Date: 7/21/2002 9:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Who cares what you look like? If it matters to her, she's not that great. Just tell her.. she's moving to a new school anyway and you'll regret not telling her!  |
Date: 7/21/2002 9:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 51306
I would tell her, if you like her that much, tell her! I didn't tell a guy I liked him and I ended up moving and found out he likes me! So its not gonna work out......so tell her! Texas07Sweetie  |
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Date: 7/21/2002 9:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 58318
just tell her. Trust me you'll regret it if you dont. ~Lone Wolf~ |
Date: 7/21/2002 9:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
Take the chance and tell her as you may regret it later on. Have confidence in yourself..I'm sure your a great guy and if she doesn't realize that when you tell her then it's her loss.  Good Luck!  |
Date: 7/21/2002 10:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
it's either tell her or live with it inside.. you can flirt and hint towards it if you like.... but sometimes the message gets lost....you have to kinda find a way to tell her indirectly but her to still get the message that you like her  |
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Date: 7/21/2002 10:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 56565
I say go for it. What do you have to lose? just think about it. You tell her and she likes you as well you have a great relationship...she doesn't like you shes going to a dif school so its not like you will just happen to run into her or whatever. But if you don't tell her you will have to live with the what if. Atleastby telling her you will know what would of could of should of happened. Good luck. Rob |
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Date: 7/22/2002 5:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 58657
Look. If you dont tell her how you feel and she leaves, then what? You only have yourself to blame. No one looks like a fool for telling someone how they feel about another person. The reaction is what you want. Dont think, do! No regrets... Its your choice though. ~Drel |
Date: 7/22/2002 7:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
Tell her! You'll regret not doing it later. Who knows, maybe she secretly likes you too but is to shy to say. .  |
Date: 7/22/2002 8:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 1995
It sounds as though you don't think highly of yourself. We all feel that way sometimes! Whether we think we are too skinny, too fat, too many pimples..whatever! I'm a guy and have been turned down more times than I have been successful! But I tried, and learned from it! I say tell her and expect that you will "get shot down". But one day you will realize that a woman's first defense is to reject a man. You can bet your butt she will feel great after you tell her. She will be the happiest girl around just knowing that someone likes her!Then later you will see signs whether she likes you or not. The first time i asked a girl out, i wrote down what i was gonna say on a piece of paper and read it over the phone..i was chicken! So, don't be scared like i was..GO FOR IT! the worst thing is remembering all the girls that i really liked and didn't ever tell...i still think about them! This way if she is "the one" it will work, if she's not the one, then you are one step closer to finding the one who is and you will be proud that you tried. If she says no, then say.."ok, it's your loss" booglyboo#1995  |
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Date: 7/22/2002 4:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 58050
You sound like a nice guy so if this girl is as nice as she seems to you she will most likely look past ur outside features and see who you really are. And anyways maybe your not as ugly as you think you are maybe you are actually really hot |
Date: 7/22/2002 6:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 59248
I will not say one way or another, but rather, speak from personal experience. This gal, however, started as a friend. So, I told her at the beginning of the summer... she would have to leave for college (I'm HS) and I it was eating me up inside. The feelings were NOT returned, and I felt really dumb. We remained friends over the summer, and I had to ask her "why?" a few DAYS before she left. of course, She didn't know, so I was stuck. Felt dumb again! Over the school year, I tried to check out some other gals, but it didn't work all that well, and I didn't get anywhere. Now, it's this summer, we still do things almost every night and work @ the same place, and are fine... I am just considering a third time..  but point in case: If you're still young, learn body language well, and try to use that to figure out their feelings, I can't read people at all, and it really sucks. Be honest, and, yes, I'd say go for it, but don't get your hopes up... it hurts like crap. |
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Date: 7/22/2002 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 58076
my advice since i am a girl. TELL HER! let her know everything. She will most likely be flattered no matter what happenes. Just tell her! hynie88 |
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Date: 8/5/2002 12:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 55596
Hey Nick-- tell her. You're a really nice guy, Nick. "But what if she rejects me?" Then she sucks, okay? And, she's going to a diff school anyway. Give it your best shot. crayzi. |
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