Date: 10/31/2002 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 50791
You have such a high self esteem that you believe you can and will find the perect man. And you also believe you deserve the perfect man.. Which is good! So if you find somethig wrong with them you feel that you don't need to put up with it. And if you were doing it cause your afraid of the serious relationship, dont worry you'll grow out of that.  Its good to be picky because it will prevent you ending up with an idiot.  |
Date: 10/31/2002 8:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
i do the same thing and i am 20. i have no idea what the problem is. i find a guy, i like him, i get him and then iam outta there. i avoid relationships now cause i dont hurting people.  |
Date: 10/31/2002 10:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
Remember this rule: Everybody gets hurt, but not everybody hurts everybody. Here's a rule I always use in relationships, 'Before I give my heart, I see how they treat their parents.'  |
Date: 11/1/2002 1:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 59639
Oh my!! i thought i was the only person like this lol.the only advice i could think to give ya is to jus take the relationship slow,that way you can find out as much about him and then you'll really be able to tell if you like him more than a friend.... *Kandi*  |
Date: 11/1/2002 4:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
Blueeyedgrl..you need to take a long break from the relationship thing. Trust me...give yourself time to think about who and what you want before being with anyone else. Maybe 6 months or even a year if you can. Don't look at guys as possible boyfriends but simply friends and when you meet the right one that you can trust...you'll know it because your mind and heart will be open to it. Above all else do not listen to anyone else or let them sway you into anything. Be strong in your convictions and you will be surprised at how much respect and sincere admiration you will get for that and for that, your next boyfriend will truely be the love of your life. Good Luck hon...  |
Date: 11/1/2002 5:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
take it easy-- there's no rush to get into another relationship! You came out of a really bad situation not too long ago, I know, and you just aren't ready to get into again. You are very young-- it's not unheard of for girls your age to stay away from the relationship thing and concentrate on other areas of their lives-- school, activities, plans for college and the future. Why don't you do that for a while? Then, when you are ready and the right person comes along, you can try it again and you will be a happier, more secure person.  |
Date: 11/1/2002 10:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 49091
Your not inmature! I have had the same feeling. I was hurt 15 times (by the same guy) and i am STILL trying to get over him. It was our 2 year anna. On August 25 and i am still crushed. I am just like you. I can't hold a relationship for a while either. The longets is about 6-7 months then i say i can't handel this anymore and find something wrong with him also. You and I areust afraid to get hurt again and it was awful when we did get hurt. I feel that if I do get hot and heavy with a guy again that i am gonna get hurt even more then i was before. All i really know about life is not everything is gonna work out for me and that i wil get hurt and that i have to deal with it...i am not saying this is what i think about you, because from what i have heard around USM your a very sweet girl... i am saying wither we like it, life is gonna bite us in the butt sooner or later. I wish you the best of luck!  |
Date: 11/1/2002 10:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 20104
I was like that until I had my first really serious relationship at 17. I only dated him for 11 months though. Before him I would date for a couple months and dump them because it was gettin too serious. Som people arent ready to be in serious relatioships so soon. My best friend in highschool dated her boyfriend for 4 years. I had dated 15 or so in highschool. It all depends on the person. There is nothing wrong with you. Oh and I didnt have my 2nd serious relatioship till I was 20 so dont think there is anything worng with you.  |
Date: 11/1/2002 12:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 9509
Aww sweetie! You're still growing up. I got out of a serious relationship over a year ago and I was very afraid to get serious with a guy. I wouldn't go out with anyone for over ten days at a time. I just couldn't. All I did was stay single for awhile until I knew I was ready for another relationship. Finally, the perfect guy found ME! I've never been happier.  |
Date: 11/1/2002 2:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 60945
I think that you're just scared of being hurt again ~Demonicangel~  |
Date: 11/1/2002 7:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
I think that because of your past boyfriend who seemed like the jealous kind, you were afraid of him being a problem later in a serious relationship so now when you try to get a serious relationship you look back to it and then when you see some kind of sign that seems bad you want to end it. Give yourself time to realize that not all guys are the same. Best wishes to you blueyedgrl  |
