or nephew later on down the line...maybe even a close friend will have a child...anyway, its a 'hope' that i wanted to share with you. And if it doesnt work out that way, you know he is always THERE..he is an angel hanging around. I feel SO privelaged to share every day with my brothers/ and my husband....(and all family) and I know this is just a moment in time here on earth and then each and everyone of us will join jesus in heaven, and every day I really need to be thankful for those around me. I am just so sorry your brother had to go for now....and tell his young wife too that I am thinking of her and I pray for her stregnth. God bless you rokkin sister....love lisa  
Date: 8/1/2005 9:20:00 AM  From Authorid: 56176    so sad ; prayers huggs time has passed but the empty hole in your heart is vast,time wont heal ,bad fond memories will ease your pain,brothers and sister are special,i have only one bubby and one sissy ,GOD BLESS YA  

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