Date: 11/24/2002 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 26049
awww... *hugs* I'm sorry sweetie. I know how yah feel. I clean up after 6 ppl and 2 animals everyday by myself. They all pretty much sit on their...rears..and do NADA! It's like they live there for free. Plus, I'm trying to get a job and do h-w on top of it all. It is hard. And, I too am having problems with friends. But, the way I see it, is if ur friends are making u feel like crap..then they are NOT your friends. Hmmm..... I just end up cleaning by myself cuz, I don't wanna like in a crap hole. :P There isn't too much u can do bout ur brothers g-f. Maybe talk to ur mom or brother bout it. How old are u? There prob isn't much u can do till u move out.  Msg me anytime if u wanna talk.  |
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Date: 11/24/2002 7:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 26049
typo* I don't wanna live* in a crap hole. :P |
Date: 11/24/2002 7:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 53055
Geez...if your friends are makin fun cuz you're fat, then they're not your friends....I would never do that to someone....Hmm....about your house....why not just stop cleaning....eventually they'll all got off their..uh...rears and help out. I'm sorry things are going like this for you. If u wanna talk, then message me. I have AIM, MSN, and yahoo.. [email protected] [email protected] and ZeroVanguard for AIM.  |
Date: 11/24/2002 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
How did the place get cleaned up before she was there? If she isn't a big slob who makes messes all over the place and just leaves them there then nothing much has changed. Just because she moved in, that doesn't make her your maid either. She was an invited guest no matter how long she's there for. If she just stays in her room all the time, she's hurting nothing. If she's wrecking the house and leaving it that way, that's a different story. You're probably screaming and pulling your hair in frustration right now as you read this but it's true. If she makes a mess, it's her job to clean it up. If she doesn't, she isn't hurting or burdoning you so give her a break and leave her alone. It's as simple as that.  |
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Date: 11/24/2002 8:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
As for your so-called friends, ignore them. They're obviously just judgemental idiots who have no regard for your feelings. You really need to find some new friends. No wonder you're so depressed. |
Date: 11/25/2002 11:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 61673
I'm sry about ur friends. thats terrible. you deserve way better. i dont know what to do about ur bro's gf. but if i had a problem with it...i wouldnt care what anyone said, i would go up to her myself and tell her she needs to do something to help around the house. hope everything gets better  |
Date: 11/25/2002 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 56489
Ok first off, quit all the chores in the house let everyone fend for themselves, like you said your not the maid. And as for the losers that your calling friends, don't hang with them, I don't even know you & can see you don't deserve, & are above all that. Pick up a new hobby instead of hanging with those idiots! Paint ceramics, put puzzels together, knit anything, your be peaceful all by your self. Aimless  |
29775 Category:(General Advice) Created:(11/24/2002 7:32:00 PM)