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Date: 7/18/2002 3:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 56596
well you should sit down whit her and tell her howyou feel and if she done like what she hears you might just have to let her go and make knew frineds that are more supportive . and itf you neeed anyon to talk to on usm just mmassage me!! happyhour |
Date: 7/18/2002 3:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
you gotta stand up to her. Next time she makes you feel bad, tell her exactly how you feel about it. If she keeps it up, cut her off. If she's really a good friend, then she'll realize that's she's made a mistake in losing a friend by treating them badly and she'll apologize and change her behavior towards you.  |
Date: 7/18/2002 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
Well she doesn't sound like a true friend, but I do understand why you want the friendship keep going on.. First try talking to her, obviously from the sounds of it she'll probably get mad, but if she does it's her fault losing a good friend like you.  |
Date: 7/18/2002 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
does she take what you have told her in confidence and use it against you? honestly she doesn't sound like hte best friend.. i think she just wants to be a good friend when it's convient for her.. what isn't right... have you told her that she treats you this way?  |
Date: 7/18/2002 3:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
Sometimes people are trying to be funny when they are in a group and can end up hurting peoples feelings. She may say things that she thinks are funny but they are actually hurting you. So you need to talk with her about that. If she continues then she is not a real friend.  |
Date: 7/18/2002 4:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
Real friends don't treat you like that and belittle you. *AMB907*  |
| Date: 7/18/2002 4:44:00 PM From Authorid: 55652 tell her how you feel, no-1 should make you feel bad especially not your friend, if she says she doesn't care how you feel or something like this do what she does to you, make her feel bad. |
| Date: 7/18/2002 4:53:00 PM From Authorid: 58664 I know exactly how u feel and am going thru the same thing u are going thru. Let me start by saying that misery enjoys company and by her putting u down she is making herself feel betta, which in reality she is a very unhappy person. Friendship is a 50/50 thing and if your the one getting hurt all the time and feeling terrible , tell her how u feel . Maybe things will change if u do. If you already have told her how u felt and she continues to do this maybe its time to distant yourself from her and let her see how is is not to have you around anymore. Your deserve to have fun and laugh with a freind not to be the joke everyone laughs about. ANd maybe i should follow my own advice, but i know its hard cause u care for her but keep your head up and try making other friends beside her that u want to go out wtih. |
| Date: 7/18/2002 7:01:00 PM From Authorid: 58597 My best friend and I have another friend of ours who sounds just like your great friend!! She is exactly the same way I think she does that to make attenton for herself in front of everyone though.That may be exactly what your friend is doing but if she's a real good friend of yours I think you should tell her how you feel when she embarrasses you, maybe she'll stop. "trubluemija" |
Date: 7/18/2002 7:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 56036
i know EXACTLY how u feel! this girl, she hurts me infront of people to give people the impression that she has control over me. she thinks she is better than me. she hits me sometimes and thinks its amusing. i'm trying to stop hanging out with her, i think its working, lol. i just need to find new friends now. tell her how you feel and if she doesnt stop just give her some kinda of threat or something. lol. yea, i cant threaten this girl i know, theres just no way out!  she makes me late for summer school class, i say "but i dont want to be late" and then she pulls her fist up at my face and says "ur gonna get it" and laughs.. but i know that she would hurt me if i didnt do anything she wanted me to do. i suggest talking to your friend about it and telling her how u feel. msg me if u wanna talk bout it! =)*hugz* PUNKy_CHiK |
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