Date: 11/14/2002 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
awww....love stinks sometimes. but I bet you are young and you will love again if this is not going to last. it is right to be attracted to boys. I think talking is the best thing to do. if it is true, he WILL come back to you. and if in the end...he doesn't, well it was never true to begin with. cherish the memories and love again *huGz*  |
Date: 11/14/2002 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 11341
As the saying goes, You cant have your cake and eat it too. I hope things work out for you  |
Date: 11/14/2002 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
agrees with DMK....  |
Date: 11/14/2002 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
I also agree with DMK, sorry I can't be of anymore help.  |
Date: 11/14/2002 9:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 15997
I agree with DMK...love can be hard but things always turn out the way they do for a reason. If you and your guy are meant to be then it'll happen no matter what.  |
Date: 11/14/2002 10:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
well remember if you want to date someone else he has hte right to date someone else either... if you two want to take a break go ahead... but remember when you get real serious in a relatioship you can't take a break and date someone else... personally i wouldn't have been asking for a guy's number if i was in a commited relatonship  |
Date: 11/15/2002 1:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 54808
You should probably try the break if that's what you both want. There is always the possibility of losing him, but that just means that there is somebody better for you. He could seem like the greatest guy right now, but some guy 10 times better might be right under your nose. You'll never know who's Mr. Right unless you give yourself the chance to meet and go out with many different kinds of people. Good luck and I hope nothing turns out bad. *hugs*  |
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Date: 11/15/2002 1:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 61936
Sounds to me that your relationship has gotten into "a rut" so to speak, and that is why the both of you are "noticing" people now. I think the two of you should, do something spontaneous like...go camping,(a lot of campgrounds have small cabins) get away from the phone, friends, tv & other distractions) |
Date: 11/15/2002 1:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 61933
I have been in your shoes before. You said that you are even attracted to other guys. I know you must really care about the guy you are with now, but sometimes you never know what else is out there. If you do have feelings for other people and he does as well, you cannot punish the both of you by sticking it through. When I was younger (I'm only 20 so it hasn't been long since I was in the teen dating game, but I am married now) my mother used to tell me to look at my hands. I didn't have a ring on them so I could do what I wanted. I had no commitment. I am glad she told me this or I would have stayed with the first guy I had ever fallen in love with, and I would have never met my husband, who I love more then I have loved anybody. Simply, you never know that maybe, just maybe you would have a better relationship and care even more about a new guy then you did your old. If not then remember this If you love something enough let it go, and if it was meant to be it will come back to you. If it wasn't it won't come back and I can gaurentee that you will find something 10 timnes better then you ever thought you had to begin with.  |
Date: 11/17/2002 5:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 56489
You created it by opening your mouth, but better you did that then you both be swingers, lol. But anyway your young you have many years to ake commitments, & break commitments, let nature take it's course, if it's wrong you'll both end up back were you belong. Aimless  |
Date: 11/27/2002 2:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61453
**From Mel**
If you lose him for good, then you know it wasn't meant to be. I know how you feel though, it hurts a lot. If it doesn't work out hun, you know there's other guys out there that could do so much more for you. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to, just let me know. Luv ya! *hugs* ~*_*~_*Mel*_~*_*~ |
