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BEING NICE......................Thunderhead

  Author:  15033  Category:(Interesting) Created:(10/5/2002 9:20:00 PM)
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The High of Being Nice

Psychologists have long wondered what motivates people to be nice. Now reseachers at Emory University have found that cooperating with another person activates the pleasure centers of the brain, the same parts that are stimulated by rewards like food or money.

The scientists used magnetic resonance imaging to scan the brains of 36 women while they played the "Prisoner's Dilemma Game," a decades-old model for conflict and cooperation. Two players independently chose to either band together for defect. If they cooperated, they each earned $2, if both defected, each got $1. But if one cooperated and one defected, the defector was paid $3 and the cooperator got nothing. The researchers found that most of the time the women chose to cooperate. Whenever they did work together, the scientists could see stimulation in two parts of the brain associated with pleasure. "This suggests that people find it rewarding to cooperate with each other," says neuroscientist Gregory Berns, Mutual small acts of kindness really do make you feel better...(and when you feel better, you are healthier....:-)

...And this explains the addiction behind USM...Don't ya love it?



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Date: 10/5/2002 9:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 18887    hmm that is interesting. i wish my female boss, and i would work good together, cos then we'd get things done. well said, and thank you for posting this  
Date: 10/5/2002 9:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 3688    this is really fascinating sis....being nice is alot healthier for you, something i've always realized, though i've not always practiced it  
Date: 10/5/2002 9:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 943    I would totally have to agree. I am all of the above. LOL  
Date: 10/5/2002 9:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 12341    Interesting post, I have often wondered what motivates mean behavior and human decency. Why are some people born nasty and mean? Some may, because of abuse, become abusers, but what motivates the truly mean and nasty?  
Date: 10/5/2002 10:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 21867    ...like the saying "When two minds come together, a third consciousness is born" Working in unison is a great way to accomplish more than two people working alone...and as research suggests, its also a healthier option Love Ya *kiss kiss*  
Date: 10/5/2002 11:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 40881    Hmm.. I have always wondered why some people choose to be "not so nice" It would give me an ulser to be rude all the time, when I do hurt someone I feel like crap! Good post! *love&hugz*  
Date: 10/5/2002 11:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 49269    Me too Daijha! I feel incredibly mean if i ever hurt someones feelings, i like being nice   
Date: 10/5/2002 11:48:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 15033    I need a fix....I LOVE YOU ALL !!!! ahh, I feel much better :-)  
Date: 10/6/2002 7:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    being nice and helping others is a very important part of my life. The feelings I get from it are so good that words really can not descibe it.  
Date: 10/6/2002 9:50:00 AM  ( Admin-DNL )   I feel like Daijha when I hurt someone's feelings...its horrible. I prefer not to hurt peoples feelings lol, I like being nice
Date: 10/6/2002 10:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 54987    Thanks interesting Thunderhead.. and I agree also from experience that it's true. Another offshoot of that is on USM. I find that whenever I'm at loggerheads with someone I don't feel as good as when I'm in agreement with someone. That gives me something to think about. I'm in agreement with YOU so I feel good. Come here and give me a big hug!!!  
Date: 10/6/2002 5:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 177    I'm nice; I'm really really nice!  
Date: 10/6/2002 6:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 54247    Excellent perspective. I found years ago in the workplace when someone new came onboard, that, if you went out of your way to be nice to them, it paid off. Actually, I was teased by my husband who said that I went out of my to be nice to people I didn't like. Oddest part was that once I was nice, I found out they were nice also - many people are shy or afraid of being hurt.
Date: 10/6/2002 7:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 177    I'm nice, really I'm very nice.  
Date: 10/7/2002 9:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 54987    OK Gorm we all know you're nice! I'd give you a hug but I don't want it to be misconstrued if you know what I mean... Well OK come here you old so and so... LOL ... hey where did you get that aftershave? From the local five n'dime?  
Date: 10/7/2002 9:56:00 AM  ( Admin-JGB )   well isn't this interesting!!!
Date: 2/20/2007 6:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 19586    USM is a great addiction.....  

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