Date: 11/22/2002 10:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 55330
o wow, i dont know what to say! thats a tuffie... give tony a chance because if you tell your friend he's not right, she might get mad for whatever reason. so hmmmm talk out your friend's schedule and see when you guys can hang out and when she's with her boyfriend. dont let a guy ruin your friendship!!! :P  |
Date: 11/22/2002 11:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
All I have to say is don't confront her and tell her that you think there is something wrong with this guy. HInt to her about it because if you do tell her this she won't believe you and she'll think you are trying to break them up because you are jealous of them being together. And don't get to upset that she ditches you for him. Thats just going to happen no matter how close of friends you are. It's all new and they just want to spend time together they'll get tired of each other after so long. And then you'll have your friend back. Hope everything goes well.  |
Date: 11/23/2002 7:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 61946
I think it's just all the excitement of your first boyfriends, when the newness wears off she will realize how she has been treating you (the same way you realized how you had been treating her)and everything will be ok because guys come and go, but true friends are friends forever. Hang in there.
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Date: 11/23/2002 8:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 60018
This kinda sucks :P cause you can't yell at her for treating you like this after you treated her like this. It seems like some of the reason that she's doing this is to get a little bit of payback. She knows that she was hurt when you blew her off and wants you to know how it feels. I say just give it some time and talk to her about the whole situation. Apologize for blowing her off and tell her that you can understand how she would be mad. She may not react to it at first but b/c you did apologize she may realize that she can't do it to you too. I don't know what else to tell you good luck!:P  |
Date: 11/23/2002 10:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
Well, you should try to talk to her and ask her if you and her can have a day with each other atleast once a week, and maybe your friendship will grow. When my friend was obsessed with her new boyfriend, she and I wouldn't hang out with each other any more, but after a while she realized how she missed hanging out with her friends and every thing, and that we gotta hang out more often and such. In time maybe she'll realize that also.  |
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