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Date: 8/26/2002 7:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
Well if it is in self-defense that is a totally different story!  |
Date: 8/26/2002 7:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 40530
It is ok to hit a woman a)in self defense aka she hits you first b) playfully, and not too hard. It is ok to hit a man a) in self defense aka he hits you first b) playfully, and not too hard  |
Date: 8/26/2002 7:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 42522
I agree with Crystal Peak.   |
Date: 8/26/2002 7:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 15394
Well it is never ok for either sex to hit another, and I do think there is a difference between defending ones self and hitting... IMHO he did the right thing to push her off without hitting, but he is the fool for staying with someone that would do that... male or female abuse is wrong.... I too would have urged him to press charges, as in the least it would have gotten her into anger management class!!!  |
| Date: 8/26/2002 7:58:00 AM From Authorid: 55319 He should get out of the relationship. It is not good to hit a woman, and he turned the other cheek. Putting up with that can cause a person to be phisically and emotionally messed up. He shouldn't put up w/ it. He should get out of the relationship... -Destiny |
Date: 8/26/2002 8:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 600
It amazes me when people feel the need to hit one another out of anger.......I always told my ex husband that he needed to learn how to fight verbally, not physically. I do think that a woman hitting a man is placing herself in a "man's" shoe, but the rope swings both ways. She shouldn't be hitting him period. I agree that he needs to leave the relationship.  |
Date: 8/26/2002 8:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 25828
i didn't read the whole story, but i believe if a woman hits a man, he has every right to hit her back. no one should hit anyone else, and if they do, they should know that they deserve a hit back..should he beat her to a pulp, no, but, he should defend himself, hold her down if he can, and if he can't..pop her a good one so she'll not hit him a gain.  |
Date: 8/26/2002 8:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 51744
My husband always tells me if it hits like a man it gets hit like a man. I know my husband will never hurt or hit me And I would never hit him either! I really hope that all works out for him!  |
Date: 8/26/2002 8:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 14464
Well I guess I can agree with you on this one. Although my brother has pushed his wife of of him before and she called the police on him. They don't hit each other anymore though. But anyway I feel as long as the guy pushes the girl away and not like to the point she could really get hurt it should be fine. But I really think it is totally wrong for eitehr sex to be hitting each other because then whne they do have kids it will just teach those kids it's ok to hit others.  |
Date: 8/26/2002 8:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 58308
I agree with everyone here. This guy should get out of the relationship and he should have filed charges. That was very manly of him to just push her away instead of stooping and hitting her. She needs to sign herself up for anger management classes, if she doesn't get into trouble with her anger first. Hugs! Zeeboette  |
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Date: 8/26/2002 8:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 25828
i like the way the gigglers husband put it..that is exactly RIGHT. |
Date: 8/26/2002 8:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 19460
hmmm i think if i were him i would have slapped her around, but thats just me. she had no reason to act so childish and attack him and then lie and twist it around to make people feel sorry for her. many men are abused by women and are scared to tell anyone for fear people will think they are wusses, for lack of better word. i think its sad that anyone has to hit out of anger. I had a mean boyfriend once that thought it was nice to punch and shove. i got mixed up in the shuffle and coming from an abusive homelife, thought i was wrong for thinking it was bad he hit me. but now i have a good man who doesnt hit me or even ever get mad at me (which annoys me he doesnt even argue!!! LOL)  |
Date: 8/26/2002 11:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 20104
If she was telling you he hit her and you were there and saw what happened then I would be pretty sure she has told other people who werent there he hit her. I totally agree with what your husband says. If a woman can hit a man in the head and the back and all the stuff she did she deserves to be hit back. I have known plenty of women who were the abuser. It goes both ways. You just dont hear about the women side so much because I think some men are embarassed to admit the wife/girlfriend beats them up.  |
Date: 8/26/2002 11:38:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46005
well thanks everyone for the replies, I just dont know where to go from here. I mean she was a friend, he is a friend, do i just set it aside, or should i be feeling the way i do now, like she is the enemy, and she needs help. I mean she is strait lyeing to my face.... I did see everything, and I have had our mutural friends call me, and say isnt that so awful that he hit her, and IM LIKE NO WAY THAT IS NOT WHAT HAPPENED......  |
Date: 8/26/2002 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
no one has the right to hit anyone or abuse anyone... in self defence is kinda a different situation but if you are hitting in self defence to hit or is it trying to stop the abuse? grabbing the wrists to stop from being hit.. i always say.. remove myself from the situation it may cause more anger but no one gets physically hurt..  |
Date: 8/26/2002 5:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
Well, I say I agree with you on this one..I was in a very abusive relationship for almost two years, I am talking about being beat almost every day..If I was not being hit then it was being mentaly abused..I am a firm beleiver that no one should hit a spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend..I also feel that if a woman wants to act like a man and hit a man in anger, she better be ready to get it back..  |
Date: 8/26/2002 10:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
well actually she was very lucky that he didnt punch her lights out, must have taken some restraint to stop doing so, she wants to consider herself very lucky that he didnt...cheers Zema  |
Date: 8/26/2002 10:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 56369
that mans bond to her is in fear not love. I think if a woman is goin nuts to the point where you feel physical abuse is needed, a man should walk away and not turn back. I mean if your about to hit ya girl, thats not love.  |
Date: 10/2/2002 6:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 46515
What I don't understand is why you didn't tell her you know better. That you saw with your own eyes that she is lying. I would have, friend or no friend.  |
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