Date: 9/13/2002 1:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 40530
OhMyGoodnes!!  |
Date: 9/13/2002 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Wow.. all I can say is.. I'm so sorry all of this happened. *HUGS*  |
Date: 9/13/2002 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
 I can't beleive he has done this to you.I would have never thought he would betray us/you. I am so sorry. I don't hate him. I hope you feel better.  |
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Date: 9/13/2002 1:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 40530
I'm so sorry for you! You are following your heart and not taking the easy way out, that takes guts!!! This has increased my respect for you very much. I'm always here, just to listen |
Date: 9/13/2002 1:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 46527
I am so sorry you have been hurt in this way, what a dreadful thing to happen...  |
Date: 9/13/2002 1:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33922
No...I don't fell better...but, he will do this again....and Im told he is going to be with her now,...so...whatever he wants...BTW....FYI.....she is ...or was on USM Because I was in a Yahoo USM chat with her months ago. Im sure she wants to hide. She should also feel bad over Busting up a family like this....What goes around comes around...she should know...he did it to me...he'll do it to her, all he did was run from stress and depression.  |
Date: 9/13/2002 1:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
I'm sorry to hear this. I know time is a wonderful healer, so just give yourself plenty and remember we all love you. Love,  |
Date: 9/13/2002 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
oh my goodness.. Judi.. i am so sorry you have to go through this.. God will make you a stronger person for this... Girl.. remember to think with your head and not your heart because this pain and angry will eventually subside and then your heart will want to take over.. be strong... it is not our place here at usm to judge Loti for what he has done... And I am sure that there are others here who have done this ...So only speaking for myself.. i will not judge but ho[e others will do the same. .People make mistakes...we all have ..and yes we have to live with the reprocussions of them..God Bless you and your kids Judi...  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
OH MY Goodness!! Judi.. I am Sooo very sorry he did this to you! We were all decieved, thats for sure, and I hope this woman reaps what she has sown as well. You are strong and I know you will get through this, just know if you ever need a shoulder, I am there for you. You have ALL my thoughts, prayers and my strength. *huge Huge HUGS* Love you Judi.. Love, Amanda  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
Judi..All i can say is wow..You are such a strong person..If it was me, I dont think I could have been so nice about it in my post...This shows a lot of character on your part. **hugzz**  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 42792
that is just horrible. I feel for you. I really feel bad for your children. In a way I suppose it is best though than to have stayed wiht him whilke he was doing this crap behind your back. Not all men are like that...don't set yourself up to be frigid. It was him, not you. You are suffering enough and don't need to feel like you can never love again. I wish you all the best  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Wow!! Judi, I dont know what to say..I know you said not to be angry with Collin..but hon..how could I not be?? I was on the phone with you last weekend when you were so upset..I sat here on this end with my heart breaking for YOU..You are a much better woman than I will EVER be hon..*hugs* and LOVE to you my friend!  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 16114
Ohmygod!!! He didnt seem like a person who would do that.  Im really sorry Judi,I hope something works out.Im really really sorry to hear that  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 28020
Well there is eally nothing I an say, But I hope things work out to be better.  |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 16916
Oh wow Judi..im really shocked! im so sorry that this has happened to you apon the other things you have been going through, As always my thoughts and prayers are with you....*HUGE HUGS* you will get through this   |
Date: 9/13/2002 2:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
Wow...That is totally sad and I am really heartbroken to know that this happened to you. I wish you the best of luck in the future and im sure that everyone here on USM is behind you 100%. I would offer you "words of wisdom" but I am only 15 and have not any. So best of luck to you and Im really really sorry.  |
Date: 9/13/2002 3:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
oh tx....I don't think theres anything I can say to ease your pain.... I am so sorry your going through this...  |
Date: 9/13/2002 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 14754
