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Date: 7/22/2002 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
It would so so bother me very much if my guy stared at another girl! Heck yeah!  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 19382
The other females out there are "nothing to me" (except my best friend of course, who is female) . But I can still think they are attractive, as if I could help it. But that doesn't mean I don't love my girlfriend and find her gorgeous as well.  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 8:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 57776
Ummm well i kinda mind but not a lot cuz i know hes with me and not the other girl hes looking at yeah he might stare but to me ot doesnt really matter hes with me and notwith her and well about the X rated material what he does that for I have no idea as long as he doesnt mention it to me it doesnt really matter... ~SweetChick209~  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 55679
I don't mind if my guy just looks, I mean what's so wrong with looking and not touching, As for the pornographic pictures I think that's ok because they will most likely never see the female in life and if s the will be disappointed with airbrushing. ~JC  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
Well for celebrities, we say it, but he knows that I'm pretty much kidding, but......He sure does love to frequent the porn sites, and one day he looked at my history and it just coincidently was something about Joaquin Phoenix, so he brought it up, so I looked at his history on the computer, and whoa boy! I'm talking about a lot of Celebrity oops type of pages frequent nudie pictures. It bothers me and he knows it, but he doesn't look at any real people, at least in front of me. B.Monkey13  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 53055
Hey Cuzin PunkStar. When I'm in a relationship, I always keep my eyes on my loved one, no one else. Yeah, it is kinda rare when guys do this, but it does happen. -bloodstone  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 19092
I'm a very faithful man. Been married 24 years. But, I do like to cruise the menue, but I never order anything...My wife and I love to "people watch" it's a great past time...  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
Ships got a point. I love Demon Slayer to death. I love him to the point I am depressed when I am not around him. If he looks at another girl, gopherit. I can look at other guys, and he hates it, but it is something that is natural. It doesn't bother me if he's lookin at X-rated material as long as the X-rated material isn't outside of the TV or Book that the material may be in. There is a line. There is a Look, and there is a Stare. If he was to STARE at someone, it would bugg me badly, but to look at someone else is nature. its unavoidable. Love ya tonz  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
When I was younger , say my teens to mid twenties. Yes it bothered me some..But then if you think about it, they are anly looking at the other girl. It's you that they are going home with every night..But trust me, it will get better.When you get older you'll be going up to that other female and begging her to take him...LOL  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years now. And he knows that it hurts me extremely when he looks at another girl. But he hasn't looked. I know he hasn't cause I watch his eyes all the time. Sometimes I feel so stupid for accusing him or thinking that he would...it just hurts me so much. I always feel so ugly. I hate the way I look and I get jealous of other females. I cry all the time of how I look. I can't even look into a mirror without crying, so I never look in the mirror. *PunkStarChikk*  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 8:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
I can't stand the look at all. It bothers me. As for the porn thing. It really bothers me. I feel so ugly compared to them and other females.....ugh... I'm makin myself cry right now... *L* I so hate how I look...Im soooo ugly... I wish I were beautiful...*PunkStarChikk* |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 5353
I have to agree with Ship Pagan, I may be married, but I'm not dead. I can still appreciate the beauty in other women, doesn't mean I'm oggling or thinking dirty thoughts about them. I always go home to my wife, whom I love and respect more than anything.  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
i've always told my hubby (who i see just replied lol) that he's married he's NOT dead..he loves me...but looking isn't hurting anything...  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 8:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
nansassy i've only been married a few months and i say that lol i'm kidding...lol |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I dont have a problem at all with my husband looking..as long as that is ALL he does..LOL..I am married, but Im not dead..I look..I like to look at nice looking things..and that includes nice looking men..heehee  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 58400
Yes, it bothers me alot. It makes me really upset, and I get depressed. Like you, I have really low self esteem. It kills me when the guy I'm with looks at another girl. It makes me want to cry. X Jersey Attitude X  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 8:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
I just feel so ugly when that happens....Much uglier on how I am now. *PunkStarChikk* |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 57721
I wouldn't like it if my guy looked at other girls like that, but I've never seen him do it so I guess I've got one of the few who don't do that! Jadeeyes  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 59261
Men are visual creatures. Us women like to have peeks at hot guys too..lol We're both guilty on this topic..~*Robyn*~  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 7089
it goes both ways w/me: they can do anything they want, so long as they know i can-- & will --too. i don't own them, i don't care to dictate to them abt what they can & can't do, 'cause i don't care to be likewise dictated to; i only ask they have the guts to be honest w/me in the doing...would truly hope i was still the friend they always had, first & foremost, rather than the little gf in their way or whatever. that goes both ways as well. cheers,  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 53164
It bothers the heck outta me! I HATE IT TO DEATH! It scares me... it makes me feel lower about myself also, I feel low already...  |
Date: 7/22/2002 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
yanno...the older I get, the less I care about a man's wandering eyes. Maybe it's maturity...old age...lol...whatever you wanna call it. Maybe it's because I know we all appreciate eye candy at times. But...in the long run, it's me he loves...and that's what counts to me.  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
oh on a side note too...I see the look of pride he gets when he catches a man looking at me..a look doesn't mean someone wants to jump someone else's bones. it's a look..unless we're blind, heaven forbid, we can't really avoid it. |
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Date: 7/22/2002 9:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
doh!! oops sorry for the double...please delete one of those...lol.. |
