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Date: 7/17/2002 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 58308
Get out of town. Go on vacation. You need time to unwind and get things off of your mind. Stress is not good for you. Most of us has family that lives out of town, find one... and go!! Good Luck!!!!!!!! Hugs Zeeboette  |
Date: 7/17/2002 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 18887
hiya Kaz, i have been close. but i havent. what you do is go in there with confidence, and dont let him scare you. just be yourself, but show no fear  |
Date: 7/17/2002 8:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
Have you talked to someone in rape counseling? If not, you should. Hey,Hey,Paula  |
Date: 7/17/2002 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 55536
If you are giving a victim Impact Statement have it written down. If you show feelings that is OK. Never mind him. The court needs to know how badly you were hurt. If you pretend it doesn't bother you then they will think it wasn't that bad. And it was. I took my father to court when I was twelve. At twelve I didn't have to say much but the fear was the hardest - to sit there in front of him. I didn't look at him. Some people find strength in looking at them That depends on what feels right for you. But no matter what take something with you to help you feel connected to yourself. You don't need to be spacing out and going numb. It often helps if it is something cold like a piece of metal - just small that would fit in your hand - or a small smooth polished stone in your favorite color. Have a friend or support person with you. Most of all this is about YOU taking care of yourself. Good Luck and I hope they lock him up forever - Lady Lee  |
Date: 7/18/2002 2:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
oh i am so sorry about what has happened to u....i have never been to the courts or anything like htat but it must be dreadful i wish u the best of luck for the future!  |
Date: 7/18/2002 11:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
I am sorry this is happening to you, please eat and sleep though!!  |
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