Date: 7/13/2002 8:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
i judge people by they way they treat me.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 1432
I believe in lust at first sight.. but not love.. just my opinion though  ..  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 29928
I judge peole by their hearts, not what is on the outside at all..Hugs,  |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 29928
^5 Banner!!!!! |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
It's always great to judge by heart  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 45866
I don't judge because if I did, I wouldn't be liking the guy I like right now...not what my friends and I would call 'hot' or anything. He's just 'cute'.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
I think this is why I enjoy meeting people online..You get to know their inner self, and to me that is the real person..Our outsides are just a pretty wrapping, but the true gift is truly what's on the inside..  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
I judge people by their hearts.....  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Yes.. I judge by cover. I'll admit it. Usually, people will be attracted to someone's looks. Then they get to know them and see if they like them or not. There are chance encounters that someone will not be initially attracted to someone, but will get to know them better and will really like them.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 53129
People are creatures walking around in clouds of assumptions as soon as you see someone you assume things about them, and if people don`t wanna be judged on how they look then they should get all dressed up or put on make up or spends lots of time getting ready for something because what would be the point heh. -x0mb13  |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
yes thats true, we can all say we judge from the inside, but sometimes the outside peel just attracts us, and when you get to know the person, they can turn out to be great, or on the other hand not so great good opinion rika! |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
thats true also, we assume on how people might be because of the way they look, or see how they interact with the others they are with, another great opinion, thank you x0mb13 |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
NanSassy, great point as well, thats what i think, know them online by talkin, no visual, then you know the inner them! |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Thank you Carina. |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
your welcome rika |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 51393
I judged people by their hearts ,trust worthy and patients  |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
thanks for your comment diana |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 55376
I judge people by their looks. If they look stupid, they probably are. Og |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 51393
You're welcome Carina,ifeel people sometimes get over whelmed by others actions and sometimes ,we our left with uncertainty ,and so judgement interfere instead of knowing someone,we tend to bypass the good things people can be.It is just one of those things ,we cannot help to do. |
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Date: 7/13/2002 8:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36994
yes thats true! |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 30986
I judge by the way I'm treated. I am open and honest until I am hurt by someone and learn their true colors. Then it's the end for me. I may talk to them but never trust them the way I use to.  |
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Date: 7/13/2002 9:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 57947
I am with Banner. i dont think you can love someone until you want to know them and they want to let you know if you get what i mean. lust is more because then one can go out on the limb. lovin you |
Date: 7/13/2002 10:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 27845
Beauty fades but a good heart lasts forever.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 57828
sometimes you have to judge a book by its cover. not to know their inner beauty but to figure out if they want to mug you or not. meh i tried |
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Date: 7/13/2002 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 57828
Not to mention you get alot of information about that person just by observing him/her |
Date: 7/14/2002 9:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 22681
I understand what you mean. Of course I'll think a guy is "hot", but I wouldn't fall in love or anything, I'd have to get to know a person, first. ~*~RunrGurl~*~  |
Date: 7/14/2002 7:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 47696
That is very true. And lots of people forget this.
Love StormDragon  |
Date: 7/15/2002 10:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
Yes I agree with you. Meaness or generosity hasn't anything to do with looks. Yet we still judge people that way. I found that as I got older I judged people less by their looks. I must point out that men on the whole tend to judge on looks more than women. It's something innate. Men are controlled by their physical needs (see I'm trying to be good mother!) and women by their mental needs. Generally speaking! Trouble is that most of us can't see people's spirits, just the physical. There's an old song that my grandfather used to sing, it goes: "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife!" LOL... Coolade  |
Date: 7/15/2002 9:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 45158
is their really beauty i mean it is just what people, media describe as what it is decieving us into believing it, beauty is in the eye of the beholder  |
Date: 7/15/2002 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
Depends. Can people be really honest here, please. If my husband gained two hundred pounds, stopped bathing, brushing his teeth and washing his hair then I'm out of here. I try not to judge people but there are limits to anything. Rotten, dirty, teeth, greasy hair, foul body odor, so overweight that one can barely walk, sorry but I pity them. Sure beautiful and clean people can be mean but so can dirty, smelly ones too.  |
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Date: 7/16/2002 5:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 58187
I honestly believe some people have a pyschic connection in which when they see the right person they know. I know that happened to me. I dated a lot through the years and not once just by looking at any of them did I feel in love at first site. But then I met a special girl and we both knew we were meant to be the first day. People are noticeable wether they speak or not. The reactions they produce are enough evidence to know if they are confortable or not around you. |
Date: 7/16/2002 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 39763
I judge people by what's on the inside. I think everyone should, I mean I know all of you do but other people just assume things about that person by the way they look.... for example, you could meet a person that you don't think is very attractive, but he/she could turn out to be a caring friend of yours that you'll never forget I have some of those...they're the best! I mean I don't think they,re ugly, but you know....they're beautiful inside & out great post, Carina! *hugz*  |
Date: 7/16/2002 10:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 49021
I personally get tired of being lumped into the criminal category just because i have long hair tattoos and piercings.I get followed around stores and eyeballed everywhere i go like i am the devil incarnate.Yes i chose to look the way i do but still these people dont know me so what gives them the idea that they are good enough to judge someone. I dont judge anyone b4 i get to know the person!  |
Date: 7/16/2002 10:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 58400
I hate being judged like that. I don't dress the way your "everyday girl" or whatever you wanna call it would. I dress to please me, and to make me happy. I can't make everyone else happy. So why bother? Everyone at one point or another has judged a person on looks, or something as equally shallow as that. Sometimes you can't help it. It's human nature. I also don't like it when people, mostly teens are put into the little "groups" such as the jocks, the preps, the stoners..ect.. I really hate that. But I don't feel anything with ever change, and i don't expect it to. X Jersey Attitude X  |
Date: 7/19/2002 9:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 47700
hey carina well i must say i am a strong believer in not judging ppl by how they look but i must say i have slipped a couple times and caught myself doing it even though i have tryed so hard not to.  |
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Date: 7/25/2002 12:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 57703
CARINA THATS TRUE BECAUSE I COULD TALK TO PEOPLE I CAN SEE WHAT THEYRE ARE |