Judi..Iam so sorry to hear this..iam glad that nothing serious has happen to him, but that does not excuse him for what he has done to you and your family...iam so so sorry that you are going thru this right now..but you are right..i highly believe in..what goes around comes around!!!..hang in there dear..we are here for you...hugs.  |
Date: 9/13/2002 4:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you,such a wonderful sweet lady.I try to live by the motto what does not kill us makes us stronger,and Judi I think you have enough strength to make it past this. One more tidbit what goes around comes around and when good ole karma kicks him in the rear he will not have to wonder why.(((((JUDI))))) I know it's not like a real hug but to me you sure do need one.  |
Date: 9/13/2002 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 19927
Drop the ZERO and get yourself a HERO!!! *hugz*  |
Date: 9/13/2002 7:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 40881
You have got to be kidding me.. I cannot belive what I just read! People have hard times, and they also divorce all the time... but leaving you with no car,money, or warning? Thats not cool at all! And Steven is back with his mom? OMG Judi... I know you're strong but.. thats just wrong,.. and it's too much. I don't know the whole story, and no-matter what happend, he should have found a better way to leave. I'm sorry he did this to you and the kids.. He is a verry likable person, he was sweet and looked to be a loving husband and father... I don't know what he could have been thinking??... I don't hate him, I just don't understand why he would hurt you like this.... I never would have seen it comming with him... never... I'm here for you if you EVER need me. The next few months are going to be hard for you.. sleeping and waking up will be the worst, and everything inbetween will feel like a non stop bad dream that you can't wake up from.. belive me I know. You have your kids and your faith.. they will get you through each day... time will heal your heart, but the scar will last forever..Each day that passes will be better,... I'm so sorry Judi.. All my love, Jennifer.  |
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Date: 9/13/2002 7:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 40881
Sorry...I know it's hard, but you have to eat something.. I sware if I had a way to get there, I would stay with you until you ate something..but I can't..I'm too far, but with all this stress you are probably going to get sick... and with out eating your going to end up in the freakin ER! You might want to tell me to mind my own buissness and go to hell.. but those kids have already lost there father, they can't lose you... please, please, please, Judi... eat. |
Date: 9/13/2002 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Gosh Judi!! I am so sorry!! I am here for me if you ever need me!! God bless your soul!! Love ya!  |
Date: 9/14/2002 7:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 36956
Judi, you know I love you and would be there in a second if I could be! Please for me? EAT something..I know its hard, but your babies need you right now sweetie! It took all my will power 2 days ago not to lose it! I was a crying mess! I know it was because of you. I mean I cry for you all the time when your down, but that day was very bad for me Judi and I know why...so do you! All you have to do is call me Judi and whatever I can do in my power to help you, you know I will. You know I feel your pain, yet I cant do anything from here. Just remember.....I am always here no matter what! I know you think you cant trust anymore, yet you know in your heart I am, and will always be a part of your soul...I can see what others cant! That day you called me on the phone...I knew you would cause I asked for it...You know I love you with all of my heart. You are and will always be my true sister! *Hugs & Love*  |
Date: 9/14/2002 8:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 28946
My thoughts are with you Judi and I am so sorry you were treated so badly. HUGS for you my friend.  |
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Date: 9/14/2002 3:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33922
He did it because he has problems....Depression and other things...What you all dont understand...he didnt just up and leave us...He lead a double life |
Date: 9/14/2002 4:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Ahh..Tx this is so sad. I don't even know what to say. This is not what I expected at all. I've read the post about collin missing and I know how much you love him..do you think maybe you can just take some time apart to see what happens? I know that its none of my business but I do know that you love him greatly. I wish that I could take away the hurt for you. I know all too well what it feels like to have you heart ripped out.  |
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Date: 9/14/2002 9:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33922
No I don't...no matter how much I love him...this is Inexcusible......Problems or not on his part.....I can never trust again...I just want to get on with my life |
