Date: 8/10/2002 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
Deep down sounds like you are in love with him also. It is possible to have feelings for more then one person...whether you act on it or not is up to you. *ItalianPrincess*  |
Date: 8/10/2002 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
I am, God, the SAME EXACT WAY with every single guy I know! LOL It's harmless, really.. I don't even like any of my guy friends! I don't really have advice, because I do it too!  |
Date: 8/10/2002 3:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
yes you are being selfish do one of two things 1. dump your BF and go out with him or 2. be happy for him and change your attitude.....before you lose everything your BF and friend.  |
Date: 8/10/2002 3:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 13297
One of two things: either you really do like him and want him for yourself (whether you are admitting it to yourself or not) or you are afraid that if he gets with someone else that he will quit paying attention to you and you will lose his friendship. I however think that you secretly like him but you keep telling yourself you don't for fear of all the pain you will cause everyone else. Somehow you've told yourself long enough that you don't like him that you've managed to convince yourself you don't. cheers,  |
Date: 8/10/2002 4:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 39350
I was the same way, and still am a little bit.But I got over it and just accepted that he had moved on. Sometimes u just have to grin and bear it. Take their advice. *huggs*  |
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Date: 8/10/2002 4:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61453
thanks u guys for replying to me. it helped lots. thank u |
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Date: 8/10/2002 4:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 61827
well hes just probaly trying to make you jealous so you can like him i think...just ignore him and when he says that think about your boyfriend |
Date: 8/10/2002 6:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 57471
No I sorta feel that way too with my guy friends cause i'm afraid that she will turn him or he will quit spending time with me or talk to me-so basically I feel that way too cause I don't want anything to happen to our friendship and I think that jealousy is just natural in a lot of situations not just this one I don't think you're being selfish-Jennifer Anna  |
Date: 8/10/2002 7:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 61172
I feel like you do!!! I am a boy but when I saw my ex hangin with this pot head(yes he smokes) I got mad I dumped her to bike with my friends we trick bike everyday and when i see her with that cheepo I think haha!!!  |
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Date: 8/10/2002 10:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 61835
you like him inside maybe soon it might stop |
Date: 8/11/2002 6:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 56489
Well supposedly beind the friend that you are, you shouldn't want to have any say about who he sees & who his other friends are, what if he was like that with you? Especially if there is nothing magical (love wise) between you two. Yes you are selfish & why I don't know but don't be like a weight around his ankle he'll end up hating you for it. Aimless
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Date: 9/9/2002 5:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 57158
*Mel has arrived* Hey now! Why wasn't i ever told bout this?? hmm?? Anywho, i don't think it's any of the above, just don't act upon that jealousy. I'm the exact same way, with A LOT of my guy friends. For instance, i was jealous when nick started talkin bout his girlfriend, whose now his ex. I didn't do anything, cuz i like to be secretive *walks around like that guy in mission impossible* lol. But anyway you know where that jealousy of mine is leading.. remember?? lol. I wanna know these things by the way!! I feel so left out.. lol JK. *hugs* Love, Mel.. ~*Dangerously Tempted*~  |
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Date: 9/9/2002 5:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 57158
Geez.. that was harsh Aimless.. Don't worry bout it tho 'angel', you ain't selfish, a lot of girls get that way. It's a sense of being protective, maybe over-protective, i dunno. ~*Dangerously Tempted*~ |
Date: 9/9/2002 5:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 59960
Maybe since you and him are such good friends you get jealous when he talks about other girls because you think he doesn't care about you or he likes them more. Its not necessarily that your sercretly in love with him. I think its because your afraid the other girls will replace you as his friend. I hope that made sense lol. *~*SinistarEdge*~*
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Date: 9/10/2002 12:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 57158
I completely agree with what she ^ said, that makes a lot more sense i think than what i said. You might feel if he has other girls in his life, that he doesn't need you as much anymore. ~*Dangerously Tempted*~ |
