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Date: 9/1/2002 12:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 42792
most mothers do not have favorites its simply a matter of who they are connecting to at the time. Maybe your little sister needs more attention right now. Why would you want to sleep in her bed anyway? Don't sweat it! Just be yourself, you don't need to change for her to love you. I am sure she loves you just the way you are  |
Date: 9/1/2002 12:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 16376
I agree with NKA  |
Date: 9/1/2002 12:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 61782
Younger siblings always seem to get most of the attention for some reason. I'm the youngest and that's how it is. But I don't think i would call it "favoritsm". If your mom really favored your sister and didn't care about you, then you would probably be out on the streets right now. Your sister is just the "baby" of the family. Maybe your mom doesn't let you sleep in her bed b/c she wants to show your sister how grown up you are and you don't have to sleep with your parents. I could be wrong. Best wishes---Evilgeminitwin23  |
Date: 9/1/2002 12:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 49150
The other replies are correct. Your mother would be heartbroken without you. It is true, the youngest child always gets more attention. I'm not sure why, but I think it's always been that way. Maybe try to help out with little sister or other things, and your mom might have some extra time for you.  |
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Date: 9/1/2002 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 55653
Play Favorites With Your Dad. See How She Likes It. |
Date: 9/1/2002 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
what are you talking about? she LOVES you! didn't she do all those things for you when you were little? it's just your sis turn now....she feels like you are so grown up that you don't need her as much  express to her that you would love it if you two just went out somewhere alone one day a week without the sis and I bet she would be surprised at the interest and happy too.  |
Date: 9/2/2002 6:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I know it may seem like your mother has favorites, somes kids need more attention than others. I know my oldest daughter probably feels as you do, that her sister gets all the attention, but that is only because she is a MUCH more demanding child, my oldest daughter has always been quiet and well-behaved, I can only think of one time I ever had to spank her, she is just an easy kid. Her sister on the other-hand is (how can I put this nicely?), high-maintenance. It is normal to feel a little jelouse of your siblings, I remember feeling as you do of my own little sisters (who were much younger than I), but after I grew up I realized they were getting the same attention I got at there age...You may not want to talk to your mother about this, but could you ask her if she and you could do something special together, just the two of you?  |
Date: 9/2/2002 9:38:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58051
the thing is i never got this much attention as a kid. she knows i feel bad and she never has any simpothy towards me  |
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Date: 9/2/2002 3:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 49150
For parents it seems to be easier with a 2nd child. I really wouldn't let it get to me if I were you. Just know your mom loves you and let her know you love her. |
Date: 9/4/2002 12:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 56369
I am the youngest. I used to get attention, a little when i was younger. Now I find that my mum openly favors my sis over me and my bro. It dont bother me, cos it shows what kinda woman she is to even think about that kinda thing. My sis is through school and is working and earning well. My bro was a drop out rebel type and well I was the one with the mental probs. It dont bother me. Mothers like that are simply shallow and going nowhere.  |
Date: 9/17/2002 9:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 12103
Well if you dont talk to someone about your problem how can anything get accomplished? If you dont talk to her, how does she know what your feeling and how to solve the problem? I would suggest for you to tell her how you feel and WHY you feel that way. Dont say "you dont love me mom" because i know she does..Say you feel she dont love you, and tell her WHY...If you dont talk about your problems with that person, how can the problem be fixed?  |
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