Date: 9/14/2002 10:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
Leading a double life takes planning....plans to lie, deceive, and hide selfish intent. I, too, was left holding the short end of the stick when my selfish ex-husband chose to run out of our relationship in a similarly cowardly fashion. Trust me, Judi...it gets better. Worry less about him and his "needs" right now and focus FULLY on healing yourself and your children. My thoughts are with you and I am sincerely sorry for your pain. God bless...  |
Date: 9/14/2002 10:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 7341
I am so sorry ***HUGS*** You're in my thoughts....  |
Date: 9/15/2002 5:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
I'm with Ali. This happened to me 14 years ago when my ex left me out of the blue for his companys receptionist. I didn't see it comeing. He claims it was a "mid life crisis" He was 29 for crying out loud. Judi it took me 13 years of denying myself any happiness with a man because I couldn't trust anyone who said they loved me before I realized I threw away all those years of my life because of some loser. I know you're smarter then me so that WON'T happen to you. Right? I wish you the best. Stay strong. Much love...  |
Date: 9/15/2002 5:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 998
Judi, I hope you really take to heart what all these wonderful people are saying to you. You are indeed an amazing woman, and I know you can pick up the pieces of this horrendous thing and go on with your life. Collin was not the person that he seemed to be to everyone he met here, or to the people he met in person at the Oregon BBQ. I am sadly with Lady Luck on this one. From my telephone conversations with you on the day it happened, till today, I can never look at this man the same again. Still ringing in my ears is your voice on the phone that first day, saying ... " I can't find Collin ". Your sobs turned to incredible pain and anger as I spoke with you each day. I'm sure you will never be the same person from here on out, but your strength and the compassion of your friends will help you to survive this ordeal. Even the fortitude that I see in your ability to just put one foot in front of the other, and then to write this painfilled post. You will get through this, and we will all be right by your side ... no matter how he might try to come back and askew the facts. *Hugs* Judi  |
Date: 9/15/2002 6:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I'm not sure that I could be so forgiving as you though....  |
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Date: 9/15/2002 7:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33922
I do Ginger...USm has helped me so much...No one here is ever going to know what they have done for me...Ever...I love them all.....Im very confused in thoughts and it is hard to do alot of things...but...Im driving on.....God I love each of you here...Thank you so much |
Date: 9/15/2002 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 14135
Judi, you are strong, and you do need to eat, he doesnt deserve you, you are way too good of a person, and i know you will make it, with out him,.... im praying for you, every moment of the day, i dont know how any one could hurt someone in such an awful way... im sorry judi, but i cant forgive him for this, i know you and i dont tlk much, but he hurt you, so he hurt me, and thats not something i just let happen... i cant belive this... no one messes with my family!!!... i love you dearly... and i hope the best for you and your family... and i hope you all will be able to go on... i will be praying for you, remember, you have a family stronger than any here on usm, and we will help you get through this.... i can tell you that i hope you feel better cause i know it will take a lot....but i wish you the best.. take care hun...*hugs* and much love  |
Date: 9/17/2002 4:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 15157
Jude..*hits own head*...I didn`t even know bout this post...I just found it....Jude you know we are all for ya..and we Love ya...It must have took alot of courage and strength to write this Jude...you owe no-one any explainations...you are a good person Jude and don`t let anyone ever tell you or make you feel that you are not. When we talk on the phone...I just want to hold and console you Sweet Jude. My door is always open to you my Texas Tornado. Our families prayers are directed towards you. For strength and remember we are all behind you..your friends will catch ya when ya think yer gonna fall...God Bless you Judi Lovies Diana aka KiKi  |
Date: 10/4/2002 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 27623
Ohh Judi, I am soo very sorry to hear the news. I know this is late, but i'm away at school, and rarely get to logon. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry you have to go through such a horrible event. If there's anything I can do, let me know! Love,  |
Date: 4/11/2003 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
Oh, I am so sorry you had to live through that! I would make it all better if, I could  |
