Date: 7/13/2002 11:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 36352
How could she have him put in jail?  |
Date: 7/13/2002 11:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
I would back out and let him breathe. This is a situation that sounds like it is going to get worse before it gets better. I know that this may be hard to understand right now, but later on down the road, you will look back and be thankful that you got out as soon as you did. Good luck! Hey,Hey,Paula
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Date: 7/14/2002 12:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 53055
Well, sorry to have to say this, but I think you've done all that you can do, legally. He'll just have to see this for himself. Sorry that I couldn't be of any help. -bloodstone  |
Date: 7/14/2002 12:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 27270
Quiet honestly,I think you will be glad (later, of course) if you back off let them take care of what they have going on between them. This child is a responsibility of his that will never go away, and therefore his X will ALWAYS be involved. Give them some time to sort this all out and if you still want to be involved in the scenario after they work out their situation go from there, but don't "interrupt" now...sorry to sound so blunt but this is a big deal and if you step out now and look at the big picture after awhile you might feel differently  |
Date: 7/14/2002 6:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 56297
Did u try to worn him? And if u did but he didnt listen. Forget about him let him lead and mess up his own life. Its not ur responsibility to help him its his own responsibilty to help himself. sorry if that just made things worst. lol ----TinaTurner12----  |
Date: 7/14/2002 6:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
Let him learn on his own. you've already warned him.  |
Date: 7/14/2002 10:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 1995
First, I'm sorry for you, it sounds tough. Next I'll have to say back out gracefully. He made a choice, let him live with it. Don't say
"i dont want to see him hurt anymore"..i think ,the truth really is ,you don't wanna lose him. The sad thing is that you already have. Fill your time with the people you love, get strong, get MAD!!! it's ok to be angry. Don't be mad at her, it took 2 to tango. Now they have to think FIRST about the child. The faster you put this behind you, the faster you will find the one that is truly meant for you. Don't hang out with this guy. Just turn it around and say, "I wanted to be with you but you need to focus on your baby, I understand, it wasn't meant to be" then say "Don't call me anymore, it will just hurt me. BYE" i hope this helps, booglyboo#1995  |
Date: 7/14/2002 11:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
first off he has a kid. so dont blame her for him going through a lot.  |
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