Date: 8/29/2002 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 59286
I would be mad, but if you are 18 you can get a place of your own. Regina  |
Date: 8/29/2002 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 3919
yes, just move out, but i dont know, i would be like, i'm old enough to make this decision on my own, and you can't make me change my mind.........i don't know..........  |
Date: 8/29/2002 8:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
interesting comments so far, I'm gonna add an update  |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
By the way, this isn't about me, well, it is sort of...I'm the person that would have been seen. |
Date: 8/29/2002 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
If someone is over 18 and NOT in school they should either move out or pay rent. Why should parents continue to keep a kid up after they are of age??? And a kid over 18 should NOT want parents to keep paying their way in life, it should be a "pride" thing... this is my opinion and the way we handled "life" in my home, and it worked out very well. My kids grew up to be very responsible Adults..   |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
Gail, the rent issue has only just been brought up, just as everything was set to go ahead. An excuse to prevent it from happening? Maybe... |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
I just saw your update, sorry, Being a parent, I would have to say that just maybe something came up that they KNOW about and the 18 year old doesnt that sways their decision??? One thing this person could consider, is that there are people all over the place looking for room-mates, maybe this person can do what they have been saving to do all this time AND move into a situation like that?? Is that possible?? |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
I'm not sure Gail, I will ask and see if that is an option that could be taken next time I speak with them. |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
Sorry, I just realised what I was doing, you don't mind me calling you Gail do you? Or would you prefer it if I called you Lady Luck? |
Date: 8/29/2002 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
Good Luck to your friend Tandris... I know how frustrated they must feel about now.. Sorry |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
LOL, My name is Gail.. Ladyluck is my friend in Canada.. You said it right.. lol.. |
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Date: 8/29/2002 8:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
OOOPS!! My bad, sorry about that Gail *looks all embarrassed* Anyway, thanks for your advice, I hope we can sort this out. :-) |
Date: 8/29/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 16069
They needed to pay the rent? Well, sorry but that has to come first. You need a place to live. Talk to them about it and see if theres more to it. Maybe they are worried about you going away?  |
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Date: 8/29/2002 9:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 41067
The parents wanted the kid to pay *them* rent LoveOneAnother, ;-) BTW, its not me I'm talking about :-) |
Date: 8/30/2002 5:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 51393
I have a feeling i know who this is Tandris I would just hop on the plane to see you.Parents are like that at times they teand to manifest descisions within their childrens dream.I would just follow my heart and flyThat would be what i would do,she has known you long enough to trust you .So grown love cannot be departed.Just tell her to go now ad say no more.Ticket needs to be ready,because i see if she does not leave now ,both of your dreams may not come true.  |