Date: 7/22/2002 9:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
well if my BF looks over another girl then looks back at me smiles and says he loves me... it's just showing how he apprciates me and he doesn't want what he sees.. my BF rarely looks at another girl with that lustful look in his eyes, i dont't want to say never because i donno he does work in public and people have checked him out fairly often before! i don't mind when he looks at x-rated material as long has i find looking at another man makes me appciate what i have with him(my BF) more  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 9:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
I apreciate everyone telling me how they feel and stuff and knowing that some people in here can relate to me. *PunkStarChikk* |
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Date: 7/22/2002 10:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 58187
Thats an excellent question. I'm a male and I hate it. I'm married and occasionally I look, but never stare. probably a glance or two if she is really cute. The thing (Seriously) I really don't want to look. I love my wife and would never cheat. Some women take half of the day maintaing their looks., They tan, the work out, they show off their well rounded little butts and their silky hair to get all the attention they can. A man is like an animal. Always ready to mate. He is naturally attracted to beauty and a chemical in the brain is saying "Hey man! Look, Check her out. Come on, what do you have to lose?" I feel sad when I look. My wife doesn't have the best body, nor the worst, but I love her and that is all that matters. Those other women are just objects of desire who have no purpose to love to a married guy like me. They may be beautiful, but I do not love them, nor could I ever. Women are usually different and could care less if Ricky Martin is walking down the street. Why? I believe women carry a lesser amount of the chemical balance. It's so hard to explain to a female. Men will always look at another women. even when they do not want to. Many times I do not look, but my curiousity blunders my rational thought. I NEVER STARE THOUGH! ANd that's important. I could never break my wifes heart. I do not lust over other women, I merely think they are beautifula and I carry on. Make sense? I don't know. I'm lost! Kill me! I'm a man |
Date: 7/22/2002 10:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
Yes that bugs me A LOT!!! I've always been really insecure with myself so looking at other girls would really bother me and make me feel inadequate. One of my ex-bfs used to look at porno a lot and that made me jealous..I know they're just pictures but still! I'm just an incredibly jealous and possessive person, I guess. But I can't help it!   |
Date: 7/22/2002 10:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 59248
first, read what 58187 said, he sounds very intelligent and like he hit the nail on the head. I would advise you to count your blessings and live life not in fear that your boyfriend might leave you (which is the fear if you're worried about him looking at other women) but rather in rejoice that you get to share mutual love, one of the strongest human emotions ever experienced - the other being hate, don't experience that one. Anyways... most of the time some of the really bad xxx stuff has women doing things that you don't want to do, and he doesn't want to make you do, so he can live vicariously through porn. I have never had a g/f, so I can't give another opinion, but I do find the human body to be esthetically pleasing. -yes, both men and women (I'm that secure)  so... don't sweat it, and be glad you're not a porn actress |
Date: 7/22/2002 10:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 56369
Well said 58187.. or wateva :P I hope I find one like you.. I dont mind so much about the wanderin of the eyes, but if anything else goes wanderin too, then IM MAD :P - honeysoul  |
Date: 7/22/2002 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 58416
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 yrs. I use to get jealous if he looked at another women. I would also accuse him of it. It was just an insecurity about myself that made me feel that way. So I feel out of respect for me he should not do it in front of me. I will look at a good looking man if I see one. But,I wont do it in front of him out of respect. As for the porn....I watch it with him. Those women arent so different from the rest of us. I'm sure you are a beautiful women and it's about time you started to think that way. Remember no one is perfect. Even though we sometimes think so.  |
Date: 7/22/2002 11:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
Well, I can admit that YES I do get jealous.. I was jealous of VG's friends.. He was friends with some girls in one of his classes, and he always hugged them, and when I was at his school for the day it KILLED me to see him hug a girl.. I wanted to cry adn crawl into a hole..And I always felt like that since then. I am a jealous type, I hate it when I'm jealous though, it's a horriable feeling. I am just very scared to lose my Gerbil. But, if I ever caught him to look at X-Rated material I would be very upset wit him if he did that, but he doesn't, thank God. Also! Just like you, when my friends or any girl friend of mine says "He's so hot! Don't you think?" To me... I do say no. WHY think some other guy is hot while you're dating a guy already? It irritates me so much!  |
Date: 7/22/2002 11:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 15076
It irritates me too.. maybe we could talk sometime.. make you feel better.  |
Date: 7/23/2002 6:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
Doesn't bother me in the least. It's an involuntary response for them most of the time-- their eyes are up and roving before their brain kicks in. Besides, what's wrong with admitting that you find other people attractive or admiring beautiful people? It's human nature to find many people attractive, I think. Honestly, I look at good-looking guys all the time. Doesn't mean I'd ever sleep with any of them or that I love my boyfriend any less. Anyhow, I'd rather have my guy be honest with me about what he thinks than try to hide it from me. I guess I'm very much the non-jealous type. Doesn't bother me that a guy looks at other girls because I feel secure in the fact that I am unique and wonderful and if I'm not the only girl in his heart, then he's out of his mind and he doesn't deserve me.  |
Date: 7/23/2002 8:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 54830
Well, yeah, who wouldnt get irritated if a guy looked at another female? And i didnt even know they made X rated videos, they must not have them in my town, or else everyone would talk about them.. GB  |
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Date: 7/23/2002 3:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
I get so jealous so easily its sad. I hate it. *PunkStarChikk* |
Date: 8/1/2002 2:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
It does bother me to an extent. But i just remember he comes home with me. 8^) Now if he was to touch another woman without me around{im bi 8^)~ }, i would give him 1 heck of a booty whipping,lol. I also dont mind him looking at X-rated stuff, cause well i do it too.lol. I cant be a hypocrite now can i. lmao. huggs shay  |
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