Date: 10/3/2002 8:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 24003
The devil made you do it? LMAO Arent you an athiest? Anyhow...I dont know what you did to make them so mad, but Im sure you will be forgiven.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 8:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 54441
this is a very sweet apology..i'm sure they'll straightaway forgive u without questioning or reminding u of the things u've done or said...it is the kind of ppl we have here in USM..*Hugs*..have a wonderful day!  |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 38278
I hope you'll be forgiven.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
As I have said before, no experience is a wasted experience if we learn from it.  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 9:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 24003
Oh! and congrats on being pregnant again. |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
AM, you know... I really believe you here. Yes, I kicked you hard, but that is how I am when I love someone and someone else trashes them.. heck you can even ask George and Ginger how passionate I can get when it involves those I love. I know that Karen will forgive you because she is like that... she is a beautiful soul with a huge heart and although you did hurt her very bad with your words, she has a heart big enough to forgive anyone for almost anything.. now forgetting may be a different story, I cant say anything about that. I, personally, accept your apology and I really believe this is from your heart... and I admire you for coming here and saying this. So now maybe we can move forward and put all this behind us. LOL, you do NOT ever have to kiss my feet.. I never require that out of people.. lol. But I do appreciate the heart-felt apology here...  |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 32763
LOL gail, you don't like having your feet kissed?? shoot, i do!!!!  na j/k....AM, i am impressed that you dug deep this time and found the words for this post. sometimes it's hard to speak from the heart and i feel like you did a good job. i'm sure everyone will forgive you and it's like LSR said....no experience is a waste as long as you learn from it. just keep your chin up. with time, i'm sure things will slowly get back to normal.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 1631
Crocodile tears, y'all...crocodile tears...  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 9:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 32763
let's hope not ali. i choose to give her the benifit of the doubt on this one and hope that the experience she went through wasn't a waste. |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:41:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
Ali - look if you are so set on people not liking me, then fine ok. I will not extend this apology outside of USM not for you not for no one, period. I am not sorry to Jason, or any of them! If you don't beleive this, than fine, I don't care...... plain and simple, I do NOT CARE.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 2030
Listen, You didn't offend me, and the people you did offend are tough enough to handle it and did. My question is why should it be that anyone can do any kind of heinous thing, and as long as they say "Sorry", it's OK. Where is that written/ Let's see; I got drunk last night and ran over your kid, Oops! "SORRY" The devil made me do it. I said something hurtfull and cruel to you yesterday, knowing full well I was doing it and not only that I argued about it with others for two days and still couldn't recruit anyone to my side, So, "Sorry!". Like I said, it'd nothing to me, just an observation on society I guess.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 1631
It's not about liking or disliking. It's about laying out the truth. I voice what I think needs to be said whether people LIKE IT OR NOT. I think of all people, YOU should appreciate that!  ... |
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Date: 10/3/2002 9:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
Bcar- thats just it, they dont have to except my apology! I don't expect them too ---- It's up to them... all I can do is say Im sorry and I shouldn't have said it, ya know..? |
Date: 10/3/2002 9:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 53836
I am glad you are ok and Lili left Galveston alone! I think it is a beautiful thing to realize a mistake and right it...though I have no clue what took place for you to write this, I can tell it came from your heart...take care  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 32763
hmmmmmm. ok i just got to know. how can you be here and sound so sincere and be somewhere else and be completely differant??? you are so full of contradictions i just don't know what to think. do you mean it? don't you mean it? does anyone know when then ride will end.....i think i'm getting sick. |
Date: 10/3/2002 10:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
AM, I just read your "other" post.. and now I am sick to my stomach  |
Date: 10/3/2002 10:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
I think you guys are being a little harsh here...Grant it I didn't see alot of what was posted to cause such problems but I do feel that AM is sorry for what she said. Sometimes you write something thinking its fine as you are writing but when you go back you realize just what a jerk you are. Everyone has a right to their opinion. AM has hers, Thunderhead, Babie, NKA, Gail...me...you..this one that one. We here at USM are supposed to be one big happy family and yes even in real life things happen and you say things you don't mean or even if you did mean them they came out alot harsher then your meant. She realized she was wrong...she apologized...cut her a little slack. Now on she will just have to watch what she says because it can be forgotten but I'm sure not forgiven. Just try is all I can ask of all of you. She is part of this family to. *IP*  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 32763
yeah, one great big disfunctional family! LOL |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:32:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
I have no desire to go to the other sight any longer, and I will not go back. I know that I have upset a few of you - it will take me time to fix it im sure. all i can do is say i am sorry - and you know what --- I am sorry! whats funny is how nice people can be here then go there and be jerks..... which is fine. I did it too- and i realize it was very two faced,,,,, I will not do it again.! I apologize to redman and ginger, this sight is truely beautiful, and it just took me a long time to realize it........ |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:39:00 AM ( Admin-JGB )
Is this supposed to be a joke?? *I'm confused once again ... lol I'm a mushroom!!! |
Date: 10/3/2002 10:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 46069
