Date: 11/9/2002 9:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
Obsessions like James's are NOT healthy. There. I said it.  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
I agree with me 100% too Kizzle |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
I agree with you 100% Lizzel.  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Jessica, you definently were obsessed with him. LoL |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 8428
Wow obsessed means there is nothing that can be done no matter how horribly that will change that persons mind. Well i can say that total obsessions are not healthy, and many will know when an obsession has gone to far.  |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
I think obsessions are okay. That its okay to be obsessed with something. but I think it can go too far. Like to the point of stalking..of losing a persons sense of reality. I thought I was pretty obsessed with Orlando bloom. But I knew people on sites who claimed to be married to him and to know him and it was crazy. I think an obsession can go too far.  |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
IF the persons 'obsession' is not hurting themselfs OR others IE: the object of their obsession....OR it consumes the persons life....then I don't see a problem with it..  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Pepe, I know somebody that fits that description. |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Hehe Lizzel. |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Becky, I don't see anything wrong with being obsessed with having straight hair or something. But being obsessed with a PERSON? That's scary and I would never want anyone to be obsessed with me. |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
an obsession when it gets outta hand is soemthing that hurts that person, maybe hurts there family or the people who are close to them...an obbsession is something that takes up more than an hour a day, wehter they are doing it or thinking about it...it affects there concentration and the way that they think then it is an obsession! *hugz* i tink lolz  |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 19482
there ARE certain boundaries, but MOST obsessions are ok   |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
I think Becky has a good point. Certain obsessions are healthy, but more often than not, they get out of hand to the point its notgood or healthy.  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thank you for your needed input, Teenlife. |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks Chillibean! |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
I agree Melissa. |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Definently Baby Cakiez! |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
when the obsession of a person turns into stalking them, then I think it just might be goin a teeny tiny bit far  |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
obsession= a bad bad thing  |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 51027
sometimes obsession cant be helped  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Yes CBlossom! |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
I agree James |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
The definiton of Obession (from M-w.com LOL): A persistent disturbing preoccupation with an often unreasonable idea or feeling....Well, that doesnt seem exactly healthy. |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 51027
ok melissa its not healthy but is there any way to make it stop know there 's not i dont get why you didint just title this james is unhealthy cause clearley this is a bash to me |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
And sometimes people try really really hard to help people with obsessions to no avail |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 61901
Great Post. Obsession is a Demon which steals the life of a person. It is a monster which devours its host and victim... RangerX said that!  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 51027
*no |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 55689
I think some obsessions can be alright but when it starts to upset someone's life or the people around that person, that's when I think its gone too far.  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
Which Melisa are you talking about? me? lol...Yeah, I agree some people do try hard to get over them, but most don't and let it get to the point where its just SCARY....I'm getting off topic, but is it just me or the more you type "obsession" the more it looks misspelled? lol |
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Date: 11/9/2002 9:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 55689
lol.. i think just looking at it makes it look mis-spelled..or is it? hmm |
Date: 11/9/2002 9:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 49498
James, shut up  |
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Date: 11/9/2002 10:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
LOL Well, I know its spelled right, I had to type in the right spelling to get the definition, its just doesn't look like it lol..Kinda like "Chocolate" the more you look at it, the more it looks misspelled. |
Date: 11/9/2002 10:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
Obsession is such a hard word to describe, because it is so similar to determination (Becky said this earlier, but I agree). So many people have so many definitions for it. I think the worst kind is when people break up and one person can't let go and will not stop thinking it's not over. Obsession with celebrities are OK until it gets to THAT point. Where you find yourself thinking that they love you when they don't even know you. I hear about stories of this all the time.  |
Date: 11/9/2002 11:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 46515
Can't get Eminem out of your mind, can you Rika? Wipe off that drool girl..LMAO!  |
Date: 11/10/2002 12:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 36901
I agree with Becky.  |
Date: 11/10/2002 12:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
hey! i was just talking about this yesterday with the BF and thinking about making a post about it today!! you beat me to it!!  |
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Date: 11/10/2002 6:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 51027
well am i supose to think its not when you are taking about me |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:52:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks Melissa! LoL Definently doesn't seem too healthy! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
EXACTLY Lizzel! Those certain people CAN'T BE HELPED! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thank you RangerX! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:54:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
I totally agree Night Scent! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:54:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Melissa, LOL! Yeah I know.. some obsessions ARE scary! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:55:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thank you B.Monkey! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:55:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
LMAO Monkey Tiger!! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:55:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thank you Apryl! |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:55:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
EXACTLY LIZZEL! The whole world doesn't revolve around JAMES. |
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Date: 11/10/2002 7:56:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Ooops! Sorry Midnightly!! :P |
Date: 11/10/2002 8:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 50864
When it intefers with your life it is obcession when it interfers with their life it is stalking and and becomes a legal matter  |
Date: 11/10/2002 11:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 49742
I agree Mrs. Strider!  |
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Date: 11/10/2002 3:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks Mrs. Strider! |
Date: 11/10/2002 3:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Sorry, GGramma.. I was mad.  |
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Date: 11/10/2002 3:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks AF! |
