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Love USM? Is it SELFISH of you? Have a CARE for your fellow USMer...

  Author:  30743  Category:(Discussion) Created:(9/12/2002 11:58:00 AM)
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First of all, I would like to say thank you to the people who wished me well on my Mother's post that I had pneumonia. I have been sick for two weeks now, I am on antibiotics, but I am still fighting the pneumonia. I am weak as water, having ten minutes of chores around my home wears me out to the point that I can't move.

During this time with my bout of pneumonia, I'd like to tell you how many personal messages have been sent to me, asking about my condition and asking how I am, if I am getting better, etc. 0. Zero, that's right, I have gotten no messages, and no, this isn't a pity post, you will see the point in a moment.

Thankfully, I have had people in my life taking care of me. My fiance takes the time to take care of me out of his busy day and does the housework while I can't. My mom came over this week and cleaned my house and cooked lunch. She has provided emails and IM's, telephone calls, etc. to cheer me up.

I can only say I am shocked in a big way by USM's seeming unconcern when one of their members was sick. I know I haven't been on here in a while, and only drop in occasionally, does that mean we drop our friends when we don't talk for a while? We just grow distant and uncaring of their condition? I have been online viewing posts and looking around here, and all I can say is one thing...

I don't want sympathy, I have people that care about me in my life that are doing a darn fine job of that. What I mainly asked for was prayers because as sick as I am right now, I need the prayers being sent up to Heaven for me. All of you that are here, and I know there are many of you... Don't forget your friends or desert them when they need a prayer or two, because one day, it may be YOU in need of that prayer from the same person you didn't care to send one up for.

The main message in this post is to TAKE THE TIME TO BE A FRIEND. Take the moment out of your 24 hours a day to send up a prayer or reply to a post for someone who may NEED you. Take the time to be compassionate. Don't give lip service to how much you CARE ABOUT USM, and how much you LOVE USM, because USM is a website. Rather, CARE ABOUT THE PEOPLE THAT COME HERE. Tell them you love them, too. Yeah, I love USM, but it is a website, and I recognize that. I also recognize that the people that come here... They need love and care, too. So when you wish to say you love USM, remember who makes up the whole of USM. The people...

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Date: 9/12/2002 12:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 40530    Good post. I did send you a message of love and prayers, and I'm sorry about not sending you messages of "How are you?" and it was selfish of me. I have been thinking about you, and wishing for you to get better though. I hope you are feeling better now, and I can't believe I was so selfish...  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 18527    great post ML  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 46208    umm...no offense but i didnt see that post...so i didnt know...DONT BLAME ME!!get well soon!!*Hugzz* ~Nawary AKA  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 30621    I have not been on in a while. The stuf you have is not good. I get it every other year. It takes alot out of you. Please be careful and know that you are loved.  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 13546    Sweet Monkey Angel. You have been in my thoughts my dear, and I have been sending out good vibes. I am glad that you are doing better then before. I do care about this site, and all the people in it. I could never forget YOU, you have presented joy to me in many occasions. (I can never forget your kindness). I send my love, and my strength. You are so right, the people are what make this site. Thank you for this post. *hugs*  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 38278    I'm sorry. I don't remember seeing that post. I hope you'll get better real soon.  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 24924    Wow. I didn't see your post either. I know I haven't seen you around much. There are several friends on USM that I keep in contact on a daily basis; and some that I check in with or call on occasion, and that much keeps me pretty busy. There are many who I talk to once in a while, and many I WISH I had more time to keep up with. With the amount of people coming here, it is hard to keep track of comings and goings, and especially lately it seems, so many members have had all kinds of illnesses or crisis either to themselves or a family member. Plus, there is stuff going on with my own family that needs attention, then add in my own personal things going on, and well, it's simply not possible to keep check on it all. I'm so sorry you have this awful pneumonia; and I wish I had known. I will try to pay more attention to those kinds of posts from now on. I've been concentrating on a couple of people here who have some very serious problems and or illness. If I had your number I would call you right now, Monkey. I do hope you get well and thank you for this reminder. A HUGE warm fuzzy HUG, Catherine  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 58078    Sorry I don't recall seeing that post but just because nobody messaged you doesn't mean that you weren't in their thoughts and prayers. I now know that you are sick and I hope and pray that you get well soon. Are you sure it is pneumonia if you are getting that week and not getting much better by now maybe you should get a second opinion or have more tests run. Have you been tested for Lymes? Just a suggestion. Take care. Hope you get well soon. *HUGS* *IP*  
Date: 9/12/2002 12:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 53836    I absolutely love my friends here...American Girl, Kronk, Sk8R, Hack...just to name a few...Bethann has stolen my heart, Sage is my new poet swap friend...I could go on...when I say I love you, even on line I MEAN IT!!!~SpaceCase  
Date: 9/12/2002 1:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 58308    I apologize if I haven't sent you a message asking about how you are. I try to read/answer all of the posts... there are so many. I only have time to read the first page, if that... With children that have busy schedules with cheerleading, football and the rest of their extra curricular activities, it's impossible to keep up. I ask God to bind the spirit of sickness and loose perfect health to you, in the name of Jesus. I'll keep you in my prayers and again... I sincerely apologize. Much Hugs! Zeeboette  
Date: 9/12/2002 1:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 12103    You have a good point..its the people that make up this website after all..But i didnt see your post about it. sorry  
Date: 9/12/2002 2:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 57452    ~I did not know...{:-< My prayers are with you to get better....

~Ms. HollowLuna
  
Date: 9/12/2002 5:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    I'm so sorry sweetie, I did answer your mom's post to wish you well, but I didnt pm you to see how you were going, have had a few problems myself and I know thats no excuse, as I was concerned for you and should have msg'd you...so sorry hun...hugs Zema  
Date: 9/13/2002 9:46:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30743    Anabel, Jezebel, I'm sorry you saw this post as that. You will never truly understand the real me. And for that, I am sorry because I would have loved to gotten to know you. Sometimes, it requires looking beneath the surface of something to truly understand the message. Try looking beneath the surface and you may see more than you expected.  

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