you have no desire to go back there.. thats funny.. i didn't think you had a choice in the matter seeing you have been banned from there..  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
I just do NOT know what to say to this.. I just dont.. |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 1631
Hey, if it's easier for you to shoot fish in a barrel, go for it... |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:48:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
Gail please check your messages. Ali I will not defend myself to you - so please if you don't like me simply go away, and leave me be! You have more than given your opinion here, why dwell on it? |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:49:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
sk8r, I didn't know i was banned from there, but thanks for the information! |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
sk8er, why don't you say things to my face, like POOR ALEX ..... if you have something to say to me, say it here........... don't bring my child into this! He has nothing to do with this. That was uncalled for. |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
gale i will send the conversation to you! If you would like! |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 46069
ur right i should have said it too your face.. and its not my style to say it.. maybe i shouldn't have written down my thought so carelessly... but that is mild to other stuff that has been said.. pertaining to the same thing... and i do apologize for that comment , but it is a thought that crossed my mind.. not a good thought though |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:59:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
sk8r I take very good care of my child. He is almost 2, and the most loving child I have ever seen, of coarse Im prejudice cause he is my son, but he is very well provided for. I am a good mother, and a shocker to you - but I was recently approved to be a foster mother- so hey go figure. IOm not a heartless person sk8r, and I know I said some mean things, it doesn't mean im not human, and I don't have feelings. Remember that! |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 2030
*Shakes his head ruefully* I'm not even going to say it, sufficient that you know I'm thinking it. |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:03:00 AM ( Admin-JGB )
AM you care so much, that is obvious! Why keep up the fake "hard" attitude when it is obvious you do care what people think? Is it cuz if you are hard enough then people can't hurt YOU? Let yourself be a loving sincere person... what is wrong with being that way??? I don't understand yet again????? |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
What other site are you guys talking about??? *IP* |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
Whoa....now I see why people are so harsh...yikes. *IP* |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:15:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
Jungabel, you are a very sweet person, thankyou! |
Date: 10/3/2002 11:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 30743
everyone makes mistakes in life. an apology is better than no apology. God accepts apologies from all our sins, if we ask, no matter how terrible. It is not my business to forgive you, God all ready has forgiven you. Whether you believe in God or not, I do, and I know that I follow His example.  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:19:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
thanks moneky! |
Date: 10/3/2002 11:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 48941
It is not for me to forgive you, you didn't hurt me..I hope you have learned a deep lesson..  |
Date: 10/3/2002 11:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 25438
I personally just looked at what was said and I have to say, I can see where you are comming from. You phrased it terribly wrong, but taking the personal aspect out of business is necessary sometimes. Being a nurse, or a doctor, might change some peoples mind. When it comes down to YOUR salary depending on collecting money owed to you I think people would sing a different tune. Your observation, which is one I have made many times, is if you are on here you aren't broke. You have a computer and access to the internet and a phone line. And time. So to make it short all of these people are very forgiving...I think they will let it slide. Try not to be SO harsh next time though. Best of Luck!  |
Date: 10/3/2002 12:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
Although you did not say anything to me some of the things you said could have been said about me...my husband was almost out of work last year right after the attacks on September 11th. His income quickly fell to less then 200 a week and that is beofre taxes. Now yes we had internet at that time but only because we signed a contract and it came directly out of our account if there would have been no contract we would have dropped that also as we dropped all extras off our phone and conserved what we could wherever we could. But we still fell behind what little we had saved was simply not enough to pay all our bills and feed us so the bill collecters started calling. One week and this is not a lie we had enough money to either pay for food or pay one of our credit card payments after all the other essentials were paid and I had the creditor on the phone and he told me he did not care if my kids were going to go hungry it did not matter to him he was only there to get the money we owed. So are they heartless?? YES Should I pay my bills??? ABSOLUTELY!! Could I? Not at the time. I had to make choices and I am still playing catch up now...oh yes and it was an in stant drop not a gradual one with his income as alot of people may have thought after the terrorist attacks...he works on rental cars in the tourist capital of the world...Orlando,Florida. There were no tourists therefore no cars to fix therefore no money. So you tell me what you would do in a situation that is similar? And granted I do not know Thunderheads situation but I do know how rough it can be to have a bill collector call and have to tell them you do not have the money to pay...how crapy that can make you feel. So I too am one of the one's who was very offended by what you said. I hope and pray that you never find yourself in a situation where you do not know how you will pay all your bills. However I am sure that most of those on this site will forgive you for what you have said but it sure was an eye opener next time in a touchy thread I think everyone might think twice before they hit reply. Sorry for rambling but I think that what you said probably hit alot of people close to home at one point in their life or another including myself.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 1:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 4548
