Date: 10/3/2002 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 57079
im in sorta the same situation but im acctually going out with the guy and he is the best thing that has happened to me in a while he is a great person to hang around with and im glad i have him i think if you like him dont care what your friends think about him just do what feels right to you!! ~*~Angel~*~  |
Date: 10/3/2002 4:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
It doesn't matter what others think. It's what you think that is important. In school, so many people are so superficial. You have to go out with someone cool. Parden me while I puke. Make your own choices.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 4:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60507
thanx wild bob  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 4:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60507
i really needed that |
Date: 10/3/2002 4:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
this might be the one and you might just blow it by worrying about what people might say.  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 4:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
GPC is right. |
Date: 10/3/2002 4:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
I think WildBob said it all. -*Skylar*  |
Date: 10/3/2002 5:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 46515
If you would just stand your ground and like him no matter what others think, how can others NOT respect you? I think your friend is immature and needs to understand you aren't as shallow as she is.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 5:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 10245
It really only matters what YOU think. My husband is not exactly what anyone would call "social". When we are with other people, especially those he doesn't know well you would think "What the heck is she doing with this box of rocks?" but when we are alone we carry on some very meaningful and interesting conversations. Anyone that looks the part can stimulate you physically but someone that can stimulate your mind is definitly a real catch!  |
Date: 10/3/2002 5:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 15675
okay no offense meant but you sound kinda shallow...Go for him if he'll make you happy forget losers who dont like him its what u like. You could give it a shot though you might not say him again its really up to u...  |
Date: 10/3/2002 5:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
if you like him and he's as sweet as you say DO ask him out! who cares abotu social standing... it shouldn't stop you from liking maybe even loving someone juding him just becuase he's a "lower class" in social standing at school is pretty shallow.. i'm not accusing you of being shallow... if you like him ask him out bring him around your friends and maybe they can get to know the real him like you have  |
Date: 10/3/2002 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
just as much as you like him, you shouldn't really care what others think about him or you, just what you two think  , and don't try to make him be popular its like trying to change him, when you like someone you don't want to say "well i like him but so and so gots to change" no no, you must like him for who they are best of luck to you both  |
Date: 10/3/2002 10:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
Tell him how you feel..who cares if he's not popular..you like him that's all that matters!  |
Date: 10/4/2002 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
Who cares what other people think? Like GPC said, this might be the one...  |
Date: 10/5/2002 6:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
if you really like him go for it. As you get older you will realize that sometimes the really neat, interesting people aren't the most popular ones-- sometimes you see things in people that others can't. It's like discovering gold, it's a wonderful feeling-- you get to know and understand the really cool parts of a person that no one else was smart enough to notice. It makes you feel like a millionare. What everyone else thinks isn't all that important either-- another thing you will realize as you get older. What matters is how you feel about him. Believe me-- you will be kicking yourself years down the line if you drop this guy because your friends didn't think he was cool enough. As for him leaving in a year's time-- that's actually gives you a lot of time to get to know one another, especially at your age when most relationships don't last more than a couple months anyway. People have summer flings, why not a year-long one? Sometimes it's not about forging a long-term relationship-- it's about the joy of getting to know another individual and about discovering things about them and about yourself in the amount of time you are given. And, who knows, maybe you will still stay in contact after leaves, hm? Go for it, I say.  |
Date: 10/8/2002 10:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 56489
Who cares if hes popular, & what other people think as long as long as your happy. He will change just by being with you, you'll be amazed the affect one perso can have on another, GO FOR IT! Aimless  |
Date: 10/18/2002 10:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 43991
I know its been a while since you wrote this post.. so I dont know whats happend, but have you ever heard that song "Skater Boy" Think about it.. the guy really likes this girl, and the girl likes him 2, but she wont admit it becauser her and her friends are stuck up and they think they're better then him, he ends up being a famous rock star and falling in love with another girl! So, you never know.. you might as well take a chance. You'll loose a lot more if you never try. XoXo -  |
