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ARE MEN WORTH CRYING OVER??...............StarFire

  Author:  55755  Category:(Discussion) Created:(7/31/2002 8:49:00 PM)
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OK, I am just writing this to kind of vent. Some of you know that my bf and I just recently broke up. I seriously did love him, and still do. Everyday, I think about him at least 10 times. We had a really nasty fight after it was all said and done. So we didnt talk for almost 2 weeks. Now, last night, he messaged me, and was all about talking. Told me he missed me and loved me, and that he wanted to see me again. Hes moving to another state and I've already moved to a different town. When we hung up last night, he told me that he would try to come down on Thursday, and I said I would talk to him tonight. Well, he's been online all night, and he wont answer any of my messages. THat wouldnt upset me usually, except that we had said we would talk tonight. Now I'm sitting here, crying, trying to figure out what I did wrong this time. I miss him and love him. I didn't want to see him so that I could try to get him back or make him feel bad for me. I wanted to see him, because we still have a lot of stuff to talk about. And yes, I wanted to see him one last time. Why do we always do this to ourselves? Are men really that important that we should be brought to tears at the thought of losing one of them. I've already lost him, and I'm still crying. All because he went and trashed my one hope of ever patching it up and becoming friends. And, if he reads this, I hope he knows just what he has done to me emotionally. Thanks guys for listening.

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Date: 7/31/2002 8:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 34487    Men aren't worth your tears, until they become your husband! ;o)  
Date: 7/31/2002 8:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 59385    not all of us are liek him some of us treat our women right im sorry your so upset hety if you wanna talk ill talk sometimes it helps to talk to a stranger??..BlueEyesWhiteDragon  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 42519    If you love him so much, why are you just letting it all go? I know you are trying to make it better, and if it is meant to be, then it will get better. Dont lose the faith.. Ive been through this all before, and It DID work out and I am still with him. The love of my life.. dont lose the faith in the love. If you both have the same feelings, then in the end, it will work out. Love ya tonz.  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 53339    Me and my boyfriend have been having problems the last couple months. It is really either of our faults but it was ruining our relationship. Finally we talked and realized that we had both thought about ending the relationship which scared us because we have talked about marriage. But anyways after we talked things got better between us and our relationship is okay. We are still planning on getting married. But boy did I cry during that time. I cried a lot because it hurt that our relationship hadn't been what it was. But I believe that some men are worth crying over but at some point you have to dry those tears and move on. I mean if you have evr been in a relationshipo with any one else besides him you know that it hurts for a while and you cry but eventually you learn from that relationship and find out what you want from a relationship. I think another reason we cry is because that operson has become so much apart of our lives and that it hurts when you know they won't be there anymore like they used to. Well I hope I wasn't rambleing on and bored you and I hope this help in some way.  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 56369    NO! -says the unromanced   
Date: 7/31/2002 9:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 58308    No, they aren't. But it is a woman thing. We all do it, and you'll do it again over someone else one day. I hope you get to feeling better soon. hugs! zeeboette  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 49091    I am hre for you hun! You csn cry on my shoulder! I dunno wat it is about guys, but i cry every time a guy and i have a fight! hey can be soo mean sometimes! I know how you feel! i am here for you! I am kinda going throught the same thing, but he asked anothr girl out aftr he sid he loved me, so his friend/brother(they are so close they are likes brother yeah yeah n e ways) asked me out, but now he won't talk to me! guys can be to childish sometimes and don't know wat they want half the time. Feel free to msg me for anything! i am gona be in all night. I hope you feel better hun! ((HUGGLIES))  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 50435    No, we are not...  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 53427    It sounds like he's intentionally trying to hurt your feelings. He's ignoring you on purpose because he wants to see you crying over him. I've been there and I know it doesn't feel good. My best advice would be when you see him or speak to him don't let him know that you're hurt. Totally fake it if you have to. He needs to see that you're not going to let this get you down. Maybe when he realizes that you would be fine without him he might change his ways. Good luck to you.  
Date: 7/31/2002 9:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 3688    perhaps he's not getting your messages? just something to think about...perhaps he doesn't realize your online? It could be a million things.  
Date: 7/31/2002 10:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 14754    I know this is hard for you now..but i think it's time to let go..its easier said then done, i know..i know how you feel..but your heart will heal...  
Date: 8/1/2002 5:31:00 AM  From Authorid: 14412    in defense of the person this is about. I saw in a comment here that someone said, some of us treat women right. You don't even know the person, and trust me on this, he is one to treat people decent at all times. Star, he may have been shown online, because he may have been playing games at yahoo, and those messages hardly ever go through, or it could have been a glitch. Anything else I have to say will be kept out of this, but before people go and make assumptions, know the person first.  
Date: 8/1/2002 7:21:00 AM  From Authorid: 48941    I don't know why people cry over other people, I guess when you really love someone and you loose them, it is a natural thing that happens. Or you could be like me and at a drop at a hat I cry.  
Date: 8/2/2002 2:12:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 55755    pre I figured it out, and it was becuz his yahoo account that i was mesaging him through was not letting him in. He was on a different account. OOPS. And I do knwo that he would never intentionally hurt me, but I was upset. It's a VVVVVEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRYYYYYYY long story, andyou are right, people do not need to make assumptions. Sorry if i caused any problems. StarFire
  

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