this is just as disturbing as everything else i've read. i assume it will be deleted, anyway.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 1:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
this is intersting... someone recently did some very mean rude things to me then she came back and said "i'm sorry" expecting me to completely forgive and forget.. and i told her no and she completely blew up at me expecting me to forgive her soo easily... i told her to show and act like she is sorry not just say it then forget it  |
Date: 10/3/2002 2:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
My head is LITERALLY spinning here..LOLOL..This was a VERY nice post and would have been GREAT...had I not just read the OTHER post at the OTHER site that is...ugh!!! Sooooooo which is it AM??? Are you REALLY sorry or are you REALLY not caring??? I mean HERE you are sorry, THERE you are FAR from sorry..*confused look*..Oh and from what I saw THERE..You cannot go back because you were just BANNED..I dont think you had a choice in the matter..LOL..Oh well..Nothing to me..I kind of feel sorry for you though..I really do.  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 3:22:00 PM ( Admin-MG )
hmmmmmmmmmm and the wolfs circle with their vicious teeth & words! |
Date: 10/3/2002 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 998
Oh my Alexanders Momma, I find this post amazing. Not many people find it in themselves to look introspectively to find errors in judgment. Then to offer up such a heartfelt apology is extremely nice of you. Albeit, I was not emotionally embroiled in the arguments so my point of view is not as hurt as others are, but I think you could be given a chance to change your stripes. I personally thank you for offering up this apology and hope it might clear the air with a few of the people who were hurt.  |
Date: 10/3/2002 6:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
On the other site you said USM is a bunch of big fat losers because you'd seen the Washington picnic pics. Apparently, you've decided you like big fat losers after all huh?  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 4548
^^^^^ snookums that is a good point. i'd becareful of whom i called "wolves," especially if i didn't know the WHOLE story... |
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Date: 10/3/2002 7:17:00 PM ( Admin-MG )
Jez your right I don't know the whole story. I don't think I want to either! I was just so suprised by all the biting comments! That's all I meant! |
Date: 10/3/2002 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 15157
*winces*  |
Date: 10/3/2002 8:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
:-)  |
Date: 10/3/2002 8:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I'm all lost as usual..lol  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 8:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
Okay, I had to go ahead and say something here. I read the whole post on the other site. And that one made what transpired here look like oatmeal. I was kicked off over there for supposedly being friends with GhostTeller, I know GhostTeller, but rarely speak to him. I asked an innocent question about where he acquired the website and was immediately booted. He can have the Jerry Springer Show mentality anyway...:-) The comments on the post showed me a lot about who my friends really are and I must say I am happy about that. SO perhaps you did me a great service after all. I would love to be able to answer a few of those comments coming from some that are holding some gross misconceptions, but I won't bother. I wish you the best, mainly because I believe you are good person deep down, AM. Take care....((((Hugs))) |
Date: 10/3/2002 10:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
What an eye opener, I finally visited "that other site", what an eye opener. Just call me Pollyanna.  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 10:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
yeah, that other site is too...uh, lude, rude and wild for me I think! |
Date: 10/3/2002 11:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
WEll I do have this to say, you say that you dont give a *blank blank* about thunderhead, that she is just another person on line. Guess what WOMAN, there are REAL LIFE people here on line, with real life problems and pain, joy and love, OH WOW, just like you, you cut them they BLEED. From everything I have read that you put out, your a selfish person that thinks of no one but herself and the other reason that you put up this for thunderhead is that you have been BUSTED!!! You had too many people against you for what you said. So is this a REAL apology, or an OH gee, I'm busted type of thing and I'd better make it look good cause I've really offended alot of people. YOU DONT know thunderhead and all she has gone through. Lay OFF HER. And please dont give me that I"M a product of my inviroment junk, honey as WE all are. I'd tell you to pray for compassion but since you dont believe in God, guess that wont work.  |
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Date: 10/3/2002 11:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
Perhaps my last comment was too harsh. However, the thing is when most people SAY they cant pay, its because they cannot. AM you say, well a five buck payment a month, but when you have a lot of those FIVE buck payments a month they can add up. Just because a person has a computer and a internet server, doesn mean anything. Doesnt MEAN ya have lots of money floating around. There are lots of free internet servers out there and basically a person HAS to have a phone now days. IT no longer a luxury but a thing of need. Especially when a person is sick. So that is one bill that has to be paid. This doesnt mean a person has long distance. I have local service only but I NEED a phone as sometimes I'm here without a car and what would happen if there was an emergency, as there has often times been. You just need to start getting over yourself and think of people once in while. |
Date: 10/4/2002 7:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 600
Wow..and I ALMOST didn't reply.....but those who know me, know that would be more than I could handle. lol. All that I will say is whoa! I guess I lack the ability to swing in and out of mental delusion......  |
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Date: 10/4/2002 7:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 2030
Just want to wade in one last time to say I have contempt for insincerity in all forms. And that sums up my stand on the issue. |
Date: 10/5/2002 8:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 16069
True friends will try to understand you and accept you for the way you are. Dont worry about anybody else forgiving you, just forgive yourself and move on. I love you and Thunderhead, I choose not to take sides and I choose not to put you down or guilt trip you. I like you just for being you.  |
