Date: 11/27/2002 3:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
you can do both... you can still be friends with teh Ex...i am with my Ex... your current BF should understand as long as you are spending more time with your current BF then your Ex it should be fine  |
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Date: 11/27/2002 3:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61453
My boyfriend completely understands, because he knows how i am when someone i know goes through a lot. I just don't want my friend to get the idea that i don't care about him, because i'm giving my boyfriend more of my time than i am my friend. |
Date: 11/27/2002 3:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
Don't push either. You can be friends with your ex and continue being with your boyfriend. Your ex is just going to have to understand that you don't have as much time to spend with him when you two were together.  |
Date: 11/27/2002 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
ok dotn plan to please everyone....they do knwo you care for the start, but you cant not in this life please everyone....jsut please yourself and do what you think is right...from this post i am guessing that you do want to be spending more time with your friend than you really are, but you dont want to push your boyfriend away...if your boyfriend understnads what you are doing then great, go and send more time with your friend, go and have fun, but DONT forget about the one whihc you are spending little time with...they are both your friends, except one is jsut closer than the other! goodluck....oh and it is not your job to please everyone.....you have to please yourself 2! *hugz*  |
Date: 11/27/2002 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 61673
i think you should spend equally time with them both. Tell ur bf that ur friend really needs ur help right now and u need to spend time with him too.  |
Date: 11/28/2002 11:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 50861
u can do both   |
Date: 11/28/2002 5:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
You can still be with your boyfriend and help your friend at the same time.  |
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Date: 11/28/2002 5:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61453
Thanks for all the advice. I agree Teen Life, i should please myself before anyone else. I'm more of a person tho, that others come before i do. |
Date: 12/2/2002 10:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 61847
If your boyfriend can't understand that you have guy friends and that he is going through a hard time. Then he isn't worth fussing over. You're not cheating on him, he is a friend in need. Good luck AngelGurl4ever  |
