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Why can't i just let go?!

  Author:  23367  Category:(General Advice) Created:(11/29/2002 6:48:00 PM)
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WEll, this situation that i find myself infuriates me....well it just aggravates me...ok, it does both, hah.

last year, i liked my friends friend, and well it was towards the end of the year so i really didnt talk to him (due to the fact that i'm shy). well this year it turned out that i had a class with him. we made minor chit chat and ya know, confided in eachother with some problems and just shared common interest, stories, etc. well i told him how i felt, and he said that he couldnt see me as more than a friend. he's like totally in love with his best friend that wants nothing to do with him (to make a long story short). well, i know we're just FRIENDS, but i cant stop thinking that maybe just maybe "we" could somehow be. we share those secret looks sometimes....he'll be talking to someone and then he'll be smiling at me...and w'll have eye contact for like five seconds...hah. maybe thats all he wants to be is friends, but when he's staring at me when i have my head down (and looks away when i look up) what am i supposed to think? i'm a lame-o i know, and theres tons and heaps of problems WAY bigger than this......but i'd just like some input.....

it also doesnt help that his friend likes me....

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Date: 11/29/2002 7:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    well he has to get over his friend before he can look at you in that way....  
Date: 11/29/2002 7:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 7654    Since he has made his feelings clear, namely that he wants to be friends, you really only have one choice. You have to honor his feelings and wishes. You do however have option as to exactly how you handle the "friendship". You can swallow your feelings,and work more on just having a "friendship" with this guy or, you can harbor your feelings and hope that the future will see your "friendship" turn romantic. Either way, the one thing you should do is actualy take him up on his offer of friendship in spite of your deeper feelings...I wish you luck..  
Date: 11/29/2002 11:04:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 23367    Its weird, i have never flirt with him, simply because its him, and i'm not that type of girl and he isnt the type of guy that gives into flirtation....so i dont know...  
Date: 12/1/2002 10:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 61453    Right now he probably just wants to be friends. Until he realizes that the person he's after won't give him the time of day. Just continue being friends with him, and if you both play your cards right, there just might be a chance. Just give it time. Best of luck to you. Message me if you'd like anymore help. *hugs* ~*~Innocent_lil_angel~*~
Date: 12/3/2002 7:11:00 AM  From Authorid: 61847    He might be able to look in you a different way since he is over his friend. Maybe we can be. Keep talking, try flirting a little, maybe even something beyond that. That is how my ex-boyfriend and I became a we. Then I dumped him six months later. AngelGurl4ever  
Date: 12/3/2002 11:16:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 23367    But with him its different. he's not the type of guy that falls for some floozy girl that flirts......he'll see right through it.....and besides, its weird and i cant really explain it, i dont know how to flirt with him......and i think its best that i dont try.......ui dont know =( but thanks for everyones advice i really appreciate it. =)  
Date: 12/3/2002 11:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 56489    Kiss him and see what he does, maybe he's standing back cause of his friend, he's looking at you having second thoughs, trying to figure out if he's doing the right thing. Aimless  
Date: 12/4/2002 9:56:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 23367    its weird, your like the 6 person to tell me that. I dunno, even his like REAL close friend told me to kiss him, but i dunno. i really dont want things to change..so who knows...i'd be afraid of his reaction. ALso, i've never kissed anyone before....and i wouldnt mind kissing him, its just the fact that it really wont help that i havent kissed =S  

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